im a girl. and im 14 :p okay so, ill start rom the beginning. in April i dated this guy Magilla (ehh, code name). he was my first love and i dated him for three months.he left me because i wouldnt have sex with him. and i was so heart broken. id have alot of good friends that helped me. one of them was Jonny. Jonny at that time had a girlfriend that he was with for a whole year. so he was there for me through everything. so when school started again in August, Jonny helped me get to most of my classes and i started to really like him. and i knew he did too. me and Jonny would always get high together and have the most funnest time ever when we hung out :)he was like me brother. but i always felt like hed use me becase when his girlfriend wasnt there hed treat me like i was his gf. and i didnt like that. him and his gf broke up last week (its October now)and he asked me out. but......i dont like him as much as he likes me. being in a relationship with him is so different from us just being friends. his kiss dosent feel right. nor when we cuddle. im so confused. i wanna leave him but i know we wont have the same friendship we had befor. help? :(
i have your answer:
if it does not feel right, it isnt right. the only reason to stay in a relationship is if you are happy, and if you are unsatisfied then you should find a way out. dont lead him too deep into it because you will end up hurting him in the end. whenever a break up occurs, a friendship is lost, and it is better to end things now rather than later because it will become more and more destructive. the sooner you end it, the greater the chance of restoring your friendship. good luck, and continue to keep a good lookout for the nice guys out there; the ones who are in it for your personality.
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On a day to day basis, i use eyeliner, and id say i dress fine. either ill wear boots with jeans/leggings and a top or on a comfortable day just a sweatshirt and pants. ive never had an issue with getting guys or talking to them, and im often told im very good looking. first of all, i COMPLETELY disagree. i constantly feel like im ugly or there is something wrong with me. no matter how many times i hear i am not, i will always feel ugly and out of place. also, i feel like maybe i dont come off as very girly. i really want to become more of a girly person but i dont know what i can really do. i wear make up jewelry and nail polish. i just don't think im flirty as a person, so i come off less feminine. is it true that guys are much more attracted to flirty girls? although people tell me im very attractive, i dont really think i catch people's eyes. i feel like im never checked out by guys at school and noone ever really tries for my number. i know this q is really stupid and annoying, but i just wonder. how can i feel better, look better, and be better?
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15/f almost 16
So I've been friends with this guy for 2 years. This year we have been getting really close. So he's a good friend. The thing is he is 18. I know its not a big age difference. I like him alot. The thing is him going to college. I've liked him for over a year now. He doesn't know. I don't exactly know what I'm asking but I need something.
We flirt all the time and I'm best friends with his sister so I hang out at his house.
He tells me alot about himself and past stuff so we really know each other and all that.
I just don't know if there could be more. Since he's going to college I guess it wouldn't work anyway right?
So what should I do? Should I get over him? If I should, how? I'm always gonna see this guy, I practically live with his family. We talk online and everything too. So even when he's gone its not like I'm completely losing him either...so it won't be easy. Any ideas??
take it from me, college relationships are hard, and its so easy to get hurt. at this point, its gonna be hard since you like him anyway, but feelings might fade if hes gone and you dont see him as much. to be honest, i think you should just leave it alone since its so close to next year
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ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend but im not sure if im ready. i feel totally ready but then when i see guys in person and talk to them, i can't imagine kissing them because i feel nervous and sort of not ready. it's like an easier said than done thing, you know? so, am i ready or what's up with me?
the first time is always really nerve racking, no matter how old or the situation, but after the first or second time its not so bad :) do it with someone you really like and its extra special. theres no pressure to do it, just go at your own pace
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I am 13 and want to have sex with my girlfriend. She said that she is ready. Should I do it. And it is legal i searched it, the legal age is 13. Should Ii avoid the vagina because of STD's. Please Help!!!!!!!
13.
you may think you are old and mature now, but in a few years you will understand that right now you are not ready, and neither is she. i can tell your not ready because your asking if you should avoid the vagina. kiddo, if you are having sex, you cant quite avoid the vagina. give yourself a couple of years. find a girl who you TRULY LOVE. your going to end up with std's in a few years if you start having sex now. sorry if anything i said was harsh i just truly believe you should not be having sex at that age! most people start towards the end of high school, beginning of college. not in 7th or 8th grade. PLEASE DONT. bye!
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is it possible for two people to be together in the future if they see eachother once a month now?
yess it is, but it definitely takes trust on both sides, and a lot of effort. you also must be prepared for the pain you feel with the distance. and if you break up, its harder to stay friends, because you probably wont see each other again. if your willing to deal with these things, then its completely possible.
