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-name : Adriana Elizabeth C******** H*****
-birthday : April 16th 1991
-school : Dillard High Woot Woot!
-hair color : dark brown
-natural haircolor : dark brown
-how long is your hair : pretty long
-straight or curly : curly
-eyes : brown/hazel
-glasses/contacts : glasses for far away
-tan or pale : tanish
-hieght : 5'5
-nationality : Costa Rican/white
-what size do you take : in what?
-were do you live : florida
-were did u grow up : hollywood
-piercings : 1 in each ear
-music : everything
-song : "in parentheses" charlotte martin

FAVORiTE*
-journal/diary: journal
-color: teal
-store : Hollister, American Eagle, Abercrombie & Fitch
-mall : whatever mall that has those stores above =D
-candy : chocolate!!!!!!
-soda : Root beer, best soda!
-smell : Liquid Hard Candy
-place : my house
-food : Frostys from Wendy's Yum!
-movie : i have a lot of favorites...
-night/day : midnight
-hot/cold : cold
-summer/winter : winter...
-school/no school : no school!
Animal- : Dog

HYGENE*
-take showers everyday : yes
-about how long : 17-20 minutes
-shampoo : w/e lol
-hair gel : anything that holds this frizzy hair I have
-face wash : Nuetregena
-soap : Dove
-do you shave : yes...
-brush your teeth : ...yea lol...
-toothpaste : like i care what kind it is???

PERSONALS*
-have a boyfriend: yes i love him with all my heart.
- how many times have you been kissed including dares : too many to be counted
-anything else ? : im hyper. weee.
-have you smoked : Nope and never will
-do you smoke : nope and never will
-have you drank : no
-have you gotten drunk : nope
-drugs : yea right !!
-what kind : sharpie markers lol J/P!!!!
-what pisses you off : competitive jealousy from MY OWN FRIENDS and/or people who don't even know/met and think I'm a slut and act bitchy.
-play sports : yes, dance (not a sport but in Ireland it is..lol)
-hobbies : watching movies, im the biggest movie nerd, dancing to anything...i'm a freak...

LiFE*
-siblings : 1 brother, Aaron, he's 9...
-parents : mama: Diane and papi: Maurice
-you like life : yes at rare times no but hey, everyone does
-how old are you going to be : 16
-do you like to talk on the phone : yeah all the time
-computer? : yupp
-are you on the phone too much : lol yess.. with my bf always...
-religion : Christian...
-political views: Republican =D suck it.
L.i.f.e moves very fast. And if you don't stop to l.o.o.k around. You could m.i.s.s it... :) So...Laugh insanely, Kiss slowly, Love truly and Forgive quickly....Life is TOO short...

Costa Rican Pride!

advice

when is the right time to have sex?

When you're married, because god said so =)

xo0x adriana ♥

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There is this beautiful girl at school and I'm taking here 2 winter formal. But i don't think she considers it a date but I do. So how could I make sure that she knows its a date

It sounds like you got it bad, boy =) lol Okay well a way for her to understand it's a date to give her flowers when you pick her up or meet. At the end of your date, you could even kiss her. Risky, I know, because she acts like it's not even a date but ya know you gotta take a chance.
Your second option would be just to be straight forward with her. Ask her when you are together one day, "do you consider going to the winter formal with me as a date?"
Ya just gotta see how it goes =)
Good Luck

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14/m.. 8th grade
at my school there aren't any girls my type. they are all stuck up and preppy. at the other school i have a lot of friends. i know i would fit in over there. there are so many hott girls that are so fun to be with. whenever i hang out with them i have a great time, but they are at a different school which makes it hard to have relationships. what should i do?

thanks adriana

Hey babe,

I think you should transfer over to that school because you feel you fit in over there. Thats great that you want to switch it might be better for you. But don't switch because you think the girls are hott. Switch because you like them. :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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hey..theres this guy that i really like and he wanted to do stuff with me like makeout n stuff and i wouldnt because i didnt think it was right because i knew he had no feelings for me, and now he "really doesnt wanna go out with him"..im so confused what should i do ?

Hey babe,

You KNOW this guy just wants to use you and he's telling you straight up to your face. Sure, friends with benifits can give you a hell of a good time but the odds are in the end you'll become attached to them and wind up getting hurt. I hate to see girls that do this, it brings them down emotionally and their self-esteem goes wayy down. Why don't you find a sweet, caring, loving, meaningful (etc.)guy to spend your time with? :) In the long run, you will be happy even if it does mean you have to go through 20 different guys or wait for what it seems like, forever :)
I hope I helped and go with the path that you think is right!!!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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How can you tell who a major flirt likes? Does he show them more attention or less? Because I have a friend that is a major flirt and he's been following me around in the mornings before school, he's also suddenly starting to eat lunch with me, and always wants to be my partner in Drama. Why the sudden change is another question?

