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this guy i met =]
I just met a guy yesterday and well I really liked everything about him and my friend talked to him and he likes me too. =]But last time I liked a guy we kind of hooked up and went out but it went too fast so we ended up breaking up after a week. I want to really get to know this new guy and actually like him for him not just a guy to make-out with. I've never had a real boyfriend but recently i think I've found who I am and now I think I am ready to maybe get in a relationship but I want it to go slow. How can i make it so it wont end up like last time? I don't want to forget who I am and become obsessive or weird about this.
thanx =]]
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definitely get to know him better before you get into a relationship. thats really important. if you want to show that you want to go slow, you have to make it clear that you want to know him better. also, it depends on if he is that type of guy [that goes along with getting to know him]. if you do end up going out, dont let him pressure you into hooking up. in a reall relationship you should be able to communicate if you arent comfortable with something, or how you feel about certain things. if he doesnt respect it, you probably shouldnt be with him in the first place cause hes using you.
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You just met this guy like, yesterday or the day before and you already think you like each other? That should be enough of a bright red light, I think.
Become FRIENDS first. You'll get to know him before hooking up with him, which should, hopefully make your relationship deeper than just physical things. Be his BEST FRIEND before being his GIRLFRIEND.
Oh, and don't hook up with a guy after knowing him for only a week. These days, you never know what kind of critters he could have crawling around in his panties.
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well you just have to take it really slow. maybe try to get to know him before you guys start going out. try hanging out after school or something, and just talk. this was you can get to know hik better in a casual situation. and then when you guys start going out just tell him that you want to take it really slow because you want it to last. i did the same thing and right now i'm in a relationship of two months. trust me, it'll all work out!! =]
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