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How do you know if your in love.I'm a girl and I'm in my teens,I curious is there a sign to know if he's the right one ,please help. (link)
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you want to know symptom of love ,am right .you know love is the natural things it came out from heart so frist is we like one whom i want ,.suppose that if you like any boy in this situation if that boy talk with another girl you feel tense your self.the other is you feel every time him ,you think about him ,will try to talk him,and every time you stand for him for help.so i think all the love symptom.if you have any one above than you are in love
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ok my feonsay and and i have been going out for almost a year she has had a hard up bringing and we work out sooooo well whin we are together now hir fother abandend hir whin she was 2 and another man rased hir his name is shon now back in the day hir and hir dad yousto do dope now she dosint do it any more but he dose now she is 21 now and he is saying that he loves hir tonight she told me that he tuched hir and if she is not guna b with hir he is guna kill me and she and i beleave that he will so she dose what he sase now he also has HIV so if somthing hapends i cant b with hir we love each other alot i wana spend the rest of my life with hir but i dont know what to do someone help me !!!! (link)
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write your question in proper way ,do not use short form
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We started off talking like every few days. Hung out a few times and texted eachother a lot. And he was obviously interested as I am. Well now I feel like he along with some other friends just quit talking to mw so much. Yeaterday he texted me and asked how work was going. I said it was alright and stuff and he didn't reply then he texted me a few hours later saying woo you get off in a hour. And that's it. Today he didn't text me at all. I texted him and said I hope he had a great day and no reply. I just don't understand why he's backing up all of a sudden. And just everyone else it seems at the same time. (link)
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may be he had that type habit.but why are you confused .you not wrote in your note that you and he love each other so if you have not any relation with him ,than why are you confused.other things is he is not intrested in you so do not care and and not confused.
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Ok so me and my Boyfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks.. (2 weeks and 6 days) And he says he is going to kiss me.. But he never does.. How do i know when he will.. Oh.. And i probably should mention this too. I am 12 and he is 14. (link)
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are you excited for kiss before while he did not .but you know frist kiss is very sweet than other .you feel fly when he will kiss you you reach in the haven when he will you ,and released yourself in his arm so take enjoy feel proud you at lest you found your frist love .best of luck
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Okay so just warning, this will probably end up being long so please bare with me..
About 5 years ago, My mom had started being with a new guy and he has 3 kids. A girl who is now 13 and 2 boys who are around my age 21&22 (I'm 22 as well).. well with the two boys were their best friend,and my (stepdad) the guy my mom has been with, had know his son's best friend since he was born! So they had been pretty close considering they all knew eachother since birth. . Well these new people had came into my life.. and overtime I could say my stepdad and my siblings and their best friend also became a close friend of mine.. he was always at my house... we were all super tight. Well soon after i met (the best friend of my brothers, we'll call him Ry, who is my ex now) he started being with someone .. which was completely fine because I never looked at him like that at that time... he had been with this girl for like 4years. And they had a son together almost 2 years ago.. which was also fine.. we were all close and we all accepted that.. well Ry had already broken up with her a few times because he was just NEVER happy with her, would say how she's just bland and negative all the time and he just was not happy with her. Then last year in october, my family and I all went to a company picnic at an amusement park and along came Ry.. the night we all went home to my house and werr just chillin, he like spills out how he's felt about me for so long and could just never tell me because of his babymom and jus spilled his heart out to me saying hes always wanted me but thought i was beyond out of his league. I had never known how he felt all this time! I was trippin. He ended up leaving her.. in hopes of being with me. We had talked and hung out and the more we did, the more i started to realize i have feelings for this guy.. and i never knew it til then...And i would always say how this would have to take time and we both agreed. But as the days and literally just HOURS that went by with us we just completely fell for eachother. Head over heels. He ended up living with me n