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drama is a nightmare


Question Posted Thursday May 8 2008, 8:43 pm

13/f

so my best friends boyfriend likes me A LOT!
i told him to stop but he still keeps flirting.
he keeps calling me, he gave me a song and he write me a lot of notes. What should I do???


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helperorhelpee answered Thursday May 15 2008, 8:59 pm:
talk to him face to face. he needs to know your serious and that you don't want to hurt your best friend. tell him to stop or you will seriously consider telling your best friend about this. best of luck.

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xemmiex3 answered Saturday May 10 2008, 8:54 am:
i agree that you should tell your friend, but get proof like one of the notes. it would be bad if she got mad at you for "lying to her" or something. dont be too harsh on her. that must suck. if she gets upset comfort her. also, be more firm with this guy. he seems like an ass. well hope it works out for you

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Comrade answered Friday May 9 2008, 6:16 pm:
You haven't meantioned that you like him back, so I'll assume you don't.

What he is doing is wrong and inappropriate. Your friend has a right to know. As for this guy, be sure to be clear and consistant in your answers. Don't leave any room for doubt in what you mean. Don't give mixed messages. Don't make it seem like you're just playing hard to get.

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LOL_x0x answered Friday May 9 2008, 5:51 pm:
Ignore him and tell your best friend.
Your best bet is to be honest with her,
and NOT give him mixed signals.


-Laura. (15-f)

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teardrops7 answered Friday May 9 2008, 5:38 pm:
tell your friend about it and how your feeling. I mean he shouldnt be bothering you, and your friend deserves to know.
-hayley

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virgo9491 answered Friday May 9 2008, 4:56 pm:
if hes your best friends boyfriend i think you should tell you friend about it. especially if hes bothering you about it. Dont let your friend be with someone who flirts with other people. even if it is you. then you can both confront him. :) makes it a lil easier.

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