hey..theres this guy that i really like and he wanted to do stuff with me like makeout n stuff and i wouldnt because i didnt think it was right because i knew he had no feelings for me, and now he "really doesnt wanna go out with him"..im so confused what should i do ?
You KNOW this guy just wants to use you and he's telling you straight up to your face. Sure, friends with benifits can give you a hell of a good time but the odds are in the end you'll become attached to them and wind up getting hurt. I hate to see girls that do this, it brings them down emotionally and their self-esteem goes wayy down. Why don't you find a sweet, caring, loving, meaningful (etc.)guy to spend your time with? :) In the long run, you will be happy even if it does mean you have to go through 20 different guys or wait for what it seems like, forever :)
I hope I helped and go with the path that you think is right!!!
Pura Morena :)
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