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hey my name's Sam~* i'm 14. i'm a brunette w/ brown eyes. i'm a cheerleader, & gymnast. i run track, and play volleyball. i have awesome *&* crazy friends that i love very much. i'm pretty outgoing once you get to know me. i like shopping, going to the movies, hanging out w/ friends, stuff like that. i'm great at giving advice, bc i've gone through a lot of stuff that you guys are going through. i'm a really sweet person, and a good listener! so don't be shy, ask me a question and i'll try my best to give you a good answer! and if you ever need more help, feel free to IM me on AIM anytime=)


Some More About Me



[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: October 18th, 1990
[c]olors: pink, purple, blue
[d]ream boy: blonde hair, blue or green eyes, built, smells good, muscles..sweet, romantic..all that good stuff :-P
[e]yes: brown
[f]riends: they know who they are =)
[g]rade average: A's and B's
[h]air color: brunette
[i]ntersets: cheerleading & gymnastics
[j]obs: besides going to school, babysitting..
[k]razy: lol, sometimes..
[l]ocation: Pennsylvania
[m]aritral statis: single, for now
[n]ame: Samantha aka Sam
[o]bsession: the movie "The Notebook"
[p]izza: stuffed crust
[q]uote: have you ever wondered which hurts more? saying something and wishing you hadn't..or saying nothing, and wishing you had.
[r]ace: white
[s]ong: Candyshop -50 cent ft. Olivia
[t]ell something about you: easily hurt, and easily jealous.
[u]nbelievablly embarrising moment: the bottom of my pants ripped and i didn't notice, so i walked around school like that until one of my friends told me..and now i look back and laugh at it=)
[v]ery best thing about me: i'm a really good friend.
[w]orst thing about me: not always fully honest
[x]tremly darin stunts: well, i went down a big snowboarding run thing and i didnt know how to snowboard..ending=me on my ass
[y]ummy food: hmmm, prob. any junk food, lol
[z]odiac: Libra

**want to know anything else, just ask me!:-)




~*ratings *&* feedbacks are appreciated..xoxo

advice

The guy who I really like thinks I'm obsessed with him. I'm not and I want to show him that I'm not. What can I do to show him that I'm not obsessed with him?

hmm..well i'd just not talk to him as much, or flirt w/ him. guys usually don't like it if girls try to hard. so if you like usually wait for him somewhere..don't, and if he says "hey" just be like "oh hey" and smile and then walk away or something. just totally back off to prove that ur not obsessed or anything. hope i helped..let me know what happens.xoxo

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i'm 13,female, my boyfriend is 15 and I don't know what to get him for valentines day and he says it's up to me on were we go that day. I want to no on what i could get him and were do you think would be the best places/place to go.

hey! for the place..i'd say either out to dinner, or maybe to see a movie =) and for the gift..either his favorite cologne, or maybe a shirt? if you know he's too picky about clothes..then just get him a gift card to one of his favorite stores. a card would be cute too! hope i helped-*xoxo

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

it depends on how you feel. do you still love him or are you over him? and even if you still love him, is there any other guys that you have your eye on? if there's not, and you still love him, i say talk it out w/ him and get back together! if you do love him but there might be another guy you kinda like, i'd wait awhile and see if ur feelings for the other guy grow..let me know what happens! hope i helped*xoxo

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hey i have a ? and i REALLY need an anwser and you sem to know what you are talkin so i will ask you ok i really like this guy ill cal him ryan and he is goin out with my friend he knows that i like him and he and i have done some stuff but i have always felt badly about it like it is nothingbad but stuff you shouldnt be doing with other girls if you have a girlfriend yya know? and well he and his girlfriend have broken up twice ( i caused it partly the first time) and then they broke up again last night and well his profile still; says i love blank and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME!

try talking to him about it, if he won't tell you who it is, then ask some of his friends to find out. if it is you, find out if your friend still has feelings for him. if not, i say go for it. if she does..then you might wanna think about who means more to you and if going out w/ this guy is more important then ur friendship w/ her. but i guess that depends on how much u like the guy and how close you are w/ the girl. anyways, hope i helped, let me know what happens! xoxo*

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how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?

the best thing you can do, is call her Every night if possible and talk w/ her. you could also talk to her online and stuff..just make sure you guys stay really close. and whenever you guys do see eachother be really sweet and affectionate, other than that there's nothing that you can really do. there's always that chance that'll she like some guy that she sees everyday in school. good luck, hope i helped*xoxo

