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x0X0x My name is Jeanie. x0X0x I'm 16. x0X0x Currently a junior in a small town high school. x0X0x I'm the badminton queen of my cousins. x0X0x I've lived in 2 continents, Asia and North America. x0X0x I ♥ shopping... x0X0x The last thing I bought was a pink rubber ducky. x0X0x I ♥ coffee, Starbucks is awesome. x0X0x I plan on opening a coffee shop up one day. x0X0x I want to go to school for journalism. x0X0x I love laughing. x0X0x Friends cured my depression. x0X0x I ♥ sitting in my brother's gamer chair. x0X0x Blah. ♥x0X0xQuestion with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blind-folded fear.
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Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled?
I think it's possible, but I think you need to experience a lot more of the world before you define soulmate.
Me and this boy are really serious. We have been talking for like3-4 months.But this other guy asked me to the dance and then we started to talk cuz i kinda said yea since the first boy doesnt go to my school.Then he asked me to come outside and we were walkin around all day.Then he fingered me like 4 times,. But i feel really guilty cuz i love the other boy.What do I do? IS this cheating? Do i tell the other dude.
Talking is different from actually going steady with someone, so no, it's not cheating, and I don't think you have to tell the other guy because he isn't your boyfriend anyway, right?
my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13
To cheer up all you have to do is realize that you are a 13 year old girl. You're young, you have a lot of time to make opportunites for other crushes. This always feels bad the first time. It just takes a while to get over it. Another guy will come up and it'll be better. Good luck. :)
This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love.
That sounds like a great thing to say, it seems honest and doesn't sound mean. Good luck. :)
okay so my me ad my boyfriend were gonna make plans for this weekend and i just found out that he might be goin to this other chics party that i wasnt invited to! and i really want him to be with me this weekend. how can i get him to hang out with me and not them?
Just tell him, or go to the party with him.
Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!?
If he's old enough to be illegal, he shouldn't be listening to his mother. You should go out with him. It's only wrong if you guys have sex since you're a minor.
14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.
It's not wrong for the girl to call everytime. Whoever said guys have to call was sexist. You're not being pushy, just outgoing and independent with guys. You should just talk to him about it. Later. :)
ok ther is aguy at skool and we r friends.. he is always tells me thing that he doesnt tell other people ... and same thing i can tell him stuff like that to.. and we always talk on the fone 24/7..... and we always flirt .. i dont kno if he likes me .. i really do and how can i find out??
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Well since you two are so close you should just come straight out and ask him. It saves a lot of time, believe me. Good luck. :)
lord i dont no what to do. my dad is prejudice and theres this black boy i love half to death and he likes me i want to go out wit him but my dad said he'll kill me and that boi and i was like is love worth gettin killed over please tell me what i can do..?
I know this doesn't sound right, but maybe you and the guy can have a secret relationship, that way no one gets hurt. Then when you break free of your father's household, move on with your life with the guy (if you are still going on). Real love is worth getting killed over, sure. Like what missionaries do and stuff, that's great love... But are you sure you're really in love? Because to actually be willing to give up your life for someone is really deep... Good luck. =)
ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but it seems like he never notices me! we talk in my math class sometimes but never outside of class! how do i get him 2 notice him cause i always dress nice and stuff but i dont know what else to do!! pleaz help!
You should try talking to him about things you both share interest in, that might get you into his circle and that might lead you somewhere.
ok .. this might be a little confusing but im sorry! lets say im lydia and my sister is brittany. There are 3 guys involved in this. Lets say their names are billy, mitch, and john. Well i used to go out wiht john but we broke up like 5 months ago. Long story about us but to make it short, my dad didnt like him adn told him to never talk to me again. So of course he hasnt. Well now my dad said i can talk to john again, and i really want to because i still like him! billy and mitch are both of his friends. Well over last summer, mitch liked my sister, then when me and john broke up, mitch started liking me. Now mitch likes me and my sister. i like mitch, but not as a boyfriend, yet im jealous when he likes other girls. About billy, Billy likes me, but he doesnt know that i like him. The other day one of billy friends called me and said billy liked me and asked if i liked him. I said no even tho i do. Now billy thinks i dont like him, so he said he doesnt want to go out with me. He now says im hott and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. (because i said i didnt like him). Its all really confusing but i dont know what to do. Wednesday i am going to try to talk to billy and john but should i tell both of them i like them? I like john way more but i think john has a girlfriend. Please help the best you can. Any advise is welcome!! thanks so much!