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okay, well there is this boy josh that told me he liked me well idk what to do, because he first went out with my sister but they are long gone done with each other, and like i started hanging out with him at the skating rink and he has been an absolute sweetheart. He already told me he loved me and when we were skating i didnt have the hang of it and he helped me he actually held my hand and everything, And a couple days ago we went again and he sat by me the whole time until i would get upp.
So a little after time passed he asked me for a kiss and i liked him so much i couldnt resist so i did and it met so much.
I just dont know what to do.
please help me!
in my opinion, family definitely comes first. explain how you feel about him. show you care, and explain how much this would mean to you. ask her for her permission. if she says no, you have to accept it, as much as you may not want to. also, if she says yes and you two are close, maybe you should ask her what his problems are. is he really as perfect as he comes off to be?
hope i helped, and if you follow my advice, i hope she lets you get with this guy :]
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Okay, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up after dating for about 5 months. i fell in love with him so quickly and i wanted it to last forever. he was the first guy i was ever sexual with. we never actually had sex but he fingered me and i gave him a hand job and he saw me naked and everything. we talked about having sex but we never got the chance. I also told him everything about myself and we were so open towards eachother. He is the first guy that I had ever really fallen in love with and the first i had actually opened up to. I was so upset when we broke up. i felt like my world was just crashing on top of me. I'm still in love with him and it's been a month since we split. We dont talk much anymore and it kills me. I want him back so bad but i'm not sure what to do. If there's anything that I can do to be with him again, tell me. please. I feel like i cant live without him and I dont want to move on. what can I do??
you probably dont wsnt to hear this but unless he wants to get back with you, it would be hard to get back together with him. i know exactly how you feel in your situation because I just got over a similar experience. it took me 5 months to get over it, just as long as we had been together. i didnt want to get over it because i didnt want to let go of the one thing that could always make me feel good. slowly each month after we broke up I would get back to my normal life and begin to adjust. I keep a diary which helped. cutting off connection for me was a bad thing so try talking to him and try being friendly. see if it works out for you. i know how rough breakups can be but you just gotta hang in there. youll feel better eventually, even if it may seem like you wont.
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13/f
so my best friends boyfriend likes me A LOT!
i told him to stop but he still keeps flirting.
he keeps calling me, he gave me a song and he write me a lot of notes. What should I do???
i agree that you should tell your friend, but get proof like one of the notes. it would be bad if she got mad at you for "lying to her" or something. dont be too harsh on her. that must suck. if she gets upset comfort her. also, be more firm with this guy. he seems like an ass. well hope it works out for you
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i need love quotes. lost love. sad love. and stuff like that. thanks
sometimes when one person is missing,
the whole world seems depopulated.
you don't have a heart, and to think I had a mind...
to give you mine.
& I'm not handling this well. you never know just what you have, until you get it yanked out of your chest.
I just want to relax,
I can't catch my breath.
Because I'm sick and tired of "you'll be fine."
Well, how do you know?
Can you read minds?
Have you ever felt so lost inside,
so unloved within that you almost die?
Have you ever stepped out of the light
and realized there's a stranger inside?
It's sad;
when people you know,
become people you knew.
When you can walk right past someone,
as if they were never a big part of your life.
How you used to be able to talk for hours,
&& now you can barely even look at them.
It's just sad how things change so much
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so..
i like this one boy. and he likes me.
and he asked to hook up. i asked him like in hook up he meant, go out or hangout. and he said its up to me. i told him it was his choice since he brought it up. i mean, we see each other oncce a week on wednesdays. but meanwhile he goes to a different school thats an hour away. but then he lives like right by me. i wanna go out with him. but i dont wanna make things to awkard cause i dont really talk to him that much. please help me :\
i personally wouldnt go out with him just because. if you dont talk that much, you should get to know him better first. it wont end up working out unless you already know him well enough before and you feel that attraction. talk to him more. if you see him once a week, take advantage of that one day. once you know him well enough id take the next step and go out / or make out with him.
warning : long distance relationships are hard.
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My boyfriend and i have not been dating for a very long time only about 2 months. i am not sure how to tell or not but i think he might be cheating on me. I know he talks to other girls and texts and calls them and stuff but i am fine with that i am not the jelious type. but sometimes i will be holding his phone and i will just pretend to read his texts and he will freak out! i want to find out what he is hiding on his phone. i am not trying ot be nosey but him freaking out like he does makes me nervious... Any advice about either what to say to him or how to find out if he is or not?
be upfront about it, but maybe get a little more evidence before confrontation. you don't want to sound overprotective or stupid. :] . don't be too nosey because if he isn't cheating that could ruin the relationship. flinching when someone takes your phone could be the effect of many different things. cheating is only one of the many. but if it really concerns you tell him.
