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i am feeling like a slut. am i a slut? I fear my family will sell me for sex.
i am 15 yr old female from india. in india there are cultural restrictions. still i got driven away and sent 2 bikini pics to my bf by email.but my x who had dumped me hacked my acnt n saw them and also read our naughty chat.now since someone other than my future husband has seen me ...i feel ashamed of myself as i i am a slut and i can even be sold for sex. :(...am i a slut?...i am really depressed.
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Dear i also form india. where are you from india ?i think you are not slut but i suggest you .you should loyal for your future husband and how did you ex hacked your mail id you did not protect properly it do not feel ashamed you did not do any crime but you know that well here cultural restriction in that condition you should follow it do not get depressed ,keep patient everything will be fine but keep loyality for future husband ,is our culture ,is not our culture that you have ex,present and future
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No you're not a slut. Since this was between you and your future husband, I don't see anything wrong with what you did. Your ex is the one that's in the wrong because he's the one who hacked your account. He's being immature and going through your things even though he's the one who left you.
So all you can do is learn from this experience and be more careful about sending your future husband pictures because once they are on the internet, lots of people can get to them if they try to.
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I know many internet friends from India and I know from them that there is often no mutual attraction, or sexual attraction in the arranged marriage. If you have enough attraction to your future husband to mutually enjoy naughty chat and photos, then count yourself one of the lucky ones. Doing that with him does not make you a slut, it will make you both a married couple with a healthy satisfying sex life.
Your x boyfriend is the person in the wrong because he hacked your acct. Hacking is wrong in any country. It's just hard to catch them.
In your country there are many men who are sexually frustrated and have no love, and no sex and many turn to the internet to take care of lonliness and have someone to chat to, others admit to going to sex sites to see nude photos of women.
You are not posing on a sex site, so you are not in the wrong. To be flirty and sexual and enjoy showing off your body for your sweetheart is a good thing. If it is not there, he turns to find it elsewhere, but in secret. I am sure you are embarassed to tell mom. But could you tell your bf/future husband? Say you want him to know so you can have his protection, his standing up for you and protect you in case this comes back to bite you such as x boy friend passing the photos around so others know. i would hope that your bf has some power to protect you if he is your intended. Dont know if this helps but I wish you many blessings
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