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how do you kiss
do you suck as your kissing or what all do you do please detailed
dont say it will come naturally please
It all depends on the person.
Some people will suck the bottom lip or bite it gently, to make it more seductive. Don't hold your breath, breathe gently through your nose.
Also, don't wet your lips too much beforehand. Trust me, they'll get wet lol.
You'll get the hang of it.
I know it sounds really lame, but I realy do! I don't know if he likes me back, my friends say he does, and he's really protective of me, but I'm too scared to ruin our relationship to do anything! Somebody please help me!
I've been in love with my best friend for three and a half years. I didn't want to tell him because I didn't know if he felt the same way and I didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then about three months ago I just kissed him. Turns out, he likes me too. He has since the day we met but was too afraid to do anything.
My point is, you have to take the chance. You could go years wishing you told him how you felt. If he doesn't like you, but he's really that great of a friend, he'll probably just pretend like you never said anything. So go for it. =] Things might work out between you. It did for me, and I've never been happier.
ok...me and this guy broke up like 4 months ago. and scince then i have still been in love with him. but he dosent even think i like him more than a freind. ok newayz...scince we broke up he hasnt shown any signs watsoever of still liking me.but then all of the sudden out of the blue last night hes like i love you so much and he was just gushing about how much he loved me. is this for real? or is he just being stupid and getting my hopes up? wat should i do?
Tell him you've liked him since you've broken up and see what he says. It can't hurt to tell him and maybe he does feel the same way about you. Don't get your hopes up though... guys can be confusing.
What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?
I'm in the same boat as you. I really like this guy who doesnt believe in God and I do. We've known each other for almost 2 years and I've liked him since the first day I met him. He's asked me out a couple times but each time I turned him down because he doesn't believe in God. We're still really good friends, and yes I still really like him, but I think it wouldn't work out because I care about God more than anything ... even him and my family and friends and my sole purpose in life is to go to heaven to be with Him eternally. It was painful for me to turn him down but I think you two should just remain friends. He wouldn't understand your beliefs about God. Just pray for him, talk to him about God and all his miracles and show him proof that He is here. And if he asks why God is almighty and powerful but yet lets so much even into the world tell him that everybody has their own free will and he lets us have our own choices. If we love Him so much we will seek him out on our own but He will guide us to him. Everybody has a choice on whether they want to believe in Him or not. If you can, try to get him to read books about God or Mary. You can find these books at a bookstore or even places like Wal-Mart and Target should have them.
Pray for him that he finds the way to God but I would suggest you don't go out with him. It's your decision though :)
Hope I helped!
Rachel
so this guy... i didnt really like him... at 1st he was sorda creepy, always lookin at me. But now i see him and i like him. He seems really sweet but shy. I dont think he has the courage to come up to me and ask me out or talk for that matter... and im not known to go up to a guy and talk to him right away. I sorda get nervous around guys... but i really want to get to know him more... what can i do ... so im not so nervous around him... and wat are some signs i can show him?? (turnabout is coming up and i want to ask him but i dont know any good ways or if he'll say yes... bc i dont know if he likes me)
Smile at him or say hi to him every once in awhile to show him that you like him. Ask him how his weekend was or if u have any of the same classes ask him if he understood the homework. You could have one of your friends let him know that you're interested in him. As for tournabout, you won't know what he'll say and the only way to find out is to ask him. Just say something like so... who are you going to tournabout with? If he says nobody say, would you like to go with me? or "we should go together" Just have little conversations a few times a week or something and soon you should come out of your shyness and so should he. Hope I helped! =c)
Hey! I love ur site!! anywho... how do i get this guy to notice/like me. We aare both in the same religion class (but sit no where near eachother) and we are both in track but never practice by each other. I try to smile at him and before it seemed like he was liking me (he would always look at me and stuff) I want to get to know him and hang out with him and stuff (see movies and stuff) So how can i get him to notice me??? Let me know!! Thanksss!