Hey babe,

You its REALLY hard to tell when a flirty guy likes you. It depends on what his actions are and what he does to you and not others. Some examples you have said are examples and it shows he's paying more attention to you. Thats great if you like him too, because you have a chance to investigate.
There could be a sudden change because, maybe his hopes are really high that he has a chance with you. Or maybe, it just suddenly hit him on the head to realize he has feelings for you. I would talk to him about it when you two are alone. Be real serious about, and don't laugh when talking to him about what you have been noticing, because guys that are flirts, REALLY don't like to be turned down. Talk to him, if he confesses that he does like you and you like him too, speak up!!
Hope I helped and G/L! :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

Hey !! :)

No, you are PERFECTLY normal. EVERYONE feels that wayy regaurdless of how they show it. All human beings are looking for love, someone to love them, and love them back. Love makes the world go round :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help

btw.. im a surfer guy from hawaii lol

LOL, aw hey!!

OK, well a way for her just to notice you is not to necessarily lead her on but befriend her. If you guys don't talk, girls like it to be complimented. You could go up to her and say something like "oh, rad shoes" "awesome shirt" etc. And walk by her. Eventually you guys will start to become friends or aquintances and say hi to one another. After that, then you could tell her how you really feel Girl usually like to be friends with a guy first before they go out with them because you have a stonger foundation in your relationship. Just be nice to her, and don't rush it. Best things come to those who wait, hun :)
And thats hott that you are a surfer (i'm sure your a total hottie ;) ) because, dude for serious there is like 0% surfer guys where I live lol and its totally dramastic...haha :)
Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK ! :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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Okay, i like alot of guys, but i'm told there is someone
out there for me. I wan't things to happen so fast, but that's not right.My question is how do you know when
the right guy for you is possibly the one right in front of you. sincerely, Lacey.

Dear Lacey,

When you feel you have finally found your soul mate, You will feel this undescribable feeling that you cannot explain. You might not have realized he was there right in front of you because a lot of girls, like me and you, can't face the fact why they hate someone or because they seem to good of a friend and don't want to face the fact that they are in love. Something will speak to your heart one day telling you to stop searching. When you find him, you will feel that. Love is worth waiting for even if it means eternity, and when you are not looking for him, he will be looking for YOU :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?

---TinkerBelle---

Dear Tinkerbelle :)

Just tell your friend in a private talk and confront her of what she is doing and how you feel about it. Tell Libby something like, "I have been noticing you flirting with the guy I have feelings for and our other friends are noticing the same thing happening to them, it feels like you are flirting with every guy...do you mind if you don't flirt with the guy I like or the guy my friends like?" Be VERY kind when you say this to her. You don't want her to get offended.
Hope I helped :) & Good Luck
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy???

Hey,

Okay a girl should never be a player because she is only playing herslef but anyways it means when a girl is cheating on her bf or two timing him.
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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i like this boy for a while but he never knew. today i walked into my class and he strait out tells me he found something out..so i asked what and hes like "you like me.." and i kinda got all nervous and wwent to the bathroom and when i come back hes like teasing me..like saying "oh. why wont you turn around..?" and cutsy stuff like that.. by him being so forword does that mean he might like me? or am i just crazy and having wishful thinking?

Aw, Hey hun!!!

Its fine. Don't be all nervous anymore. Yes, he does seem like he likes you. Be bold and don't turn around anymore. Face him. Talk to him. Show him you don't care that he knows you like him. Guys like that a lot.
You are not crazy, sweetie. Just a little overwhelled of being afraid he might not like you back. Just say hi to him when you see him, make eye contact when talking. In no time, he will be yours! :)
Hope I helped, hun!! :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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I have never really understood how the feet move/feet positions (Where they are) while slowdancing. Can somebody explain it to me?

Hey!!

Slow dancing is really cool so here I put a bunch of steps so you can follow.

Men's Steps
(The woman is in standard dance position in front of the man)
1. Step forward with the LF
2. Step forward with the RF
3. Step side left with the LF
4.Step in place with the RF
Women's Steps

(The man is in standard dance position in front of the woman)
1. Step back with the RF
2. Step back with the LF
3. Step side right with the RF
4. Step in place with the LF
And some great songs to practice to would be
Always - Atlantic Starr
Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison
You're Still The One - Shania Twain
Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers
Only You - Platters
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden

Hope I helped :)
and Good luck with the dancing :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana


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Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
i rate 5's

Hey hun,

Just have a sincere talk with your friends about how you feel and how you might not ever get your chance to go out with him due to their behavior. If they are real friends they will stop. :)
Also, If you want to get him to like you, don't act too flirty with him...just treat him like a friend but be like a little more than friend but not a flirt...understand? :) It will make him feel that you will wait for him. Just be yourself, babe. And if he doesn't like you there are PLENTY of other guys that you will meet and fall in and out of love with :)
Good Luck, hunny :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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ok heres the thing. I'm an "a" and im pretty insecure about it. My boyfriend says its ok and he doesn't mind and that he loves me no matter how big I am, but his last girlfriend was a "d" and i feel bad because he "down sized" so much. What can I do to become more confident and secure with myself when I am around him and in general? And what can I do with my boyfriend to make up for what I dont have?