my fam because they had already known him for years.. so since the company picnic happened, it was only a week after that that we started talking.. he was here all the time so he jus ended up living here.. my family and I all accepted that he had a kid and him being with their daughter (me) .. we only were together for 1 MONTH! but knowing him all those years before and how I felt jus about him as a person, it didn't matter.. we fell in LOVE. we did everything together. I mean he lived with me! And we'd see his son 3 days out of the week becauae it was split between him and the mom depending on their work schedules... and I cared and catered to that little boy, I opened my heart to him and accepted that my boyfriend had a kid. I was fine with everything... well the last few days of our relationship we started kinda arguing a bit. About STUPID, overcomeable stuff.. buuuut. He wanted to leave.. he saId if we were arguing this soon in, then how bad will it be years from now.. and I would say how relationships take work and time and we can fix this... that's all I wanted to do... he jus left. And he never truly gave me a reason... 3 days later was thanksgiving... I found out he was back with his babymom. I was devestated but quickly it turned to anger and hate and I destroyed everything that reminded me of him.. and told myself to forget him.. after all, I'd probably neverrr everrr see or talk to him again in my life...last thing i said to him was that i HATED HIM and said mean things cuz i was hurt..well 2months after, I find out he got her pregnant again! And I just laughed... whatever floats their boats right? Im sitting here thinking oh they got their little happy family and everythings obviously good with them...i had forgiven him for everything. He didnt know that. But within myself i forgave him because it was the only way i could heal. And i dont hate anyone so it was eating at me that that was the last thing i said to him.. well now its been 6 months since our breakup and ive been totally fine, not ever thinking about him or being sad. I erased him in a way because im like hes with her thats what he wants. Well my brother hadnt talked to Ry since everything... until 2 nights ago! Ry went to my bros house and just spilled out everything with how hes feeling... regret, stress, pain, tears, unhappiness . And how he just wants me back more than anything. And how he had everything when he had me and he's been so unhappy with his babymom but the reason he left was because he felt it was right to go be a family with her and their son.. but then got her pregnant like right away!and they found out at 2 months and everything just started hitting him like crazy, his mind started racing and going crazy about me all the time.. he would look up my instagram on google, listen to our old songs. And jus say how he F'd up sooo bad and nows he's just F'd and he doesn't know what to do because he's not happy with her at all and he doesn't know why he did what he did to me and hes been trippin on all of this for 4 months now.. I was shocked... I mean 6 months of nothin. . Then bam... this. And it brought up all these feelings that I didn't know I could feel ever again... I thought that part was llong gone. I haven't been mad at him for all this time and i haven't hated him and its like I should right? I mean he's coming back to me now after all this time with a 2 year old boy and a girl on the way... telling me how bad he needs me and how much hes sorry and how hes never stopped thinking about me and that he thought he was doin the right thing leaving me for his family but realized he shoulda worked it out with me and things wouldnt be as bad as they are now and that all he wants is for me to b his girl again and he would fight n fight and he jus sounded so broken... i mean youd think that allll of me would be like TOO BAD ITS WHAT YOU GET, and jus forget him all together but why can't I ? Its like allll this time I thought he wasn't thinking of me at allll and jus forgot me, all to find out the complete opposite. .. now in jus lost and confused.. because there's still a part of me that wants him .. but now he has TWO kids! Not one but TWO. like that second kid is the only thing that holds me back from wanting to be with him....I have no idea what to do! I can't even talk to my family about it because they have noooo idea I've even thought about Ry and have talked to him. They'd probably disapprove of how I feel completely and jus think I'm stupid and dumb if I wanted him still. Mainly because he has another kid on the way... I can see them accepting it all if there wasn't another kid on the way.. and its hard for me to as well... like that second kid is the onlyyyy thing holding me back. I keep tellin myself like noo you can't.. how could youu. He has aNOTHER kid coming... how could it ever work... but there's still that part that wants him... I mean I'm a 22 year old woman and have no kids of my own and the person I woulda done anything for now has 2 ! And he wants me back.. like what do i do? :( . I'm not bein a homewrecker either. And never did when we first dated. They had aalready broken up and he was jus supposedly done with her... when he first got back with her after me he was set on jus bein a family and sticking it out n never leaving but realized shortly after