about

I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

advice

iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i just found out over the weekend that he kissed some whore named kelly and i've been cryubg over him for 2 days and i don't think that i can take it anymore what should i do?

Forget him! Easier said than done, I know, but he's obviously a jerk if he's out macking on other chicks .. & it seems like you really cared about the guy. It'll take time, but you need to try to move on. Spend time with friends, focus on school for awhile, go out & have fun!

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Ok well i told this guy that i liked him but hes didnt say much to me afterwards. well first of all 2 days ago he asked out another girl and ive been wanting to tell him i like him but i was to late well today hes going to find out if she will go out with him or not but i just told him yesterday i liked him and at the end of wat i said i said can we still be friends. well after i told him how i felt and if we could still be friends alls he said was ok sure why not . well he smiles at me alot and makes me laugh . but i guess my question is do u think he could still like me and should i still talk to him ? 13 f .

Hmm ... It`s hard to say if he likes you or not, but from the way things sound, he likes you. He might feel a little akward since you told him your feelings about him. You should keep talking to him, but talk to him like you normally would & try not to make him feel pressured about his feelings. And try not to come on too strong, stay friends with him, & maybe you`ll be the one he asks out next. ♥ Allie.

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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

If you really do like this guy you need to make the first move if he`s too shy. Just walk up to him in the hallway & start a normal conversation. I know it will be hard, but if you want to get to know him you need to "break the ice". You definately need to become friends first because it will make things a whole lot easier ! ♥ Allie. Good Luck !

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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?

I think it all depends on the person. It will most likely happen at the most unexpected moment, so force yourself or someone else into it or it won`t be "enjoyable". If I had at say an age though I would say around middle school age. ♥ Allie.

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okay so theres this guy i like and i dont think he knows i like him or knows who i am. we never really talk but every time i see him it seems like hes looking at me and smiles at me and if im talking to my friend (shes friends with him) he will come over and say hi to her which he never does when im not around...i want to know if he really might like me or if its wishful thinking?

It definatly sounds like he likes you ! He`s probably too shy to actually say it though. You should make the first move by going up to him and starting up a conversation.
♥ Allie.

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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.

But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.

How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.

Help equals instant 5.

Say something to him like, "So what are you doing this weekend?" or, "What are you doing tonight?" Then ask him if he wants to hang out with you someday .. like go to the movies or something. Or if your really outgoing .. Just straight out tell him, "Hey I like you!" lol.
Other than that, I don`t really know what else to tell you, but Good Luck !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !

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i like this guy. its just every time we talk on the phone i get sooo nervous and i cant be myself, so i dont know what to talk about without sounding like a complete loser. so what can i talk about on the phone? help.

First, you need to take a deep breath and relax ! Okay, start a conversation about: What happend at school that day, Music, Sports, etc .. Once you get the conversation started, it`ll be easy. Just remember that he`s probably just as nervous as you !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !

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okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude?

If you`ve had to repeat yourself more than a couple times, and he`s still not getting a clue .. you`re going to have to be rude. Don`t be extremly rude though because you don`t want to hurt him, just be firm enough so he`ll take a hint. If you don`t assert yourself he`s going to keep on asking .. and that could get really annoying ! lol.
♥ Allie

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I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What?

Sounds to me like you two could be more then 'just friends'.

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okay well there is this guy that asked me out last year && i saw no. but now i regret it..because i guess i like him now..but now he is going out with my friend && everybody is like saying they are PERFECT for each other..&& i heard that he brought her a ring from jared`s && now i can`t stop thinking that it could have been me. but i`m not sure if i tell him he likes me he might reject me && me && my friend may not like me anymore..

If your friendship between you and you and your friend is really important, I would try to back off the boy. No friendship is worth ruining over a boy! I don't mean to sound harsh, but you missed your opportunity with that boy and it's time to move on. Hope this helped!

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alright yesterday i was at this park with a bunch of my friends and this kid that i started to like started flirting with me and i was freezing so he was like.. come down here we can cuddle and keep each other warm im like alright so i moved down and he put his jacket on me and was rubbing my tummy and stuff and then he started going up my shirt im like alright oh well nothing big really and then they had to leave and so did i so when we were walking up the path thing to get to the road he stopped me turned me around and started kissing me yeah sounds cute and shit i know i thought so too and then im friends with the kid that is living in his house now and was talking to him on the phone and stuff and then he was telling me how the kid was saying he didnt know if he liked me and that if he stuck with this other chick that was at a party we were at early he probably would've gotten more shit from her and then this morning i talked to that kid thats living with him again and he said that the other kid wouldnt wanna hang out with that other girl and stuff and would wanna hang out with me and i was like well .. then why did he say that last night hes like i dont know he was being stupid he doesnt wanna show his feelings or whatever and now i dont know what to believe.. please help .

x3 brooke

sorry soo long

He sounds like a jerk to me. Just try to forget him, because if he's taking this long to decide if he wants to 'be with you' he's not worth your time. ♥ Hope this helped !!