I don't think you should tell John and Billy you like them both! Since they're friends they might get mad at each other, like boys do... I think you should talk to John. Ask him if he has a girlfriend first, if he says yes, go to Billy. But if John says no, then you should go for him because you have past experience with him and even still like him, that's a good thing. Hope I helped. :)
my boyfriend just broke up with me and he gave me this necklace while i was going out with him and it meant a lot to me. i want to give it back to him but not to his face, i want to put it in his locker with a note. i don't know what to say in the note. ive thought of everything and nothing feels right to say its got to be short and meaningful. something that says "i'm over you", "its your loss" and stuff like that...but i dont want to say something MEAN b/c i dont want him hating me...i want it to say basically "i've moved on", and "you missed out." something like that Please Help Me. I really want to leave a big MEANINGFUL impression on him....HELP.
(the phrases i put in quotes...i dont want to use those exactly....)
xoxo Arielle
"Here's the necklace back, I didn't want to just throw it away," that's what I'd right...
My ex got me a bracelet before we broke up, but he wanted me to keep it because he said I deserved it at the time or something...
is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
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No.
So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie?
Be honest. Tell him why too.
The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks.
It'll pass. But I know how you feel. What I do is just remember that I don't have to prove myself to anybody in high school, because most of the kids there will most likely be bums while I make something of myself in the future. I'd rather be called prude than easy anyway, wouldn't you? Hope ya feel better.
i have this boifriend that lives in different part of missouri!!well my cusion lives out there and i see him every weekend!!but he REALLY hot and all these gurls like him!!well he was over his friends house and my boifrinds brother was there and his brother called me and said that my boifrind was askin for lapdances,kissen on all these gurls's neck,and grabbi their boobs!!but my cusion said that i shouldnt trust my boifriends brother cuz hes jealous of me and his relationship and only wants me and him broke up!!should i trust my boifriend and these gurls??even my boifriends mom said i shouldnt trust his brother!!im so0o0o confused!!
xOx cOnFus3d!!
13/f/mo
Relationships should be based on trust. Ask your boyfriend, not his brother.
ok i know im really skinny, but i cant help it! i eat like a fucking dinosour and i still weigh only 70 pounds at 13! i was wasndering if there is ANYTHING for me to get guys to like me. i think that im to skinny and thats why guys dont like me, but i do like guys and not a single one is interested in me! i think im pretty all but my weight, i have white strieght teeth, blonde hair, no pimples and i have big green eyes, but what the hell is with my weight? i mean is that why guys show no interest?!?! please help me. people who give me nice answers i rate 5s!
A lot of guys (the good ones, anyway...) don't look at the body, they look at your personality. If you want guys to like you, have a great personality.
I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?
If I were you, I would've broken up with him, but that would be harsh and rash. I think you should tell him. If he loves you too, he shouldn't mind much. If he calls you 'nasty as hell,' the relationship would obviously be over. Someone more open-minded might be best for you.
i want to invite my bf over to my house so he can meet my parents and so we can hang out and thats the only way my parents would feel comfertable with me and him being together is if it under their supervision, so what can we do if he comes over?
You could invite him over for lunch with you and your parents. Than you can just hang out and watch movies and talk.
I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.
You can fall in love at that age in my opinion, but not if it's your first relationship. A lot of people have no idea what they're doing when they first start going out with someone. Sometimes they assume it's love, maybe that's that you're doing. :) Don't dumb him just because you may or may not be in love with him. You're young! You have a lot of time and energy to spare, have fun with your relationship. :)