that's realky not what he wanted at all but knowin he has a kid on the way he's jus been stuck. I know I shouldn't even talk to him and put myself thru all that again but my heart is jus heavy and its so easy to cry and that's crazy because I haven't cried bout him in 6 months and he just comes back in my life and instantly I cry.. its showing me that I'm truly not over him.. and I thought I was because I just hadn't talked to or seen him.. but how do i accept 2 kids now... and our families im sure disapprove completely.. I just don't know what to do. And I've just been crying ever since I got a phone call from my brother telling me that Ry isn't doing good and that he kept saying he misses me and he messed up bad. My mind is totally twisted! I hhave nooo one else to talk to about this. I don't know what I'm doing or feeling or how to handle this.. it's killing me.. I miss him sosooo much :( (link)
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there is a very tough situation now for you but before when you lived with him he also leave you alone while you accepted of all him like his child and his family but do not care you and leave you alone so there is no surety that you can spent your whole life with him. second think is that take decision yourself ,not think about other as your brother said you he[your ex] missed you very much.you are just 22 so you can find better then him he has two child you not own so how you can do at all with him.indeed he missed you because he are unable to care his child and you know a women is care your child better if you compare with men.so he not need a life partner he need a servant and women for night you can analyz yourself.what is better for you but i suggest you not make relation again ,not tryst him if his ex back he again leave you than what will you do ,this situation will too critical FOR YOU SO so no need to twisted have patient and think coolly .do not think about his condition like he is sad ,depressed and other ,think when he left you alone you was sad that time he also do not care you so as think as he was think in past.so search a better guy who care you and all time think about you and love ,not as guy when they have need you think about you and when they happy with her baby mom ,leave you .i think you can take a better decision .best of luck
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i've been married for 5 years and i've met this guy who is my sister's friend. He lives in another town. He's been recently sending me messages through facebook. What should I do?? Because I've started to like him..I really love my husband,though, and I'm afraid of hurting him. (link)
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well but you also started to like him so i think you also flirt him but if you want your life happniness than stop talk him and sy him good bye because you also love your husband very much so for happy marriage life devotion and trust is very necessary.if you not hurt him than you lost your husband and happy life so say him gently that i want my husband not you but you can become a good friend
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Thanks a lot mr.santos for your valuable advice. But i wanna know am i cheating my boyfriend? Because am searcing my boyfriend whenever am sad and neglecting him when i feel his presence is not important. But why do i search my bf whenever am depressed?? At that time why do i feel like i wanna lie on his chest and get console?? I ve heard whom we are searching in our most troublesome period is the one who we love the most.. Is this love what am having on him?? Whether am blaming or just using him whenever am in need of him?whats happeneing in me?? I need advice plsss (link)
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Dear you know which we want ,not get every time ,if who get they are very lucky.you are confused because you are not deciding right answer.every one want a company if he feel sad and depressed so you also.you like him but your problem is that you are not concentrate between love and parents but i tell you my story.i had a relation with a girl when i was doing MBA .i lived in agra i talked her 6 hours daily i was very crazy for her but one day some misunderstanding raised between me and her she suspected me that i also talked with other girl but i was innocent ,not talk any girl.my relation was two year old but broke .love is like small plant if you not watering properly this plant destroy.you know love is the soul voice ,is very sensitive thing .you need him when you feel sad and depressed because that time you feel he care you so you need and want him but the meaning of love is differ .love is the name of devotion for each side both you and him.love is the name of trust both side .love raised form heart is the soul voice .i feel your emotion what you wrote in your note .if you wand him ,depressed with out him ,may be you love him but you do not want exposed your love reason you know ,your family restrictions you feel bound from your family.so Dear do not depressed ,concentrate your study if you have brave heart than go ahead .i know which you wrote in your note is the symptom of love because i see it very nearly i feel hurt myself in love so dear it also right whom we search in crises period is the one we love the most .