Well if you say he's already been looking at you I think he's noticed you =c). After track practice or religion practice just go up to him and talk to him about what you guys did that day and when you're saying goodbye ask for his number and say you'll call him that night. Or ask him if he wants to go to a movie sometime. That should get his attention more. Be yourself around him and don't try to act like anybody else because guys don't like that. To get him to notice you though you have to talk to him and once you get that down everything should start to work out. Be outgoing and nice but don't try to be something you're not. I hope everything works out between you two! =c)
well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot
The worst he can say is no. It's not the end of the world if a guy turns you down. It's gonna happen eventually anyway. Just ask him out! Otherwise you won't know how he feels about you and you'll be bugging yourself from now on why you didn't tell him how you feel. Guys like it when a girl tells him she likes him. Hope I helped!
rach3l
ok my best friend has this secret admirer but i know who it is its a girl but she really wants to know who it is but if i tell her it might hurt the other gurl thats "bysexual" and i'd feel really bad so what should i do helpppp!!!!!!!!!!
You might as well tell her or she'll find out anyway and get mad at you for not telling her. Just say that you don't want her to say anything to the girl who likes her or hurt her in any way. If she's your best friend she'll listen. Hope I helped!
Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?
Write him a not and ask him if he likes you. Just tell him you really like him and want to know if he feels the same way and tell him to write back. That way you won't have to face him if you get really nervous you just have to hand him the note. Hope I helped!
rache3l
If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!
No it won't. They only show that stuff in like movies but it never really happens. Just be careful because your tongue can get cut really easily and you wouldn't want to be bleeding in the other persons mouth =c).
I'm 21 and dating a guy right now. He reminds me of an axboyfriend of mine that died. He was my first and my first love too. This new guy reminds me of my ex so much. He acts the same, has the same mannerisms, dresses the same--as in neither of them ever wore blue jeans---and I'm falling so hard for this guy. I'm afraid of losing him again. I think it's a sign that I was supposed to meet and hook up with him. We're taking things real slow..and that's because we like each other so much...what's your imput?
It's fine what you're doing. There's always a chance of losing somebody, but it's a chance you have to take if you love him or think you do. Tell him how you feel and say you don't want to lose him. He'll understand. Keep taking things slow and don't do stuff until you're sure you're ready for it. Not many guys do that for girls. Hope I helped =c)
Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]
He's pressuring you to do things you don't want to do. If he wants you to smoke weed and all that other stuff it'll ruin your life. Sure, you might not think so now but just wait until you get addicted and your grades stop dropping and you lose all your friends. Even if you really like him, if you do these things it'll seriously ruin your life. You can tell him you dont want to do that stuff but if him and his friends keep pressuring you into doing those things then he's not worth your time.
16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
You could tell one of your friends or one of his friends that you like him and ask if he likes you. They'll probably end up telling him so either way he'll know and you'll find out if he likes you back =c). If you want to tell him face to face just casually ask who he likes and he'll probably ask who you like and you can say something like "Honestly?" "You." Hope I helped! =cD
Okay this isn't really a serious problem. But okay i like this guy. And well u know i am always lookin at him and stuff, and there is so many times that i catch him lookin at me. All i want him to do is like me... Can ne one tell wat wat this means?? Please help!!
Don't jump to conclusions. He might not like you back. If you want to know though just tell him you like him. If he likes you he'll tell you. He might be looking at you just because you're looking at him. Hope I helped!
I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.
If he wants you to have sex with him or else he'll cheat on you, then he doesn't love you enough. If a guy really loves you he wouldn't try to make you have sex. If you think you're ready though then go ahead. Just make sure you use a condom AND a pill. Hope I helped!
There's this girl i really like. She is 18, just like me. I really want to ask her out, but i dont know if she like me the same way. We are good friends but i want to be more than that. I just dont know if i should go all out and tell her. Could you please give me some tips on how to get this girl's attention (so she will like me more) and any good places to take her on dates. If there is any way you can give me tips on how to send her little "clues" to show her i like her, that would be great! Thanks a lot!!
You could ask one of her friends if she likes you. That way you get to send her a clue that you like her and you'll find out if she likes you. You could also give her hugs and don't let go for awhile. Just look into her eyes. Trust me I think she should get the hint.. girls notice these types of little things. If you want to get her attention just be yourself. You can't really just make her like you. Just be funny and be yourself and be really sweet. As for dates, if you live by the beach take her to the beach and watch the sunset. Movies are always ok, but just be sure to let her pick the movie even if it's a chick flick. Taking her out to dinner is always an option. You could even go bowling or if you both like sports (ex. basketball) you could take her to see a game if you have the money to.You could also write her little notes and put them in her mailbox addressed to her and if you want her to know you like her then just tell her that. Say that you don't want to ruin your friendship if she doesn't like you back though and you don't want things to get awkward.You could go out and buy a dozen roses and tell her to look into a mirror while you're on the phone with her. Then say, "You're looking at 13 of the most beautiful things in the world." That should really show how much you like her. Hope I helped! Sorry that it's long and things are kinda jumbled around! =c) I hope everything goes well between you two!
racheL
my girlfriend who is 15 like me says i am no good in bed .....what could that mean to me give me some suggestions plz!!!
