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i dont know i want it to come true but o u think it will
so many people has told me i love you and i want to be with you forever your the one my only one well 5 guys already said that to me a promised and i got hurt everytime and today my boyfriend has told me that im his true love he never felt this way before about anybody else and he said true love never dies and he wrote me a poem how he feels about me and he said he wants to be with me forever and he promised and he said he never breaks promises and he wrote me letters like 10 of them i kept them and he asked me to marry him and i said yes and i just dont want to get hurt again im sooo scared and do you think we will be together forever because he said that and he knows it and his feelings will never change but i know that we wont there is like a 1 percent chance because not everybody stays together forever
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Being in love is the greatest joy in the world but there is really no for sure way to know if it will last. But you can't be scared of it, you have to just push through it and know that you really really want to be with this person. Yes, it's scary giving someone everything in you and trusting them enough not to break it, but sometimes they do and thats hard, but it happens. He may think that now you are but things might change, but you can't go around thinking it's not going to happen with him and anyone for that matter, because if you do then you will never be truly happy and you will always be scared. And it's not worth being scared for the rest of your life. It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
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It doesn't mean anything if someone tells you if they're in love with you... It only means something if you tell them if you're in love with them... "To love" is to genuinely care for you but to be "in love" with someone is to offer alot more. It can be possible to scare someone off or keep them at a distance from you because of these differences though. You said 5 guys have told you the same thing? Did they knowingly let you down? Did you hold them to higher expectations that was within their reach "yet" exceeded their grasp without your true consistant support? Did you continuously expect them to give you more with less? If that is the case, maybe it could be that you never really wanna settle down or that you realy are chasing "perfection". We know there is no such thing as perfect but you can attempt to create it. Just know you can be unfair to your mate. Or it may be that your incapable of changing your ways for another so that other mates must conform to you. In a relationship, there is compromise. If your unwilling to commit on some "reasonable" standard..... which there are different packages... ALL "should" of be equal give and take situations.... for example.. real love, friendship, compatibility, true companionship, money, beauty, happiness, comfort, relaxation, freedom, respect, loyalty, endurance, passion, balance, etc.. I'm presuming you ended all your past relationships.... ultimately. The best can only happen if you stop trying to control it. They say it better to have love and and lost than to not have loved at all because then you without losing it you would have never known love.. (unless you kept it..) In addition... if you don't let things takes the course it gonna take.. how will you ever know where it gonna go? I say be smart and cautious cuz it is your heart but at the same time... make sure your getting what you've invested or your current situation "may" just be an illusion "just like your previous relationships". Hope this helps a lil.
P.S. True Love doesn't die... If you let it... it gets buried. And there is no real percentages with relationships... it depends on if there's one person working on it alone or two people working on it together...
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