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Hello friends!! Am bhuvaneswari of India.Am 20 doing my engineering final year.I met a boy in my first year of college.He was not that much smart but something impressed me and i have proposed him.He too accepted.But after a moment i proposed i felt so bad why did i proposed him because basically i hate this love because my parents are so much strict. But he started to love me truely.Many times i have admired him because of his care and affection towards me.Many times i just really feel like hating him because of his very much possessiveness, appearance and attitude.Even i feel very shy to tell my friends he is my boyfriend because he is not that much smart and not that much talented studieswise.Whatever he does like caring me whenever am not in need of it, i feel like irritating but manytimes i will miss him like hell when am much depressed and i will search him only when am in a problem or when am very much sad. Also i never think off to make him suffer in anything and i will be helping him everytime but i fail to care for him whenever he is in need of it. Always the matters between us ends up in a great fight.but always he apologizes and come to me even the mistake is mine because he loves me truely and he never allows me to face any kind of bad situation.even many times i have felt him he is my god but i feel like hating him sometimes and am not takng care of him. am not that much worryng even he doesn't eat and i dont worry about his health. Why am doin like this ? He is such a nice guy i always try to love him but am unable to do it. He is suffering a lot because of me but i feel like i want him in future but not now because i dont want him to make suffer by my foolish thoughts because he is such a nice loveable guy.Am scared that i will miss him in my future if i make distance now because i feel that no girl will get such a nice character boy in her life.But am unable to care for him wholeheartedly now and also i dont want him to suffer like hell because of my stupid character. And now my parents have come to known about my love but they dont know that am not in deep love.They have started to be strict and i also wanted to develop my family by studyng well.At this critical situation this kind of concept of love is killing me.. What to do at this situation?I dont want to miss him in my life because i cant lead happiest life without his care and affection towards me.But at the same time i dont feel like i love him dont feel like caring him i feel hatred that my parents have bad impression on me that their daughter had fell in love. I really dont know what am doing;(so much depressed unable to love and care for him wholeheartedly and unable to get out of his life.He is suffering like hell because of me i cant see that;(plss give any good solution for my life plss:( (link)
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Dear am also from india .i know indian girl want as boy friend who have lot money and smart and talented .love can not buy by money .it is a natural things. ,it is not love which you said in your note ,is just a affection. really love want two side but this is only one side.you are also confused so what you do love.second thing is that you not hurt your parents and her boy friend ,is not possible ,you have to hurt one so i know you will hurt your boy friend.love do with soul not form mind and you are doing love from mind i think you are using your boy friend.he love you and care you but you not .love means -kro ya mro. love want sacrifice . so suggest you leave him and not play his emotions .you need him in future ,not now . you know your future what happened in future,answer is no .so develop your family and do your study.love is not for that type people like you.love is the soul of voice ,is not a voice of mind and you are using your mind for love so solution for you -leave him and concentrate your study.best of luck.
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So, I have a boyfriend who I really really love..But ive met this guy on facebook. He started to chat me up and persuaded me to sort of being slutty towards him..Its all been done through the chat..The thing is that i decided to go a little further..and I sent him a picture of me being naked..Ive been feeling miserable ever since..What was I thinking?? I decided not to talk to this guy anymore..please.I need some advice..Thanks!! (link)
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it is a big mistake which you have done you should think,90% id on face book is fake ,.he also blackmail you through this picture so do not sudden stop talking show him that you love him and say him delete my naked picture ,tell me this guy is live in your country or in your city..do not think if he black mail you can complaint in police .also zane's is right,you have learned a lesson and never ever do some thing like that again ,learn from your past mistake .
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i am 15/f. on 6th feb 2012, he proposed me. we had been besties and then when he proposed...i still remember the happiness...i have never been so happy in my life.and the best part was he liked what i did and understood before i said things...he knew me completely. more to say i never thought he was human, i thought he could read me. i was so overwhelmed by him. every thing about him. i was his first and he is my first love. till i left that town and shifted...we still shared the same love until one day he cut all contacts without any fight or anything . i later came to know that his father had forcefully taken away all his COMMUNICATION FACTORS. but slowly, as i eagerly waited for him, i heard he didnot miss me, jokes around and flirts in school,he does hav a cell which he lends to girls and uses to call his new gf ...and so on including a few instances where he abused me indirectly . i must mention that all these were from sources and not him. what he texted himself was..." I CAN NOT LOVE you ANYMORE. I HAVE GF HERE". so....i tried to kill myself
then this guy whom i had rejected once called me up and he was all the mental strength i needed at that time to recover and want to live again. i have to mention that he is not at all like me in any way . he is quite repulsive and difficult for me to understand. but i didnot ditch him coz i didnot want to hurt him and slowly i fell for him. atleast i thought i did. but yes, i admit that it was not so overwhelming and special and i never felt the same as my first love. it was more of formal love...something that i was doing rather than it being happening on itself. i hope the difference is clear. but we fought a 1000000 times which was hurting and yet we never broke up...if you call that love .
