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My guy friend & I like eachother as more than friends. I'm a bit worried because it'll be my first relationship & I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone fill me in? Thank you!
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expect the unexpected! perople tend to be more than you expected once you get to know them more. Not saying itll b a total wreck, but it might turn out to be even better. Trust your heart and do wut you think is right!
hope i helped
~Texas~
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I'm in love with a trumpet player in my school band, and I'm reasonably certain that he is interested in me as well, but he is shy and I'm not sure how to send out the vibe that I want him anymnore than I already have. Any advice for the desperately in love such as myself?
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the best thing you can do is just to tell him how you feel...... he wont know you like him until you do. the effect of that is then he wont finally know if he likes you or not. if i were you i would just say " hey you wanna hang out with me n my friends this weekend at the movies/ mall/ wherever" make it as casual as you can!
hope i helped!
~texas~
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16/f
ummmm...like the subject says, i've never been kissed. and it gets to me. everytime i think about it, i get all depressed and start to think that i'm ugly and that no one will ever like me and i'll never be loved. how do i stop thinking about this?! i don't wanna feel like this anymore....
thx in advance
i rate high for good answers! (link)
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just because you have never been kissed and your 16 doesnt mean that you never will... a kiss is a thing that should be shared between 2 people when the are ready. you just havent found that perfect person yet. Dont worry they're out there it only takes time.
hope i helped
~texas~
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Okay i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We really care about each other and he is really open about his feelings. He told me that he loves me and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me . He even said if we were old enough he would marry me!He writes me notes and sometimes he will read them over the phone. We went to the movies and he fingered me and he wanted me to touch him but i wouldn't. I feel the same way he does but i'm too scared to say it. I say that I love him but that's all. Im too embarrased to read the notes over the phone i write him. And i love it when he touches me like he does and i want to touch him but for some reason i just wont. What should i do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel cuz the exact thing is happening to me. I love him he loves me. thats all that matters. He does syuff to me, but he knows i am not comfortable touching him....... he respects that and your guy should too. If he doesnt then you should really consider why you love him. Hope i helped!
~texas~
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
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anything is possible at 13..... totally! love is possible at any age. He sounds like a great guy and id stay friends with him.... even if you guys cant date. Plus, friends make better bfs!
Hope i helped!
~texas~
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My boyfriend's parents just don't like me and I can't figure out why! I don't smoke, drink, or do anything like that. I'm in college with a 4.0 GPA for Journalism and Communications and I do lots of volunteer work. What's not to like?!? All my ex-boyfriend's mom's have loved me to death: I even still hang out with one of them! I also do so many things for my boyfriend, such as when he has a big test to study for, I'll organize his desk, do his laundry, or bring him dinner. I leave him sweet notes in the morning! We've been going out for 2 years, and he absolutely loves me, yet his parents have a different opinion. They tell him that he needs to date other people and that they don't think I'm right for him. This is just so strange to me! What's going on? (link)
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HI!!!! well this might sound weird, but it might be true.........
Could it be that your bf's parents are jealous? think about it. For years his mom has made him dinner, did his laundry and now that your in the picture could it be she feels un wanted? If i were you, i would try to talk to her and explain how much he loves you for the things you do for him and that your sure he loves her to because she did everything for him too. And that your not trying to steal him your just being a good gf. Hope i helped!
~texas~
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hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice (link)
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you know you n me are not to different. Only im on the side of the girl you love. My boyfriend of 3 yrs goes to a different school and i only see him roughly 5 times a year. We work well. He knows how you feel. Its hard not to have someone to hold everyday, but you gotta do it. tell the girl you love. no one likes to be in the dark. you wont feel bad about it, in fact you might actually feel better!!! Good luck!
~texas~
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I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship. (link)
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love is possibly the best thing and the worst in the world. Im not saying that you cant fall in love at 14, but you DID say, "But i was just asked out..." and eventhough you might feel really strongly for a person, it takes a long time to determine if your in love. If you really like this guy then prove every jerk out there that says your not and stay with this guy. But only if that is what you truely want
~texas~
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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do (link)
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the always say you never know how much you love someone until there gone. I know how you feel only not to that extent. My condolences go out to you and the family. It will be hard at first, but you have to get back out there. NO ONE likes the feeling, but just think.... if you dont, you might turn out to be one of 3 things. 1) a pimp. 2) an old man sitting on his porch alone except for his 27 cats, or 3) a pedifile. * just trin to lighten the situation* but seriously, the best thing you can do is get out there. She wouldnt want you alone and depressed. Hope i helped.
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I just recently got asked out, and I said yes to make them happy. But, after the first day I'm already feeling crappy. I find myself comparing him to my first relationship, because it was so wonderful. My question is does this feeling ever go away? Can a relationship that starts off with no spark ever get better? (link)
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you will never forget your first love, i know i wont, and you cant really tell that a relationship might not or may get better. it might just be that you are afraid of falling for this guy. If i were you, i would not go out with someone you dont like. That only leads to more pain. hope i helped!
