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How canI tell my boyfriend I am still in love with him . I am 14year old.

Well I would just tell him up front...Just be like, "You know (his name), I think that I am still in love with you"...thats wat u wanted to tell him so just come out with it. If your worried about his reaction, don't because you really want him to know. Hope I helped!

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i have so many guy friends. all of my friends are guys except a select few. but ive never had a b/f. could there be like a vibe im giving thats saying im not interested?!?! anyway my question is : What can i do to show a guy that i like him without telling him ?

thanks

I don't think that you could possibily be giving a vibe that just turns guys away from me. Your a beautiful, funny and charming person so I don't see a reason as to why you never had a bf, I'm in the same boat as you. Anyways, for example I liked this guy ;) and he just always knew that I liked him and now he says he might have feelings for me too. I didn't do anything, I didn't tell him that I liked him, he just knew. Just go to this guy and everytime you look at one another lock eyes with him, if your at a movie and you see that he is going for he popcorn, you go for it too...lol..I kno it is corny, but it seems to work for other girls..lol..and just drop some hints like compliment him and be like oh you would be the perfect bf and just like start to smile or w/e..Hope I helped!

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i like this guy a lot. i use to like his best friend, and i still kind of do, but im kind of starting to like him more. and my friends witch are his friends say that he likes me too, but hes really shy, and im not sure if i want to belive them, because he ust doesnt seem like he likes me, but hes friends keep saying he does. and im not sure hat to do. because im not sure if he will tell me he likes me because he is so shy, and im afarid to tell him i like him, and have him not like me and i will feel stupid. thanks so much
b!!

I think that you should confront him about it...just tell him that his friends are telling you that he likes you and ask if he does....if he does then tell him that you like him too..if he says no..just keep trying to get to kno him...you'll never kno wat can happen next..one day he might like you and if you still like him you can take it to the next step..Hope I helped!
~Linda

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i wasnt sure which category this should go in so i just put it in this one. anyways..does anybody know who to get a rid of nervousness? i have it really bad that i think im going to throw up!

Well i think that you should just face it. you maybe nervous for that one second but you can over come it. i used to have a problem with talking to guy, i have my reasons, why, anyways you just have to just go along with whatever you having a problem with. if i knew wat made you nervous maybe i could be more help. leave me a message on like specifics and maybe i can help you out more so. hope i helped

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so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me?

Well it sounds like to me this boy does like you! just continue to talk to him and just hang out with him and u never kno maybe one day u two will be going out if you geel the same way about him.. hope i helped!

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i like this college guy whose a rlly good friend of mine. i dont kno if he likes me. he leaves soon for college ... ne tips ... ne advice on what i can do to find out ?!?!

thanks

umm i personally think that you should call him up and just hang out with and and see how it goes from there....to me it sounds like he likes u ;) anywayz you should definetly chill with him and maybe you might have a future together...just be your normal self and keep those emotions together and just let it flow..don't try and make anything happen.

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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥

Say something just as cute back like....
thx babe
or
thx baby face...lol
w/e....it's all cute....just compliement him back
~Linda

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Have any of you ever felt like you couldnt like someone becasue his friends that are girls dont like you? Well thats the situation im in. I like this boy and im not sure if he likes me but hes always telling me how hot i am and stuff. His friends that are girls dont really like me and i kinda dont like them either, well atleast one of his friends that are girls. Shes such a bitch and i find it kinda hard to like him now becasue they would say bad things about me to him.

Well, I personally think that you need to just focus on the relationship between you and him. Don't worry about his friends right now... Just establish a relationship that he knows what your all about. If you just like him, get to know him and find out if you really do like him. Well, I hope I helped! Just remember, everything happens for a reason and their are only two people in a relationship. You never know one day you might go out with him and you might see his friends as your friends too. That girl will just have to get over it.
~Linda

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at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more??

It sounds like he likes you. Not just any old guy would just act like that if he didn't like you....
Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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I'm a 15 year old girl, he's 17. We both like eachother. But he's not sure if he wants to go out with me. He's worried about our age difference since he's turning 18 in like 5 months. Even then we'll have 2 years between us still. He's told my friend that he does want to go out with me, but he's concerned about the age thing. Should I just give up on him, or still try to hook up with him? Help? :)

I think that you should still go for it. Like many people say.... age is just a number.... it depends on how the two of you fell together. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?

