alright yesterday i was at this park with a bunch of my friends and this kid that i started to like started flirting with me and i was freezing so he was like.. come down here we can cuddle and keep each other warm im like alright so i moved down and he put his jacket on me and was rubbing my tummy and stuff and then he started going up my shirt im like alright oh well nothing big really and then they had to leave and so did i so when we were walking up the path thing to get to the road he stopped me turned me around and started kissing me yeah sounds cute and shit i know i thought so too and then im friends with the kid that is living in his house now and was talking to him on the phone and stuff and then he was telling me how the kid was saying he didnt know if he liked me and that if he stuck with this other chick that was at a party we were at early he probably would've gotten more shit from her and then this morning i talked to that kid thats living with him again and he said that the other kid wouldnt wanna hang out with that other girl and stuff and would wanna hang out with me and i was like well .. then why did he say that last night hes like i dont know he was being stupid he doesnt wanna show his feelings or whatever and now i dont know what to believe.. please help .
icey0990 answered Saturday December 3 2005, 11:45 am: this guy only wants to do sexual things with you. wait for the guy who likes you..will go at your pace and have no problem with it ..even if hes ready for more. wait for the guy who will respect you and appreciate you. good things come to those who wait for it
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xO_Hollister_xO answered Saturday December 3 2005, 11:07 am: It's seems like he wants ALOT from you. So much he'd probably cheat on you if you didn't keep up. Your friend seems to be telling the truth, so i'd be careful if i were you. I dont think you should do anything about it. Just move on. =)
susana answered Saturday December 3 2005, 10:34 am: If I were you, I'd be careful with this new guy. Sounds like he expects a lot from his "girl." Do you want to "give out," and will you feel good about that? Yeah, fondling sure feels good, but it sounds as though that happened awfully quickly and that isn't always a good sign. I'm sure your friend who lives with this guy is telling you the truth, but remember what he said the guy said the night before about wanting to be with a girl who he could have gotten more from. Do you want a guy who bases his decisions about who will be his girl on whether or not she'll give him more? Wouldn't you rather be with someone who likes you for you without thinking about how much he can possibly get from you? Again, just be careful. You don't want to be hurt. It sounds to me like this guy has the potential to be a jerk. [ susana's advice column | Ask susana A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Saturday December 3 2005, 10:28 am: you have to see who you trust. i don't think you're friend would be lying to you about it. plus you don't want to get into things with a guy that could possibly like another girl you know?? try talking to the guy about it that was flirting with you & what not.
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