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I just met a guy yesterday and well I really liked everything about him and my friend talked to him and he likes me too. =]But last time I liked a guy we kind of hooked up and went out but it went too fast so we ended up breaking up after a week. I want to really get to know this new guy and actually like him for him not just a guy to make-out with. I've never had a real boyfriend but recently i think I've found who I am and now I think I am ready to maybe get in a relationship but I want it to go slow. How can i make it so it wont end up like last time? I don't want to forget who I am and become obsessive or weird about this.
thanx =]]
definitely get to know him better before you get into a relationship. thats really important. if you want to show that you want to go slow, you have to make it clear that you want to know him better. also, it depends on if he is that type of guy [that goes along with getting to know him]. if you do end up going out, dont let him pressure you into hooking up. in a reall relationship you should be able to communicate if you arent comfortable with something, or how you feel about certain things. if he doesnt respect it, you probably shouldnt be with him in the first place cause hes using you.
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So one of my best friends has a boyfriend, and i like him alot. not just a crush. i like him ATON, i almost want to cry when i see them together, and i almost for sure know he doesnt like me that way. but i just cant help but like him. should i tell him i like him? should i tell her? or should i just keep it a secret from everybody?
this isnt something i cant get over, i like him too much for that.
P.S were kinda friends.me and him i mean.
if you care about your friend, you should definitely keep quiet. she would most likely get defensive and feel like you're betraying her.
even after they break up, you should probably not mention that you liked him while they were together.
ask her for permission to tell him how you feel, and wait a while to do that after they break up.
also, if you can, you probably wont and its completely understandable, but try and be happy for her. at least pretend.
remember, your girl friends will probably last longer then the guys.
hope i helpedd
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would you rather love a loser or lose a lover and why?
love a loser definately. if youre in love thats all that matters.
losing someone you love sucks. lotss.
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For my birthday, my new bf of only about a week gave me "his heart" supposedly. He knew it was my bday, he was like, ok I know what I'm giving you. But doesn't that seem kind of cheesy? I mean seriously, does he really care about me?
He definately thought you'd think it was cute and didnt reallyy know what to get.
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i know i was being dumb. but i like this guy and i needed to get it off my chest. i knew i would stutter if i told him. so i left a note in his locker. that was last week. i now have NO clue if he even got it! (he doesn't use his locker very much) Should i just confront him about this, or wait?
have confidence
ask him if he got your letter
go for it!
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ok....i finally broke up with that guy that i was really unhappy with, but now i feel really extremely lonely. right now i don't know what to do about feeling lonely. i go out with friends and i am trying to enjoy the single life, but i'm not. i just want someone new to come around already but it seems like it won't ever happen.
i know the feeling
ive had that
i can promise you
that even when you least expect it
a guy that will make you happy will notice you
try and talk to people (boys especially)
my story:
after feeling like an antisocial loser after
breaking up with a guy i didnt like at all,
by having one short conversation with this guy
he liked me
we went out for 5 months
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ok
so my best friend K is going out with D
and D really likes me
but i dont like him
K is in love with D... and D likes her but he is in love with me
i dont like him
and even if i did
i would NEVER hurt K like that
what should i do...
and please dont say tell K because she already knows
thank you in advance
does D openly admit to loving you? if he does i would seriously tell him to leave you out of the whole thing. tell him you dont want to be involved. i would try to limit contact with himm.
goodluck
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14/f
i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.
weve been fighting the past three days and we usually never fight. but we came into a discussion that really bothered me.
apparently he said he could do better then me. so then i asked, how? and he said "listen i love your personality, and how you make me feel, i seriously love you, the only way i could do better then you is in looks" he kinda then saw me tearing and he told me he wasn't calling me ugly. and then i told him to just drop the conversation and we did but the rest of our day was good. i just really never thought i was ugly.. but i didn't think i was gorgeous.. just average you know? i mean other guys have asked me out in the past but yeah. so i guess im ugly.. what do i do now? :(
get away from this kidd. you want a boy who appretiates you for who you are. i am sure your gorgeous. its the guy whos being an ass (as always). *no offense guys*. but seriouslyy, there are probably 10000 guys out there who wouldnt talk to you like that, because a good boyfriend would only want to make his girrlll feel like shes the best thing in the world. you could do better than him. dumppp :]
hope i helped
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