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drama - my man lives across the ocean - help
i just need someone to tell me we will make it! my boyfriend lives across the ocean, we skype everyday and we play fun games online for fun, and we met online. we love each other :) which makes me happy to say. and we are making plans in out lives together. we talk about moving in together and dates we wanna go on and places we wanna go together and we talk about out families. we have the perfect relationship.... our fall being im 15 and hes 16,... and we live on different continents... ik i sound like a little girl whos fallen head over heals for a boy who has no idea whats shes getting into... but ive never felt so in love ive never felt this kinda love back, i feel complete when talking to him. oh and i still need to tell my mom... (STRICT church lady) .... any advice on telling my mom, or relationships, or long distance relationships.
think you for any help, please keep negativity to a minimum <3
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My oldest daughter had an online love at age 14. he was a year younger and two states away. She told us about her online boyfriend. He told his parents. But one must have open minded parent s for that to work. She got to meet the guy when his dad came to our area on vacation with the family to visit relatives and the parents picked up my daughter to spend a day at the beach with their son and the family. They loved having the time together and stole kisses but once he went back home, the curiousity of meeting now ended, they both found their interest in each other lose strength.
Although there is such a thing as high school sweethearts who marry or teens who meet and later marry, it is an exception to the norm.
Are you allowed to speak to boys? How strict is the church? What exactly of church beliefs does your mom support and which does she not? I would take it slow. Let mom know only that you have an online friend in another country who is a male age 16. Dont say boyfriend because parents usually take that term too seriously and freak out. You may feel serious about him. Right now since there's nothing you can do to see him in person, keep your feelings and plans to yourself. Do I believe people can fall in love on line? Yes, it happened to me. are we together as a couple today? No.
Enjoy the love and support you are experiencing online. Not every teen girl gets to experience it to the depth you have. In fact, most are struggling with trying to figure out if a guy likes them and how to have a convo with him. Teens have a hard time talking to and understanding the opposite sex.
While I see nothing wrong with dating with some parental boundaries at age 15,16, your mom may not be as open minded.
Have a talk with her, asking her about dating and what she thinks. ..what would be the rules and boundaries. It is a subject as a parent she must address with you. It can't be ignored. Since you have no one local whom you want to date, you can tell her there is no boy yet, you just want to know for when it does happen. Once you know her stance, then you'll know what to share or not. I am not promoting secrecy. The situation would differ if he moved to your state and there was an easier chance to meet like during summer break. At that point if you felt the same, you must be honest and tell mom how you feel, that he's not just a friend. Pray asking God to help your mom be more receptive when you talk with her. It works
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you mean your mom do not know about this relationship.or you want to tell her.so i suggest you frist win conffidance of your mom and see the best time to tell about your relationship to your mom .second thing you are just 15 you very little .so concentrate on your carrer and study you can thik about it after some times when you 17 or 18 .keep continue your relationship and keep trust with each other .when you feel that am perfect to go out and talk out of family then go anywhere
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