now somehow my x is back and...he says that he never ditched me but by the time he had the means to contact me i was already with this other guy so he didnot want to disturb?...he texted that ...remember?...i am myself confused but whenever i talk to him i can't but trust him.so according to him, he still loves me and always will.
and as i had said...my present bf ...we are again fighting. he is ignoring me. he doesnot have time for me. but he never says he doesnot love me . i know he does because his whole family knows what he is up to with me which my x never dared to tell his family.
so now, i am confused. i love both of them so much. and both of the love i feel is very different in nature. though, the one for my x is very intense, the one for the other guy is very caring and giving if that makes sense.if i had a chance i would go back to my x but now i also feel i wont be able to trust him like before?...or maybe i can?...i still love him and i feel those cravings inside me. but i cant at the same time imagine my present bf crying because of me. i am in a complete mess. i love both of them. what to do?...whom to choose? (link)
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choose one who loves you and careing you if your ex-want you he contacted you but he did not and now he said you that he do not want to distrub,what is this ,is pure cheating ,not love for you if he do not want to distrub you than now why he contacted you why???he have any answer for this why?i know ,is answer is no.which you felt in your frist love as everyone feel same as you ,frist love and frist rain is different than other .you know girl like their praise if boy friend always tell a lie and say her ,darling i love you girl understand truth it but boys alwaya use girls for sex they think he is realy so much love me.but situation is different there. so give your heart as one who care you and love you with soul not for physical attraction.i think you can choose one now
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okay so i am 15/f. sorry my story is LONG.
my bf and i had a very long fight 4 about 5 months. at first he stopped talking to me completely . he used to look at me in school. but whenever he had eye contact he used to pull his eyes away from me . i tried to talk but he kept away all the time. when i used to ask his friends where he is they always came up with an answer that he was in his football or basketball or he was just simply busy.
So that evening it was quite late , around 9 p.m. when i was returning home from my coaching. and i spotted him with MY CLASSMATE in the park in the shadow of a tree, quite close. i stopped to look and he suddenly saw me but , he didnot move away from her. i ran back home crying.
i was so depressed . i feel ill. when he could not spot me in school he came over to my house. i was unconscious and i woke up with his kiss on my lips.he said he was sorry and he wanted me back. i was so happy that i didnot want to bring that evening up and spoil the happiness.
so we got back to normal and, he made love to me. he even licked and fingered me and made me orgasm. we became tooo close and he said he loved me all the time.
but yesterday when he was making love to me, that girl came over to his home . so when he was busy talking to her in the hall i checked his cell. there were some texts like..."when can we meet?"...i am waiting...i want you so close ....are you busy tonight etc.
i dont want to think he is cheating me because he has made love to me and ... somehow i am connected to him from my body and soul. can any one tell me what is up with him?he has never brought up her name in front of me. am i overthinking? (link)
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yes he cheating you,you can understand yourself he want relationship with other girl and do not want to leave you reason is you fulfill his sexsual desire he used you for sex so i suggest you just leave him and seek trusted guys .you want her with body and soul but he want you only for sex and do flirt other girls so understand and leave him
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Okay so i like this guy but we aren't dating. Hes moving away in 3 days and i STILL haven't told him i like him! I'm 12 so I'm very shy and insecure so i don't think i could stand the embarrassment of rejection. Will you help me? (link)
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if you like him say just him that you like him you just teen so to think about insecuring is possible but you like him he moving away after 3 day so do not lost it chance say him .or stop insecure think positive and leave your shyness .good luck
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i am 17 and my bf is 18. i love him a lot and he too. we were in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. now he has moved into my city and he wants to give me this special gift of being physical with him on my birthday next week. it is okay since his family knows about us and our future plans so he will not dump me. but i am really shy. i do not know why but he took me out to a date yesterday and i did not even let him hold my hand. i feel butterflies in my stomach with him around. i tense up and sweat. i have told him this but he says that i will not be shy after the first time. but how do i get over the first time itself? the idea of him with me in bed , touching my private parts and seeing me naked, feeling him inside me,kissing him etc. is like too difficult . please help!! i have to do this and i want to...so please don't ask to postpone it. just help me with the shyness thing, maybe give tips on how to relax with him around. thanks. (link)