I know what you are feeling because the same thing happened to me. I personally think that he was just trying to get some attention from someone. As bad as it may sound, he might have been trying to take advantage of you. When I was in that position, i saw him at school and he acted like he never saw me before, but know he like tells one of my friends that i like him or something. I just pretend i don't know him. lol. he doesn't deserve my breath. Just forget about him. The faster you do the faster you can get on with your life and find someone new that will truly like you and not just try to get whatever he wanted. I HOPE I HELPED!!!!! plz, rate. Give me feed back on wat u think.
~Linda

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i like lots of guys and i don't know why... i just thnk so many are hot!! ugh it sucks not knowing which one to choose!! please help

I don't think that you are a slut if you like a lot of guys. You're only a slut if you sleep with all of the or date all of them in a short amount of time. Just pick one that would potentially like you back. That is what I personally think. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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I have this gigantic crush on this guy named bob, and i think he likes me too. But, theres also this other gut named billy who i also like.Now, i know for sure that billy likes me, he's even said so!I mean both guys are smart, funny, cute and nice, so who should i pick?

It depends on who likes you and who you like better. Which one of those guys really make you excited and really makes you want to hang out? Thats the question you need to be asking yourself. Both guys sound amazing so just go with your gut feeling!! Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help!

I think that it is really sweet that you care for kelly that much. Most people don't care about who their friends hang out with. Anyways, I think that kelly might take it in offense because most girls feel that they can be friends with whom ever they want especially if it is a good one. One day kelly will see that amy isn't that good of a person and stop hanging around with her herself. It doesn't seem like the right thing to do but once she realizes it she will see how right you are and it will stregthen your relationship. Just let her learn her mistakes while she still can otherwise she will make the same mistake again in the future. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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Hello,
I am going to weading with my boyfriend on Saturday, He puts his arms AROUND me and i put my arms around his neck, we are always close as close can be and nothing can fit in between us.. Well is it stupid to put my head on his shoulder? jw... Do guys like or hate it? Just wonderin.. Let me know ive done it before but i realy dont know if he liked it...


Ohh by the way im a 13/f and hes a 15/m

Thx

Well I think that it is absolutely adorable!!! I would love to dance like that with my special guy!! If anything just ask him. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!

okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

Well obviously you like both guys and i personally think that you should get with the one you went out with a yr and a half ago. This guy seems like he still likes you if he still wanted to be friends with you and didn't just drop you like cold turkey. lol. Thats wat I think you should do. The other guy just says that he wants you again, sure thats great and all but he hasn't even tried to reaquaint himself with you. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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this guy has liked me for practically two years now, but hes so shy and he never did anything except tell me he liked me. well now we've got this big dance coming up and i think hes gonna ask me. the only thing is that he is kinda weird and listens to all those really sick songs by sublime..no offense to the fans out there..but he is still really cute and mysterious..and really nice..do you think i should give him a chance? i rate...

I think so. Just give him a chance. It sounds like you might like him a little at the same time. I think if he ask you, you should definetly go with him. Besides the music he likes, judge him as the person and how he acts with you. And try to see through his shyness. I hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f

Well, to tell you the truth. I'm 15 am I haven't had my first kiss or relationship or anything! But I believe that when you get to a certain point in the relationship, when you both feel comfortable with taking that one step forward, then that is the time. And about telling your mom. It depends on how good your relationship is with your mom. As long as she doesn't get mad or anything then you should be fine. I hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait?

I think that you should wait a little bit longer adn just talk to him more. Try to make him get a little more comfortable around you. Then when the time comes KISS AND TELL. LOL. And maybe you can even ask his sister to hook you up. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda

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there's this thing at school where its a week dedicated to reading and writting so there were some requirements. one of them was writting a letter so i got my bf to write one to me and i would write one to him. well i told him this wednesday toward the begining of our convo on the phone. i wrote the letter and i havent really gotten a chance to talk to him since. well the things is, i dont know if he remembers! i dont wanna push him into doing it cuz i was the one to mention it in the first place. what should i do?

I think the idea is cute. You should just simply ask him if he remembered to write you the letter. If he didn't oh well what are you going to do, if he did thats terrific. Hope I helped!!!!
~Linda

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