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There's this guy I like.. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's got a girlfriend but he'll say I'm cute and pretty and everything. He'll even slap my butt and put his hands on my waist. When I talk to him I don't really know what to say. What are some things that I can say to him that are really flirty and sort of get the point to him that I like him?

Well first of all if this guy already has a GF he should'nt be acting like that with you. Anyways, if you are letting him do this stuff to you he should already get the point that you like him. If you not shy, try just straight out saying that you like him

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So.. ilike this guy but my friend also likes him. I don't think he likes her like that, i know this is going to sound concetied, but i think he likes me. if he does and i go out with she'll be mad, but i really like this guy. Me and hers friendship is sort of rocky and she has stolen my crush before and revenge is sweet...what should I do?

yeah...revenge is sweet but just remember that guys will always come and go, but friends will always be there for you! if you talk to her and tell her that your friendship with her is much more important than some guy, if she is a true friend she will back off from the guy to keep your friendship together! hope i helped! ~allie

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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?

talk to the person and get to know them. just follow your heart and go for it! hope i helped! ~allie

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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.

it sound to me like hes flirting! guys have weird ways of saying things sometimes. all you can really do is to flirt back! hope i helped! ~allie

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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

Ask one of your close friends to ask him out for you-so that way its not really you asking him out. it will make things a lot easier! hope i helped!~allie

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ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..

i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :(

awWwwWww...! i know EXACTLY how you feel! if he said he still loves you and you still have feelings for him- you guys should totally get back together! trust is the most important thing in a relationship! hope i helped! ~allie

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ok this may take a while but it's worth it. i have this guy friend, he's a sophomore and i'm a senior. we get along really well - we have a brother/sister relationship. i've liked him for a while and he likes me, except there are a few problems:
-we tried being more than friends for a little bit (hanging out, making out, etc.) but it didn't work out, i ended it, but i'm not sure why
-he's looking for a more physical relationship while i'm looking for a more emotional one
-if we went out and my friends found out, they'd kill me. they'd do everything they could to get us to break up because not one of them likes him
-i don't want to lead him on if i'm just gonna hurt him again
i know i may have left some things out. if you need more info just ask and i'll add it. thanks so much :)

talk to him and tell him that if your going to have a relationship with him that you want an emotional relationship,try compromising. if your friends have a problem with you being happy and havong a good relationship with somebody than they are not being true friends. try to get your friends to hang out with him and maybe they will become friends with him too. hope i helped! ~allie

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Me and this guy have liked eachother for about 2 months (long story why we're not dating yet) and we were outside of our friend's house. We held hands and he kissed me. My parents just happened to be driving by at the time, and me being their "little baby girl" they're extremely over-protective. They went to his house and told him to stay away from him and told me that I wasn't allowed to talk to him anymore. I am very upset about this and so is he. I usually don't get chances like this to have a relationship so please..help. What can I do to make this work?

try talking to your parents. tell them something that will ensure them that you can be trusted when your with him. tell them that you have known him long enough and trust him and that you arnt their "little baby girl" anymore! good luck! ~allie

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I'd appreciate some direct ways to say something to my bf of over a year.

we'd been talking and he needed a float loan of $800 for a few days to help with a mortgage approval. that is ok. but when he called about it, i mentioned the fact that one of my friends saw his updated ad on match.com, that it hurt my feelings, he knows it hurts my feelings, i care about him a great deal, and i thought we were over and done with that BS months ago. His reply was... can we talk later? can I call you later? I said 'are you gonna call me later?' and he said yes. I said ok and we hung up. I know his style and he'll probably test the waters in a few days and then never mention it again.

Guys... just help me say no more, clearly in a way that he doesn't just shut down. Thanks.
ps... me f/39 and him m/35

if you forgive him hes just going to put you through all of this BS again. tell him that if he cant talk about whats up with him then you cant keep a relationship with him. hope i helped!~allie

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