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My relationship
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I like him alot and want to spend time with him. He on the other hand likes to spend alot of time alone. I wouldn't see for a week or longer and I was starting to get really sad. I asked him about it and he said that while he loves me, he just needs time to himself. I told him that I needed to spend time with him and go out and stuff and he agrred to see me more often.
I want to feel connected to him, but he wants to go home everytime I start to feel happy and start to feel connected to him. He won't spend the night. I know he is NOT cheating and he only works part time. All of his friends say that he has always been like this. I am afraid that there I will get to a point where I want more than he is willing to give me. He is great to me otherwise and we have a wonderful time whenever we are together. I know we haven't been together that long, I just am not sure what to do.
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Some people just need space. It sounds like you don't, so maybe you should arrange to just be friends.
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I think you should tell him exactly how you feel. If he respects your point of view than...great! if you both want to make this work, you have to compromise.
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Maybe hes going through a tuff time i havent seen my boyfriend in 2 months but i dont feel like were not connected because i love him alot and im pretty sure he loves me too,just try and talk to him about it and tell him that you want to spend more time with him..well good luck hope it all works out..
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some people jsut dont enjoy going out or staying with people for a long period of time. if this is something that is big in your life then maybe you two arent good together. if you can talk to him enough and try to find out wat really makes him do this maybe you can change his ways.
but this is a big part of relations ships, spending time together, so you never know how far it might go.
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