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Only two simple but hard questions.
would you rather love a loser or lose a lover and why?
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love a loser
looks aren't everything;
majority is personality
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Lose a lover because If i love a loser, we would just be in love. Love isnt everything. Love doesnt put food on the table, it doesnt wash clothes, take care of kids, etc. I think you get my idea. Thats just like saying, would you rather love a loser who has nothing going for them self or be alone and and have something going for yourself with nothing worthless to bring you down?
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I would definatley rather love a loser.
Who cares if they are a loser if you love them then that really doesn't matter.
On the other hand losing a lover is the worst pain in the world, and the pain lasts a while most of the time.
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As Razhie stated below me, it really depends on what your perception of a loser is.
If you buy into the highschool definition of a loser, it is much better to love a loser! The "losers" tend to be the real winners. They have hearts of gold and are more interested in getting into your heart than into your pants.
However, if you mean a loser in the sense that a lover is treating you poorly than lose the lover. You do not need them.
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DEFINITELY love a loser.
losing a lover is probably the hardest thing anyone can go through.
and who cares if they're a "loser"? everyone's taste in significant others is different.
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This is so simple to be, love a loser.
Like someone said below, who are they to judge that your person is a loser.
Right ?!
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lose a lover plenty more fish in the sea lol
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love a loser definately. if youre in love thats all that matters.
losing someone you love sucks. lotss.
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I would rather lose a lover, handsdown.
I don't think 'loser' in the sense that other people don't think they are cool. (That is a very 'highschool' interpretation I think)
I take to mean an actual loser. A petty, small person who brings me down instead of helping me up. An abuser, a cheater, a selfish user or someone who doesn't love themself enough to not slowly kill themselves with drugs, drinks, or mental illeness.
A loser is someone who chooses to fail, or not to even try. A loser is someone who incapable of loving you back, because they are too wrapped up in thier own self-destructive bullshit.
I know a lot of adult 'losers' and some of them were really cool in highschool. Some are even still cool now! But loving them would be a curse. It consumes you. It bogs you down. You waste your time and passion on someone who can't give anything back.
LOVE is not all that matters. Love is a feeling, it comes and it goes. Love alone does NOT fuel a relationship, let alone a life time. You need respect, compromise and compassion as well. The real 'losers' don't have those things.
And sometimes, even though you might love someone, you have to lose them, or risk losing yourself. It's important to be strong enough to deal with the pain of that loss.
Always, ALWAYS better to be happy by yourself, then miserable with someone else.
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love a loser, who's to judge that your boyfriend is a loser? if you love him then that's all the matters, other peoples opinions shouldn't matter.
hope i helped :)
katie.
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love a loser
because you should never judge people and if you love someone you would never want to see them go. i would never want to lose alover
so why not love then lose right?
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