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I'm Thinking About Asking Out My Guy Friend. Is This A Good Idea?


Question Posted Monday May 13 2013, 6:33 pm

15/F
Hey, everyone! I've got a lot to unload I'm sorry. In the seventh grade, we got a new student.I'll call him Lou. The year went on and Lou and I didn't really talk because we both are extremely shy. The shyness is almost crippling, actually. Eventually, about midway in the school year, he found me on Facebook and I accepted his friend request. Right away, we opened up to one another. That first day we talked for hours. We kept in contact all summer, which is unusual for me. Lou did not return for eighth grade, but we kept in contact, calling and texting one another constantly. I'm in highschool now and we still talk.(I'm texting him as I write this)One day(in the early summer between seventh and eighth grade)Lou revealed that he had a crush on me and asked me to become his girlfriend. I declined because I felt that we should know each other a little longer. Now that we've been talking so long, I feel that I'm ready to accept that offer if it still stands. We recently found out that we live very close by. He truly makes me happy and I'd love to have him in my life. My question: Is asking him out a good idea?


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lightoftruth answered Tuesday May 14 2013, 4:33 pm:
Yeah I think it's a good idea. I'm sure he still likes you since you both are still talking and you did explain the reason why you declined before so I think you're good.
I mean you could always bring up the time he asked you out and ask him if that offer still stands.
Anyways, I think it's a good idea.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday May 14 2013, 1:06 pm:
As long as your parents have no restrictions on dating age, I say it's a BIG Yes!
And if he doesnt know why you declined before, let him know why if he asks. Enjoy!

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santos answered Tuesday May 14 2013, 2:00 am:
absolutely good .you know no one directly do love love is start frist from friendship you both know well ,can undertand each other and big thing is you know him from long time .some qualities of you and him are similar like you shy ,he also shy ,you love and understand him ,he also you so i think you can accept him offer but think is you mind decision or soul decision ,hear soul voice ,soul voice is always true .so take enjoy best of luck for you and enter in new love life .love life is very beautifull when you enter in it you see that you got all the world .

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