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I'm so confused about this guy..
We started off talking like every few days. Hung out a few times and texted eachother a lot. And he was obviously interested as I am. Well now I feel like he along with some other friends just quit talking to mw so much. Yeaterday he texted me and asked how work was going. I said it was alright and stuff and he didn't reply then he texted me a few hours later saying woo you get off in a hour. And that's it. Today he didn't text me at all. I texted him and said I hope he had a great day and no reply. I just don't understand why he's backing up all of a sudden. And just everyone else it seems at the same time.
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There could be several issues here as I see this from different angles.
He may not be as interested in you as you think he is, Men that have interest in a woman tend to make them a daily priority. On the other hand, He may not be into texting as much as you. Most people would rather be approached in person then over a phone.
Bow reading further into the question, Is he possibly interested in someone eles? Maybe he sees you as a potential friend? It really sounds to me that he may just not ve interested in you in that way.
Were you always the one to ignitiate the conversation? Are you texting him too much?
If he always texted you, Then you should try talking to him and show him you are interested. If it was a mutual thing then I would back off and see if he comes too you. If not, Then he probably was never really interested to begin with.
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Moslikely, he is judging by your response. if he says yay youre about to get off, but you only reply K or something one worded or so, he wont know how to respond, because youre coming off as uninterested. best way to resolve any issues is to come right out and say whats on your mind. honesty from the get go is always the best basis for any relationship
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I've known so many guys who have done this. It can be really annoying and confusing.
I won't be able to give you a straight answer as to why he does it because know one but him actually knows why.
I could just make guesses.
Maybe he got bored. Maybe he's not as interested as he was before.
Maybe he's trying to figure out how he feels about you.
Maybe he doesn't like to text. I actually know guys who texted a lot because they really liked a girl but once that new exciting spark was over, they hardly texted.
I honestly don't know why everyone else isn't talking to you either. Maybe it's just bad timing unless they're all planning something against you lol.
Anyways, my advice would be to back off a little. If he doesn't text you, then don't text him. Maybe in a couple weeks text him and see how he's doing. If his response is nice, then you're probably alright. If he doesn't seem interested in the texts, then maybe he lost interest.
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Do you initiate the texts ever? Or Is it just him? Cause if its mostly him, the one thing he'll love is if you texted him for once.
He can see something changing in you. Either positively or negatively.
Well its one or the other isn't it? Once you excuse the possibility he may just be busy.
You say you texted him and there was no reply. I think (in my experience) this means a guy is thinking things through. He doesn't know where you two are at any more. It's a guy thing...I guess they translate mixed emotions about someone by being silent, and us girls get really confused.
I say the best corse of action, if he doesn't text you, is to not text him either. If he likes you, whether it be a week or a few weeks later, he'll text you again, as he'll miss you.
If he hasn't texted in like a week and a half I'd text him and just be like 'how are you, not spoken if a while'.
I think when you begin texting him again, remember one thing. Text him as if you're his friend, not obviously trying to get in a relationship with him. Guys like the chase. If you act all 'Oh, you never texted back' then he wont like it-too much baggage, you know.
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may be he had that type habit.but why are you confused .you not wrote in your note that you and he love each other so if you have not any relation with him ,than why are you confused.other things is he is not intrested in you so do not care and and not confused.
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