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i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer!

i was in the same position last week except he was going out w/ my Bestfriend. how serious are him and his gf? if you really like him, and you think he's worth the while then you just have to be patient, try to talk to him more in school, and on the computer or phone. and eventually he'll see what a great girl you are and you guys will become really close. once your close friends start flirting w/ him when you see him in the hallways or if you guys are at the same place w/ friends outside of school..he'll eventually see what an osm girl you are and like you back! hope i helped, let me know how everything goes! *xoxo

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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help

just tell him that you like being friends w/ him and you wouldn't want to go out with him and take the chance of ruining your friendship, that way your saying it nicely and he won't get hurt! hope i helped*xoxo

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k im 15 and ive kissed but never made out b4 yes sad i know. anyways i was wondering, exactly how do u do it? and am i the only 15 year old who hasn't?

your deff. not the only 15 yr old who hasn't done it, i know lots of girls in my school who haven't. and it's not your fault your not a slut and makeout w/ just any guy. it's really hard to explain how you do it, you basically just stick your tongue in and out lol. just let him lead. dont worry about it, it just comes naturally, and its one of those things you laugh about later on. hope i helped*xoxo

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I am a 14 year old female
ok, my boyfriend and i have just started going out so the relationship is still a little akward. He is really shy so we dont talk much. But his best friend; who hooked us up, i think likes me too. b/c he is always talking to me n flirting. I whink i could have a better relationship with the other guy(not my boyfriend)but i dont want to throw away a good relaionship b/c he might just be a little nervous. I am so confused.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im sorry its so long!!

hey! i think you should talk to your boyfriend. give him a week or so to come around, like you said..he's prob. just nervous. try making the first move..call him, and try to make him feel more comfortable around you. if he really likes you, and get's to know you..he'll come around. if he doesnt improve in a couple of weeks, and you don't see the relationship going anywhere, and you like the other guy, then i'd break up w/ him. hope i helped*xoxo

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ok...i have been going out with this guy for about a month now...he has become one of my best friends too...any ways....my friend is all over him ALL the time! she hugs him, holds his hands...and i dont like it...im going out with him not her! im not jealous....i just dont like it! what should i do!?!?!? thank you soooo much!

maybe she likes him..did you ever suspect that before you started going out w/ this guy? i thnk you should sit her down, and talk to her about it. but don't sound all rude and mad and stuff bc then you'll just cause a fight. just nicely tell her that it's bothering you etc, and if she's your bestfriend..then she'll back off. then, i'd talk to your boyfriend too, if he's flirting back then chances are he might have feelings for her and you..so ask him if he likes her more then a friend. hope i helped*xoxo

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ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover

i think the guy that broke up w/ you sounds like a jerk. he couldnt have cared about you that much if he didn't even want to give you a chance to explain yourself. and if he doesnt wanna look at your or talk to you, then he's not worth your time. the guy your w/ now sounds like such a sweetheart, i'd try your best to get over the first guy and just move on w/ your life. i know moving on from guys that you Really liked can be hard..but sometimes once you do move on, it makes your life 1000000 times better. hope i helped~xoxo*

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Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.

seems to me like he still likes you. he probably didn't talk to you at first bc it was akward for him since you broke up. and it sounds like if your thinking about your past together, then maybe you still like him to. i'd keep talking to eachother, and hang out etc. and see if you start to have strong feelings for eachother again. this is one of those things where you just have to wait and see what happens.

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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..

so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me

my personal opinion is that you should break up w/ him. you should never be going out w/ someone that is weird for you to be around. and if you have feelings for your ex still, then it's not fair for ur boyfriend that you have feelings for another guy. you should avoide breaking up with him in public, bc it could be embarrassing for him, so i'd do it somewhere alone-ish. just sit him down and explain to him how you feel so he understands why your dumping him. and tell him that you still wanna be friends and stuff, and if he's a nice guy, and u explain all ur reasons, he should understand. now as for your ex situation. if you can't get over him, maybe it's because your not supposed to. try talking to him as friends and see if anything ends up happening between you. if your comparing him to all your new boyfriend then you deff. still really like him. but you said he's going out w/ your friend..so like i said just talk to him as a friend and see what happens from there. just don't start to get all flirty flirty w/ him, you wouldnt want to hurt your friendship w/ the other girl. hope my advice helped!~*

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