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This guy...`
So one of my best friends has a boyfriend, and i like him alot. not just a crush. i like him ATON, i almost want to cry when i see them together, and i almost for sure know he doesnt like me that way. but i just cant help but like him. should i tell him i like him? should i tell her? or should i just keep it a secret from everybody?
this isnt something i cant get over, i like him too much for that.
P.S were kinda friends.me and him i mean.
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keep you mouth SHUT !!
i bett when they're done you'll stop liking him
its prolly cuz everytime she talks about him
you get that hes the perfect guy in your head because of what she says but hes not yours so keep your hands off!!
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if you care about your friend, you should definitely keep quiet. she would most likely get defensive and feel like you're betraying her.
even after they break up, you should probably not mention that you liked him while they were together.
ask her for permission to tell him how you feel, and wait a while to do that after they break up.
also, if you can, you probably wont and its completely understandable, but try and be happy for her. at least pretend.
remember, your girl friends will probably last longer then the guys.
hope i helpedd
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I don't think you should say anything just yet. Odviously it would probably hurt your friend. If they break up then yeah totally, go for it. Until then keep it to yourself. If you feel this way after a few weeks talk about it with someone your really close to that you know won't tell anybody. It'll help. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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ok. you should ask ur self if you guys hook up. n you break up. dat friendship that u hand before is not goin to be da same. n abut his gf. if you tell her she migth no care n may try to push you away 4rm him so defenetly dnt tell her if you want 2 kip been friends with him. but i think you shuld tel him he is your friend n he shuld understand your feelings for him. if he is a real friend he will take it for consideration. if not that his problem may be he is a man enough to handle you. so don't worry.
P.S. keep trying never give up on him.
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Its not just about you and him your friends feelings are at stake too. Boys will come and go but best friends will be there for you to the end. Don't get me wrong im not putting your feelings down, just sit back and let things play out. Crushes can be hard especially if they are someone elses boyfriends.
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