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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

Heyy..i seriously recommand that you talk to him and like just be yourself and get to know him even though hes shy but just like take things slowly dont like rush into you guys going out because if you rush into a relationship its not going to last that long..beacause you guys dont know eachother..but the main thing that you should do is just talk to him and get to know him and let him get comfortable around you..remember just be yourself =D..Good Luck Hun!!
[♥]Dina

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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I like him alot and want to spend time with him. He on the other hand likes to spend alot of time alone. I wouldn't see for a week or longer and I was starting to get really sad. I asked him about it and he said that while he loves me, he just needs time to himself. I told him that I needed to spend time with him and go out and stuff and he agrred to see me more often.

I want to feel connected to him, but he wants to go home everytime I start to feel happy and start to feel connected to him. He won't spend the night. I know he is NOT cheating and he only works part time. All of his friends say that he has always been like this. I am afraid that there I will get to a point where I want more than he is willing to give me. He is great to me otherwise and we have a wonderful time whenever we are together. I know we haven't been together that long, I just am not sure what to do.

Maybe hes going through a tuff time i havent seen my boyfriend in 2 months but i dont feel like were not connected because i love him alot and im pretty sure he loves me too,just try and talk to him about it and tell him that you want to spend more time with him..well good luck hope it all works out..
[♥]DiNA

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well im in love wi this girl. and she keeps talkin about all these guys she likes. what should i do.

well i think that you should let her know how you feel and tell her that you dont like it if you dont..i do that to my boyfriend but im just messing with him and he gets mad at me so i need to stop..but tell her how you feel about her..good luck,
[♥]DiNA

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two years ago i started going out with this boy he was 15 i was like 16 i didnt really like him that much we had sh together in school and he would always sit behind me and pass me these pieces of paper that said things like your hott and whats your phone number i just thought he was a funny guy. well that summer we got closer and started dating. after a month i broke up with him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore, but things didnt end alltogether we became friends w benefits. then he started dating this other girl who im now best friends with. they recently broke up and now she has a diff bf. fri the 13th he asked me over and we had sex again. its been like 13 days and i havent heard from him and we havent talking in school either. what should i do or say to him?

umm..i think that you should go up to him and talk to him about it and see whats up because i think that he was ust using you for that night and you shouldnt have done that because now your friend might get mad wehn she hears if..well good luck,hope you used protection..
[♥]DiNA

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The kid I love that i went out with a few times and another boy i went out with hung out last night. The other boy is a complete a**hole and i hate him. He's an extremeeee jerk. The other boy im not with but i love, im just afraid that he'll turn into the other boy. I htink they smoke and drank last night because the other oy wanted to. I'm just afraid the kid i love is gonna change into the other boy. Why do you think I'm feeling like this and should I be this upset and worried about it? I feel like crying :/

i think that you just care about him alot and thats why your so upset, but i think that you should let the "boY" know that you LOVE him because he should know..and just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him hanging out with the other boy..and its alright if oyur upset just try and think of the good things,dont be sad.. hope it all works out
[♥]DiNA

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How do I impress the girl I like very much?
How do I ask her on a date? Please, I need help with the whole girl thing.

just act like yourself dont act like your all that and stuff just be yourself, and one day go up to her and be like hey do you want to hang out or something, or go on a date and get to know her more,hope it works out =)
[♥]DiNA

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I'm starting to like one my best friends... and likewise. We cuddle a lot and everything, but we've never done anything more ; not even kiss. He's not affectionate at all, and we talked about this. He said it's because whenever he shows affection, he always ends up getting treated like shit, and whenever he tells people secrets, they use them against him. This leads to the problem where... it's impossible for him to be serious. He's the worlds biggest goofball. He said he's like that because it's just easier when everyone thinks you're kidding... nobody can embarrass you ; nobody can make an idiot out of you. He hates how he is... and so do I. What can I do to help?

Hey, i really think that you should tell him not to care so much about what other people say beacause people are hecka rude and they will use your secrets against you and tell him that he shouldnt tell alot of people about his secrets because you cant always trust everyone, i hope everything works out..
[♥]DiNA

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I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.

We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.

It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's going to try to make a move. I don't particularly want to go, but I don't want to rude.

