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how do i kno when i'm over someone or not. i'm going out with a cool boy (going on 2 months) but idk if i like him still or not or if i should break up with him. How do you know these things?
p.s. I also think this other guy that doesnt know me is hott and awesome. but i dont kno how I know if i like my bf or not or want to break up....any help is appreciated <3
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Hey there! The best thing is to follow your heart in this situation. Ultimately, it won't lead you in the wrong direction. If you sincerely feel that the relationship is not working, then you should follow it, and if it's going really good, then the best thing is to stay in it. In every situation though, your heart and head also need to guide and so if you know that this guy that you are going out thinks you are really cool too, then you should kind of consider being with someone who you don't really know well. But if you truely and deeply feel that it's not working out, and that you may be breaking this guy's heart by being with him and you don't really feel the same way, then you should also think about ending the relationship. Overall, only you know what's best for you. Look at both sides of the sitauation and make your decision. I wish you the best of luck.
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If you have to ask the question you aren't into him as much as you were in the beginning of your relationship. What you might consider doing is asking him if y'all can take a break from each other for a while. This way you both can explore your feelings for each other. You can also see other people for a while. One thing I do want to mention though. At some point in your life you will settle on someone who will be your choice as your life partner. You will love this person above all others. You will still see some guy who you will think is hot. There will still be people who you will have a strong chemical reaction to. This is called lust not love. You won't act upon these feelings because of your love for your partner. No one ever stops looking or flirting. These are fun things. That doesn't mean we have to act upon these feelings. Your young and have a lot of exploring to do before you reach this stage. That's why I suggest you brake up for a little while so you can check it out. It could be that you do truly love him. You see love is about comfort, trust, reliability, and friendship. The lust goes away after a while, but love continues on. That's what becomes confusing for most people. They think love is about the lust, but that is farthest from the truth. Your exploration may help you see this. Your a smart person. Go with your instincts. I bet there is a little voice inside you telling you what would be best for you, but you are ignoring it. Listen to your heart. Ultimately you know what will be your best move. Don't worry about hurting someone else. This is an unfortunate fact of life. I hate hurting people too, but who you should be about is what is best for you. I'm not telling you to go out there and string people along only to drop them and hurt them. I'm saying that when it comes down to this type of decision you must go with your needs first. It will be better for your boyfriend as well no matter how hard it may seem at first.
Namaste,
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the best thing you can do is if you are that unsure is to take a break-tell the guy you are witht hat your not sure of what your feelingand before it goes any further you think it would be best if you break up. Sounds to me like you need to find your self but ont be with someone until your sure of yourself.you are going to have alot of boys come and go--you seem to be young so dont get ties up with one person if your that unsure--my finace just left me after 2 yrs and it was b/c he thought its what he wanted and he realized it wasnt--talk about heartbreak--so i think you need to find yourself talk to him and let him know how your feeling the best thing you can do is comminicate! and be hinest--thats what makes or breaks a relationship good luck
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hey !! you know that your over someone by not like having any feelings for him and like i dont know you know these things when he tells you that he loves you but you feel wierd because you cant say it back and he should get the point at sometime i mean me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and some days now but we still feel the same about eachother and i just think that you should trust yourself and like they say "follow your heart && wherever it leads you too" and also be careful not to hurt ur boyfriend because guys have feelings too .. lol and maybe you should let that boy know how you feel about him and also be honest with your boyfriend !! hope i helped !! ♥DiNA !!
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