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congratulation you will get it next week ,you are also waiting for it from long time .you know shyness is the ornaments of girl ,do not need tense support him when you go bed after one or more kiss and when he push you and touch your private part part you forget all and you remember only one things [sex and love ]sex is the last stage of love .is a good feeling after sex you feel very peace in your mind and want again and again .so just relax you should happy at least you found your love in true word .take enjoy dear best of luck for it
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i am 15 yr old female from india. in india there are cultural restrictions. still i got driven away and sent 2 bikini pics to my bf by email.but my x who had dumped me hacked my acnt n saw them and also read our naughty chat.now since someone other than my future husband has seen me ...i feel ashamed of myself as i i am a slut and i can even be sold for sex. :(...am i a slut?...i am really depressed. (link)
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Dear i also form india. where are you from india ?i think you are not slut but i suggest you .you should loyal for your future husband and how did you ex hacked your mail id you did not protect properly it do not feel ashamed you did not do any crime but you know that well here cultural restriction in that condition you should follow it do not get depressed ,keep patient everything will be fine but keep loyality for future husband ,is our culture ,is not our culture that you have ex,present and future
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How do you get more attention from your husband (link)
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you did not provide more details ,what type attention you need from your husband .so give proper details so that you can help you better
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what does it mean when the boy/ man in the relationship goes to fast? (link)
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clearly means he want something with you .i mean want do wrong with you [sex and other ]but clearly write again your question like what type relation he want with you .may be i give you a right answer
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Long story short, I am friends with this guy at work, we are both 21, and we have always talked for like the past year. We joke around all the time with eachother. He used to always try to hang out with me but I had a boyfriend so I never did. We stopped working similar shifts so we ended up not talking much anymore. But then. My boyfriend and I broke up last month, so now I am single. Pretty much, me and this guy that I work with gradually started to talk more. One day after work, we hung out for like 3 hours and talked, and he ended up kissing me. The next day I asked for his number. We texted several times. Few days after that we hung out at his house, and, even though it was not planned, we ended up sleeping together. After that happened though, things have not been the same. At work, he doesn't talk to me too much anymore--we still joke around with eachother, but when I asked him if we were going to hang out again soon he joked around and said "how about february" (joking tone)..I told him I guess I kind of get the hint that he doesn't want to hang out, and he just laughed and ignored it. He hasn't texted or anything. I understand that its finals week at school (we both go to college), so Im not pushing it but I don't get why hes being all weird? He initiated the kiss and the sex...what should I do?? (link)
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Dear reason is clear he want sex with you only and finaly he got his task is complete so why he did talk you .but you are very fool you did not understand what he want with you .he do not love you but you love him or not i do not know because you not mention in her text .but both you and he purpose is do sex ,not love .so do not think about it ignore him and think about your cute and nice life partner who you will hope in future .you know in western culture sex is main every girl or boys fullfil their sexsual desire .ignore him and seek trusted guys so that you can make him life partner.best of luck for next
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i just need someone to tell me we will make it! my boyfriend lives across the ocean, we skype everyday and we play fun games online for fun, and we met online. we love each other :) which makes me happy to say. and we are making plans in out lives together. we talk about moving in together and dates we wanna go on and places we wanna go together and we talk about out families. we have the perfect relationship.... our fall being im 15 and hes 16,... and we live on different continents... ik i sound like a little girl whos fallen head over heals for a boy who has no idea whats shes getting into... but ive never felt so in love ive never felt this kinda love back, i feel complete when talking to him. oh and i still need to tell my mom... (STRICT church lady) .... any advice on telling my mom, or relationships, or long distance relationships.