My real question is what should I wear? Should I look hot so I feel good and appear to be in control of the situation and then like blue ball him for badgering me for so long. Or.. should I wear like sweats and look schleppy in hopes of him maybe backing down?

Either way I don't think I'm leading him on because he knows I'm not intersted. Looking for answers asap- this date is tonight!

i dont think that you should dress up for him because hes going to think that your into him, and then he might want to make a move, but just dress what you feel comfortable in..if he trys to like make amove be like okay no this isnt working out because were just friends..hopefully hell get the point,good luck and have fun =),
[♥]DiNA

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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something?

if he was infected with like STD or AIDS then theres a 100% possibility that you caught something, thats why you shouldve used a CONDOM,well good luck..see a doctor go get tested,alright?
[♥]DiNA

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I am really bad at seperating boyfriends from friends. Is the only difference between having a boyfriend and having guy friends is that you can kiss and hold hands with your boyfriend? I guess I have a problem..cause I treat my boyfriend the same way as my guy friends. Does anybody have an ideas how I can let him know that I really do like him as my boyfriend? Cause I am starting to convince myself that we should just be friends. Thanks.
14/f

you should NEVER ever treat your boyfriend like your guy friend they are way MORe different and specialer than that =), some ways that you can show him that you like him as a boyfriend is just like act like he is hang out with him, talk to him about anything, and treat him like your BOYFRIEND not a GUY FRIEND, or you can say I LOVE YOU, but only if you mean it,hope it works out...
[♥]DiNA

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Supp girl well i have a Question da girl i like her b/day is comein up and i really wanan buy her something nice that she will like but am not sure what to so0 u a girl and u might now whats nicee to buy aytt txzzz

well i dont know what to tell you because i dont like the same things as the girl you like because i dont even know her..hehe, you can buy her a ring maybe flowers lmao or some type of spray maybe even like a shirt just ask her what she likes and like get clues and try and put something together, i mean she'll like it whatever it is as long as its from you.. ya know, well good luck =) hope i helped..
[♥]DiNA !!

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how do i kno when i'm over someone or not. i'm going out with a cool boy (going on 2 months) but idk if i like him still or not or if i should break up with him. How do you know these things?

p.s. I also think this other guy that doesnt know me is hott and awesome. but i dont kno how I know if i like my bf or not or want to break up....any help is appreciated

hey !! you know that your over someone by not like having any feelings for him and like i dont know you know these things when he tells you that he loves you but you feel wierd because you cant say it back and he should get the point at sometime i mean me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and some days now but we still feel the same about eachother and i just think that you should trust yourself and like they say "follow your heart && wherever it leads you too" and also be careful not to hurt ur boyfriend because guys have feelings too .. lol and maybe you should let that boy know how you feel about him and also be honest with your boyfriend !! hope i helped !! ♥DiNA !!

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

uhm..i know some love songs but not having to do with that subject here ill give them to you and if you likve them then yeah.. stickwitu-pussycat dolls, dont wanna try-frankie j, listen to your heart-D.H.T., because of you - kelly clarkson, gone so young - amber pacific, dats all i can think of right now so just listen to them and if you need more just im me on i LOVE Y0OW xOx !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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recently me and my boyfriend of over a year broke up for about a day because we didnt treat eachother very well. i want to show him now that we are back together that i will always treat him very well and that i am treatin him very well. im almost 17 and hes just turned 16. also i need ideas on what to do for him/ get him for xmas. i want a bunch of diff ideas and i also really want ideas on stuff i can put together or make him. hes in a band he plays guitar and bass and he sings and he loves music and punk music. thanks in advance!

hey well first off you should ask him what he likes like you know be sneaky about it and like ask him what his favorite color is and like that that would help you out on like buying him something and you could also get into some ideas where like you can make him dinner and stuff becuz i think that, that would be hecka cute !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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hey i was just wondering how do i get a boy to like me i mean some do but there ugly and i have never had a bf and i want one baddd reall badd i never even been kissed ugh please tell me something to do to get a bf!!! im in 8th grade and im 14/f i need help!!haha i hope you can. . tnx

hey..umm well all you got to do foreal is like be yourself you know and like be outgoing and just have fun dont care about what people think about you or stuff like that.. dont worry you'll get your kiss no rush hun!!lol!!and im sure your like gonna find that one special person i know its corny lol!! well hope i helped!!xoxodina♥!!