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theres this guy who likes me and i like him. at lunch he was trying to like get his leg up against mine (according to my friend, she said he was sitting awkwardly and thats what it looked like, but shes only like 95% positive) anyways, he kinda kept kicking me so i was like "you keep kicking me" like playfully and he just kinda smiled and was like "sorry" so now i kno what happened and i feel RETARDED for saying hes kicking me! should i like never bring it up again or what.....becuz i'm not for sure if he was trying to play footise or anything, ahhh i feel so dumb! what do i do! (link)
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you are anything but "retarded." i think this is just the typical guy likes girl, guy acts weird senario. I think he likes you!!!!!!!!! My one question is, do you like him? Do not feel stupid for what you said, and take it as an oppertunity to get a little flirting in! Or, when you guys start going out, (if) this can be the thing you remember as what "brought you together" Go For It!!!!!!!!
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I wanna "flirt with this guy .. But i don't exactly know how .. What's your definition of flirting ??
Thanx Bunches (link)
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Flirt- adjitive; showing affection for another without telling said someone you like them. lol Good huh? =) when i flirt with guys, i do it really subtilly. i act normal when their showing some one something, i walk over behind him and put my chin on his shoulder and look at the magizine, pic, ect you get the idea. Hope i helped!
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Hey my name is J.B. I am 17 year old male and I really like these two girls at my school. I have asked one out several times but she is always busy. The other girl is not dating anyone else and is also (in my oppinion) the most beautiful girl in school. Im not sure she even notices me. I need some help.
P.S. I love to write poetry and i have used her as inspiration a time or two. (link)
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awwwwwwwww......it seems like you love this girl. ASK HER OUT!!!!!!!!!! give her a poem youve written, and hope for the best. Let the other girl know that youve moved on, and wish her happy traveling! be as sweet as possibe, which i can tell you are, and just do it!!!! You will be sooooooooo happy afterwards. Even if she said no, you will grow as a person. And you will find someone who appriciates you for you! Good luck! And God Bless!
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I really need a lot of help on getting over my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for 9 months and we loved eachother and everything*. but we broke up like 4 months ago and since he was my first love and first and only person to have sex with.. i was absolutly in love with him. But now he has a new gf and i need to move on. I sorta like this kid and he likes me a lot too but i just need help .. i can't like picture myself with any1 else yet.Nothings like 'clicking' with any1 esle.. nothings the same. Help please- i'll rate (link)
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well, yours is a tricky one. i know how you feel, let me say that. Same thing happened to me and my ex. If i were you, i would try this other guy out and see how you feel. I would also talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. Also be sure to alk to his new girl friend and tell her that you arent trying to stal him away from her, you just want some answers to your relationships. but with this other guy, let him know that you like him, but let him know that you just got out of a really long relationship. Just be honest with everyone. that is the best thing you can do. Hope i helped!!!!!!!
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Ok so i've asked questions about this one boy before and well i'm asking some more. I'm talking to my ex again and he said that he's missed hanging out with me and that he regrets ever breaking up with me and stuff but when I ask him if he would ever go back out with me if given a chance he said he doesn't know. And he like hits on me and flirts with me and is getting me to talk to him more and open up again. Does this mean anything? Can anyone analyze it all? Please, I just need some help. Thanx! (link)
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it seems like your boy is suffering from post girlfriend syndrom. after he broke up with you, he realized that he cant get a gurl better than you. my best friend shelbz is going through the same thing, but she found a better guy. Dop the old and get the new. there are pleanty of others.
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I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for v - day... he likes soccer, skiing, and snowboarding... i'm not really sure what kind of candy he likes and i want something great because i'm knew to this and i am bad at getting stuff for boys. Pleaz help, i rate high..
p.s. i want something that will make him smile (link)
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you said he liked soccer. Why not get him a new soccerball, but instead of just a black n white ball, write all of your fav memories on the white parts! i did that with my bf, and he absolutely loved it! hope you to have fun!
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my b.f n i have been dating for about a couple of weeks n hes the sweetest guy i've ever met and we do everything together but idk wat to get him for v-day! hes 15 (16 in may) and hes into baseball and basketball! and i want to get him something that he'll like and not something stupid! something to show that i care n i love hiM! i need ideas please help (link)
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if i were you, i wouldnt get him anything TO big, cuz then you look desprate. Which you deffinatly arent! i would burn him a CD of his favorite songs, and make him a homemade card saying how much you like going out with him. If he is your bf, then he should get you something dont worry!
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Hi...um i like this one guy and i think he likes me, but everytime i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me, he says that he doesn't. He always is staring @ me in the halway and he smiles @ me and stuff! he's really cute and really nice and i really like him! HELP! i rate high!
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alot of friends say that their friend dont like people because they are afraid of loosing a friend. The best thing you can do is ask him personally. If he said no, there are other fish in the sea. If yes, make it last as long as possible and good luck!!!
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Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop. (link)
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i know how you feel........ i myself am very ticklesh. my boyfriend did the samething for the first year of our relationship. What i did, was i simply told him that if he didnt stop, he wouldnt have anyone to tickle! in the nicest way possible. if you are truely uncomfortable with what he is doing, and he still keeps doing it, drop him like hes hott!
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