think you for any help, please keep negativity to a minimum (link)
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you mean your mom do not know about this relationship.or you want to tell her.so i suggest you frist win conffidance of your mom and see the best time to tell about your relationship to your mom .second thing you are just 15 you very little .so concentrate on your carrer and study you can thik about it after some times when you 17 or 18 .keep continue your relationship and keep trust with each other .when you feel that am perfect to go out and talk out of family then go anywhere
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15/F
Hey, everyone! I've got a lot to unload I'm sorry. In the seventh grade, we got a new student.I'll call him Lou. The year went on and Lou and I didn't really talk because we both are extremely shy. The shyness is almost crippling, actually. Eventually, about midway in the school year, he found me on Facebook and I accepted his friend request. Right away, we opened up to one another. That first day we talked for hours. We kept in contact all summer, which is unusual for me. Lou did not return for eighth grade, but we kept in contact, calling and texting one another constantly. I'm in highschool now and we still talk.(I'm texting him as I write this)One day(in the early summer between seventh and eighth grade)Lou revealed that he had a crush on me and asked me to become his girlfriend. I declined because I felt that we should know each other a little longer. Now that we've been talking so long, I feel that I'm ready to accept that offer if it still stands. We recently found out that we live very close by. He truly makes me happy and I'd love to have him in my life. My question: Is asking him out a good idea? (link)
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absolutely good .you know no one directly do love love is start frist from friendship you both know well ,can undertand each other and big thing is you know him from long time .some qualities of you and him are similar like you shy ,he also shy ,you love and understand him ,he also you so i think you can accept him offer but think is you mind decision or soul decision ,hear soul voice ,soul voice is always true .so take enjoy best of luck for you and enter in new love life .love life is very beautifull when you enter in it you see that you got all the world .
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I have this issue with my step-brother and it's kinda complicated. Basically, when we met at the ages of 7 (me) and 9 (him) we hated each other. Then as we got older we became friends. Then when I was 14 and he was 16 our relationship changed as we became more touchy feely, so fights which used to be all about injuring each other just became about having fun Then we started cuddling during said fights, if we got tired. It's not like we grew up together since I only saw him every couple of weekends when I would visit my dad. So when I was 14 I had this huge crush on him and I thought that maybe he liked me back, since the way we would treat each other was definitely not one I would treat my siblings in and I'm certain he wouldn't treat them in the saw way either. However he got a girlfriend so I backed off. He later found out I liked him but he was totally cool with it. He said he'd still do anything for me and that it didn't change anything. Then in February this year, when I was 16 and was 18, he and his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years split and he and I got really close again. We'd talk on Facebook a lot but then he started making really suggestive comments and hinting about kissing me. In March whilst at my Dad's house he and I ended up hanging out together. He began teasing me that I wanted him, and then I went off on a rant about how I didn't. Mid-rant he kissed me. He was my first kiss and he knew that too. I know at 16 maybe that's kinda lame that I've never been kissed but I was waiting for the right guy and then he kissed me which is so messed up. At the time he said that it meant nothing and that it was only to prove a point, but then after that every Sunday when I would visit my dad, me and my step-brother would end up hooking up, each time going further and further (last weekend we go to third base). It was totally different to the other times as when he touched me face to bring me in to kiss him his hand was shaking, he told me he missed me, there was no fighting before hand when there usually is, he'd kiss my cheek while we would just be cuddling, after he'd 'gone down on me' he kept worrying about whether I was okay or not, he even started eskimo kissing me at one point... but now it's really complicated because feelings aren't supposed to be involved but I think maybe they are :/ which once again, is so messed up
because it was just supposed to be for fun. I wasn't supposed to end up having feelings for him. He's my step-brother, none of this was ever supposed to happen. My friends know about it and they're all encouraging of it. And my family on my mom's side know I used to have a crush on him and they were okay with it then. However I highly doubt he has feelings for me, and if he did it's not like it could go anyway. On the one hand I don't want this thing to stop because I enjoy it but on the other hand I know that if it continues my feelings will just get stronger, we'll end up having sex and ultimately I will be the one who ends up hurt. So my questions are; Is any of this okay? What do I do now? Do you think he has feelings for me? How do I go about doing whatever it is I'm supposed to do next? (link)
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keep continue because you are not blood related and other mom okay with it so they want it ,you also like him otherwise you never agree for kiss with him ,i know well is not limit till kiss if any one kiss you that time other things happened automatically .hear your soul voice and am sure your soul voice is you like him and he also you . .what is inappropriate in it you are not blood related.so do not think and go for next step after kiss .take enjoy best of luck
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