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I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?

HEY UMM WELL ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR EX HOW YOU FEEL AND THEN YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR BOYFRiEND AND YOU ALSO HAVE TO THiNK ABOUT HOW HES GOiNG TO FEEL iF YOU CHEAT ON HiM BUT i MEAN iF YOUR EX DOESNT LiKE YOU THEN YOU REALLY SHOULDNT WASTE YOUR TYME ON HiM BECAUSE HES GOiNG TO BE LiKE YEAH HAHA SHES NOT OVER ME YET AND STUFF AND HES GOiNG TO BE LiKE i CAN GET HER ANYTiME i WANT BUT i THiNK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO HiM AND iF HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND JUST TRY AND FORGET ABOUT HiM SLOWLY iTS GOiNG TO TAKE TYME iM LiKE THAT TO i STiLL HAVE FEELiNGS FOR MY EX BUT HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND AND i TOLD HiM HOW i FELT BUT HE JUST SAiD i LOVE YOU LiKE A HOMiE LOL! SO YEAH AND iM GETTiNG OVER HiM SLOWLY! iF YOU NEED TO TALK OR ANYTHiNG YOU CAN iM ME ON OOOS3Xii BABiiOO OR LILBUNIHUNED OR E-MAiL ME ON Xx3DiiNaxX@aol.com! HOPE i HELPED! XoXoDiiNA! ♥

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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now?

UMMM...ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD GO GET A TEST JUST TO BE ON THE SAFE SiiDE YOU KNOW! AND YOU NEED TO TELL HiiM TO STOP WORRiiNG AND TO STOP STRESSiiNG YOU OUT!HOPE ii HELPED!XoXoDiiNA!♥

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ok... so i really like this guy... but my gurls will get mad at me if i go out with him... he likes me too.... and my gurls me the world to be and i dont want them to be mad!!!... idk what to do!! please help me!

OKAY..UM FiIRST OFF THEY SHOULDNT BE MAD AT YOU iiF THEY ARE YOUR REAL GiiRLS ii MEAN THAT MAKES THEM SOUND A LiiTTLE JEALOUS DONT CHA THiiNK! BUT ii KNOW THEY MEAN EVERYTHiiN TO YOU BECAUSE MY FRiiENDS MEAN EVERYTHiiN TO ME TOO! BUT YOU SHOULD JUST TALK TO THEM AND BE LiiKE WELL YOU GUYS ii REALLY LiiKE THiiS GUY AND iiF THEY ARE TRUE THEY SHOULD SUPPORT YOU TO THE FULLEST!WELL HOPE ii HELPED! XoXoDiiNA!♥

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there is this guy at my school that i like,. we really don't know each other that well b/c we don't hang out at all. how do i get the nerve to ask him if he wants to hang out with me if i'm to shy to say anything other than hello? b/c i think he should have the right to know how i feel.

HEY ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND GO TALK TO HiiM ii MEAN COME ON WHATS THERE TO LOSE iiTS NOT LiiKE HES GOiiN TO SAY GET THE FREAK AWAii FROM ME! JUST BE VERii FRiiENDLii AND STAii CALM AND DONT WORRii EVERYTHiiN WiiLL BE FiiNE HES JUST A GUY!ii USED TO BE SHY TOO BUT NOT ANYMORE SO ii NO HOW YOU FEEL!HOPE ii HELPED! XoXoDiiNA!♥

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well i have been crushing on this guy at my school name Shaun. i have liked him for two years now, but i'm not sure if he really knows i like him or if it's a trick that his sister is playing on him. even though he broke my heart when he turned my down at the school dance i still like him alot. why won't he talk to me?

HEY ..UMM ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL HiiM HOW YOU FEEL AND HE MiiGHT UNDERSTAND..BECAUSE SOME GUYS CAN BE VERii NiiCE AND UNDERSTANDiiN BUT YOU DONT KNOW HE MiiGHT NOT LiiKE YOU BUT YOU SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT iiT BECAUSE iiF HE DONT THEN THATS HiiS LOSE! HOPE ii HELPED! XoXoDiiNA ♥

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