Hey hun!

You have to remember that not everyone in the world is going to have double DD's. And thats ok because thats what makes the world so interesting, and if everyone had the same thing, life would be SO boring. I am not even that big, does it bother me? Some, but thats not all guys look for. Theres ass guys leg guys and so on but not every guy is going to say " oh shes only an a cup...I don't like her..." Because to some guys it really doesn't even bother them. Some guys really need it to be that way and you know what sweetie? They are just plain shallow and all they are looking for is to get in your pants. Just remember there are girls out there like you too, like me :)
Remember I'm here for you and I REALLY hoped I helped :) Write me if ya need me :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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13/f.....this guy I used to like likes me currently. All of my friends are telling him to ask me out, and every day he gets closer and closer to asking me out. I feel bad for him, because nobody likes him. He recently got hit HARD...long story...but I reaaaallllyyy dont want to go out w/ him! I told my friends that, but they tell him I like him and I would say yes! I wouldnt-of course! He thinks I like him no matter what I say! Help?

Hey hun,

Ok, what your friends are doing is wrong. You need to be like, "why are you telling him that I like him, when I don't. Your just going to make him believe I do, when I don't and make him feel really bad and hurt..." Your friends are part of the problem with making him believe that you do like them. So have a talk with your friends and ask them to please stop telling him to ask me out and that I like him. Stay calm, babe...lol
Good Luck :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME!

Hey hun,

Ok, If you really love this guy talk to your mom about it. Show her that he means a lot to you, I am assuming he does...after all, you can fall in love at any age. Tell your mother that this guy really seems like the one for you, if you feel that way. But if he really isn't Christian and your mother wants you to date a Christian, listen to your mother. I am Christian and will ONLY date Christian boys. But don't try to change him temporarily while he is meeting your mother...eventually she will know the real him. You can get them to meet by inviting him over to dinner with your family. He may feel uncomfortable going but tell him that your mom wants to be included on who you are dating and because she cares for you a lot. You can also attend the dinner, of course...He can invite you to his house one day and have a dinner with his parents. You and him, show your parent's that you guys are really serious about each other and you guys mean a lot to each other, your parents will realize... :)
Hope I helped and Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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Ok well..to start off I was raped 3 years ago..and Ive been over that nightmare for a while. But Ive had two bfs since then and never had the same problem I do now. With my current bf I had the dream about my raper and his boys raping me again..noe my bf wasnt in the dream..but it didnt start having the dream until i dated him..and I love him..trully. But everytime I hug him I picture that in my head...and I do trust him..bte Im 15 years old

Aw, hey hun !

To start off, does your family know that you were raped? If they don't know you MUST tell them. I think what your feeling right now is a feeling of unsureness. Yet you trust your boyfriend, BUT your still cautious..I get what your saying. I really don't think the dreams started occuring because you are now because you guys are going out, I think you just randomly dreamed it. And now its bothering you once again. Talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling...he'll understand about how you are dreaming about your past all of a sudden...does he know you were raped? If he doesn't you don't have to tell him, but if you guys are really close it might be better for him to know :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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I really like this guy...he knows now and i hate it! I like him a lot though! What do i do???

Hey Hun,

Even though you hate him knowing, you shouldn't avoid him. To him it might seem immature, and grade schoolish. Just talk to him and be nice. But don't over flirt because you don't want to run. After awhile when he gets to see what a great girl you are and you don't want to pressure to be more than just friends even if you do like him. Then theres a possible chance he'll like you too!
Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas?

Hey hun,

I went through a situation almost exactly like that two months ago. I would break it off because if he is really hurting you don't let him. It's not right, you are his girlfriend and look at the way he is treating you! You also have to remember, Love is kind. If he loved you he wouldn't be so mean. :) Don't waste your time on a jerk get a dom (a gentleman)who deserves a kind hearted girl like yourself, also hunny, there are PLENTY of other fishes in the sea who have eyes like your bf or maybe even more handsome eyes & there WILL be PLENTY of more guys to come into your life but you know as the saying goes, Like stars, there are so many guys, but only one will make your dreams come true :). Love is worth waiting for, even if it means forever :)
Good Luck :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

Hey babe,

Some signs of a guy going to break up w/ you is:
1. Majorly avoiding you
2. Not being himself around you
3. Or talking down to you or treating you like trash (don't let him do that!!)
I hope some of these signals answered your question :)
G/L!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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