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my best friend flirts with my boyfriend!!
ok...i have been going out with this guy for about a month now...he has become one of my best friends too...any ways....my friend is all over him ALL the time! she hugs him, holds his hands...and i dont like it...im going out with him not her! im not jealous....i just dont like it! what should i do!?!?!? thank you soooo much!
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I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him you don't want her to hang all over him and that he needs to tell her to stop. Then hopefully it will stop. If not then you have to tell her straight out you don't want her hanging on him. Hope I helped! Blessed be!
~Candy the Wiccan
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Tell her to stop. Because if she were your friend she wouldnt do that. She has no right to be even remotely flirting with him. Just tell her that its pissing you off and if shes your friend then she should be able to understand. Hope i helped, and good luck! :)
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u should talk to ur boyfriend and tell him u dont like it. say it in a nice way though.
from,Jonathan
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tell her to back off. say hey thats my man not urs.. its ok to be a little mean bc she has no right being all over ur bf right in front of you
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Talk to your friend, it's that easy. Tell her that it bothers you when she's touching your boyfriend more than you are and if she doesn't quit then you can't be friends with her. That's really all you can do.. Oh and talk to your boyfriend also, because maybe he doesn't realize he's letting your friend do that stuff.
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you're not the only girl who doesn't like things like that, most girls don't, talk to your boyfriend then talk to your friend tell them that you don't like it and it's going to stop, don't beat around the bush because that won't get you anywhere, just be straight forward and honest
*~*shan*~*
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Ask her why she does those things to him. Ask her if she likes him and if she says yes then just be like ok and tell your bf that you don't like it when she does that or if she does it again around you then just take his hand from her and start holding it and walk out of the room. She shouldn't be doing that, you are right it's your bf, not hers and she has no right. That isn't something you are getting jealous over, it's just that it's your right to do all of those things, not hers. -Kayla
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tell your friend that you dont want to b mean but u dont like it when shes all over ur boyfriend, if she is nice enough she will understand. just make it clear to her that shes urs but try to b nice.
hope i helped
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maybe she likes him..did you ever suspect that before you started going out w/ this guy? i thnk you should sit her down, and talk to her about it. but don't sound all rude and mad and stuff bc then you'll just cause a fight. just nicely tell her that it's bothering you etc, and if she's your bestfriend..then she'll back off. then, i'd talk to your boyfriend too, if he's flirting back then chances are he might have feelings for her and you..so ask him if he likes her more then a friend. hope i helped*xoxo
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Talk to your friend. Try to avoid sounding jealous and posessive of your boyfriend, but don't just not say anything if it's making you uncomfortable. Talk to her when there's a quiet moment when it's just the two of you and she doesn't seem to have anything on her mind. Be polite and non-accusitorial - "I don't know what you think about this, but sometimes it makes me feel uncomfortable when your really touchy-feely with (name of boy)" is much better than "You're always flirting with my boyfriend!"
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HIT THAT BITCH!
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