It means you're bad having sex and she wants you to get better. Try different fun things wink wink
Okay, so some of you may remember me asking a question about going out with a guy 2 days after I broke up with another one. Well, I took that advice and now Ricky and I have been dating upwards of a month.
But lately I've been having second thoughts! Like, everyone I talk to says that we make a weird couple, and I'm starting to agree with them! Like, he's the Great American Redneck (seriously), with almost the entire stereotype of the word! He goes hunting, fishing, drinking, and wears camoflage(sp?) to school, and is in LOVE with country music. He wants to be a mechanic, loves racing and cars. He's like, the complete OPPOSITE of my type. AND he's obsessed with me!
And I'm so much different. I'm the, I guess you could say, rocker chick/goth. I do like country music, but I'd take a good metal/rock song over a country song any day of the week. I can't STAND hunting or camping of any kind, and I will not TOUCH beer. Yes, I'd love to know how to change a tire and possibly fix a few common engine malfunctions, but other than that, I really don't care much about cars. If it runs, GOOD. If it doesn't, OH WELL.
It's not that I don't like him, 'cause I really do. It's just that he's so different from me, and I'm just not sure. I've never dated someone like him. All the guys I've dated have pretty much been "bad boys" or something like that.
My question is, should I stay with him despite our differences? I do like him, but it's just... Strange.
Stay with him =c). Opposites attract! Who cares if other people think you guys are a weird couple? There aren't any "normal" couples. It's impossible to be normal because nobody is the same so no one can be normal. Yeah so anyway.. stay with him. Just cuz you're opposites it doesn't mean you dont like each other or don't deserve to be together. You do! Stay with him ;c)
okay its always like i have to call my boyfriend or else we dont talk till like night time...he calls to say goodnight...but to make plans...it seems like i ALWAYS have to call him...and today im doing nothing till the nighttime and i want to call him because waiting for him to call me is just a waste of time...but then again i dont think i should call him...i called him yesterday to make plans and the day before...and we love hangin out we have so much fun...but its me who always has to call first...should i call him?
Call him and tell him that you kind of want him to call some of the times. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. If he still doesn't call then don't call him and wait for him to call you. After he realizes that you want him to call too, he should notice his mistake and start calling you. Hope I helped! =c)
racheL
ok there was a new guys that came to our school last yr and i instantly thought that he was hott....and i got to kno him and he seemed and is really swt we grew to be great friends told each other everything and anyting we had a lil something over tha summer then we came back 2 school as friendz and starts going out w/ some girl and she has a prob that we talk/ hangout so much and always makes a BIG deal outta everything then they break up and 3 days l8ter he tells me he likes me and ofcourse im happy b/c i really like him and he tells one of HER friends that hez over her and is moving on to better things like me and then i go away 4 tha weekend and i cum back and their 2gether again!!! and hez "truely" sry and he tells me personally....but im still upset and tell him how i really feel...then stuff goes on again she has a prob w/ us and everything...and now he broke up w/ her b/c he said he was sick of all tha drama she was causing and idk am i his rebound girl or does he truely have feelings for me? wat should i do?
female,14
To me it soiunds like he likes you he's just confused about his position. He's kind of in the middle of both of you. He really likes you but he's just in a bad position. I don't think you're his rebound girl, especially if you too are as close as you say. As for her she's just jealous. She's jealous that you too have such a great friendship and she probably thinks you're trying to steal him and she doesn't want you around him because she thinks that you'll take him away from her. She does sound like she's causing a lot of drama so just ignore it. She doesn't want you to have him and that's why the guy is in a really bad position now. He probably doesn't wanna hurt either of you but if he goes out with you he knows she'll make a huge deal about it and he doesn't want that to happen. But when he went out with her he knew you wouldnt cause a lot of drama. For the girl, don't worry about her. The guy you like sounds to me like he was feelings for you but is just confused on where he stands. Hope I helped! =c)
racheL