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Hey it's Michelle!

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Ask me anything, & ill do the best i can to help! i wont lie to you, im not like a counselor or therapist or something, but ive helped my friends get through rough times and ive been through some myself! i really do appreciate ratings! tell me your honest opinion of my answer. i need to know where to improve!

MiiCHELLE..*

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i have a problem opening up with guys. it is kind of weird. i like guys and all but when i acually am with them (date) it seems to weird. like i go back in my shell. how do i keep from doing this?

try going on group dates with some friends!!
this way you can still have fun with them and they can tell what a great person you are! this will also help you to open up more and be more outgoing around guys!!:)

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ok, me and my best guy friend figured out that we like eachother. and so he asked me out, and it didnt last too long cause it got weird. and so now we still like eachother but latley he has gotten all snippy and mean when we are around other people, but when he is just with me he is a sweetheart. i am soooo confused and i dont know what to do. should i talk to him or just roll with it?

i would give him the cold shoulder for a little while.
when he askes whats up [showing he cares and is taking interest] tell him he needs to straighten up his act. he's being a jerk! if he cares, he will change for youu.♥

hope this helps! :)

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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???

you can get back at her. just dont make it obvious.
if she had never said she asked you if it was ok you would have no reason to get mad. you might feel a little jealous or something, but it would have been best of you to hide it. i think its stupid girls fight over guys when really they should be mad at the guy.
but since she said she asked and she lied, you have the right. just go back out with dude, and rub it in her face. dont make it too obvious though..


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hey i need help BAD! Well you see i like this guy and i know he likes me but now i'm starting to get tired of him, if he likes me a lot and i say no, i can hurt his feelings really bad what should i do?

oh goshh, i have been through this many times before!

whenever you have those "moments" when there is nothing to talk about, start talking about a guy you like. make up one if you have to! be like.. "yeahh.. so this guy freddy is soo hott! omg i think i really like him!" or to something of that nature. if he thinks you like someone else, he'll try and move on-- and you wont have to break his heart.

hope this helps! ♥

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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(





ahhh. i hate to say, but maybe he doesnt like you anymore. i would say probably because a) he found someone else he likes, or b) he knows you like him alot and got a little freaked out [guys can be jerks like this.]

if you really like him, dont give up hope. just back off him for a little while. if he thinks your obsessed with him or something, thatll freak him out. if you give him the picture that you're not and you just wanna be friends, he'll loosen up. once you get to this level, you can go in for the kill again.

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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?

believe me, any girl will love expensive gifts. :)
plus, it shows you really love her, because you are willing to sacrifice for her (im talking $$ hun).

++just make sure you dont have a gold digger on your hands ;)

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My boyfriend & I broke up over a month ago. We haven't talked alot and he has moved on already with a new girlfriend. I've still been trying to get myself back together over the breakup and I have started flirting with guys & getting back in the game. I'm just still hung up on my ex and it feels horrible to know he moved on so quickly. How am I supposed to let him go and finally be able to let myself be happy with my life? He was the only serious boyfriend I had & we were together over a year. I really need to move on.

you have to relize he's not as great as guy as you thought he was. it'll be tough, but you have to pull through. just try to spend a lot of time with your friends to keep your mind off him, and to have a good time. and dont be afraid to gloat. :) lol. what i mean is, dont be afraid to do the same thing hes doing. show off in front of him to prove you can have a good time without him. keep looking for a new guy, and you'll find one, dont worry. hope this makes you feel better!♥

MiiCHELLE..*

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I like this guy (I'll call him Nick), and recently, his friend (I'll call him Joe) found out that I like him. Before Joe found out, he kept teasing me that I liked someone who I didn't like, I really hated him actually. Now that he found out that I like Nick, he never shuts up about it!! It bugs the heck out of me! Does anyone have any advice, I will rate high to anyone who is serious. Thanks in advance!

hmm.. maybe you could tease him about liking someone who you know he doesnt like. he'll get mad, and tell you to stop. then you guys can come to a deal where if you stop, he stops. it might sound stupid, but sometimes you just have to fight fire with fire. anyways, hope this helps!

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OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT!

go for it! but take it slow, first start with a lot of flirting, to see if he gets the message and askes you out. if not, go ahead and ask him, it sounds like he really likes you. if he rejects you (which i doubt) just think of it this way: hes not as great a guy as you thought he was. keep this in mind: NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR TEARS! if your embarassed, you can say something like you were just kidding, or "just trying to see what you would say" hope this helps to get your guy!♥

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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you.

no guy is worth your tears. just think of it this way, if he rejects you, hes not as great of a guy as you thought. hes a loser, and not worth being hurt over. if you want to ask him out but are really scared of being made fun of if rejected, i would suggest getting a friend to ask him. this way, if he says yes, youve got it made, and if he says no, you can say your friend was just kidding. hope this helps, & hope you get your guy!♥

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I really appreciate anyone who decides to read this and help me, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.

I've been in a relationship, on and off with a boy for two years now - I'm just about to turn 18, while he's just about to turn twenty. For most of our being together our relationship has been really unstable, him always unsure if he wanted to be with me. I look back at myself and wonder why I spent so many nights worrying and letting myself become so attached.
We had what was supposed to be our 'final breakup' right around New Year's eve. I was hurt, and we were split for a little over a month, and started talking again. Not too long after, we started actually becoming connected in all of the ways we hadn't been before. To be honest, right now I'd have to say that he's probably my best friend, and we share everything with eachother. This is probably the best our relationship has ever been, and I should be loving every minute of it.

The problem? While we were split, I got to know a friend of his, *Jeffery, really well. This is someone who has betrayed my boyfriend in the past, there are shaky feelings between them although they still see eachother occasionally. I got to know Jefferey better and better and really began to like him, and him me. I stopped talking to him for the most part because I was afraid that it would hurt my boyfriend, although we were not together at the time. After a short time I thought that I made a mistake, but by then me and my (then ex-)boyfriend had started to talk again. My boyfriend and I have been together since.
Lately, me and Jefferey have been seeing a lot of eachother through mutual friends. We still have feelings for eachother, and it has been driving me crazy. While things are going really well in my relationship with my boyfriend, I feel like I will always have this question in the back of my mind, "what if". Recently me and Jeffery were hanging out together, and he tried to kiss me. I didn't let him, and told him we shouldn't hang out anymore unless I break it off with my boyfriend. I feel like this was a horrible mistake, but I feel very insecure about breaking things off with my boyfriend, who has been so great to me during all of this. We have no secrets from eachother, and I did not cheat on him. I think that Jeffery might have 'given up' on trying to be with me, and I feel a little defeated and negative about myself. I feel like I should have been more decisive, but I don't know what to think. I wish I had gotten to know Jeffery more while I was single.

Thanks to anyone who read this long thing, and thanks doubly to anyone who offers advice. My mind is a mess over this.

hmm.. well as long as your going out with your boyfriend, you should probably stay away from Jeffrey, to avoid liking him more or someone getting hurt. on the otherhand, it looks like you and your bf have had some bumpy relationships in the past. if you really like jeffrey, hey, go for it! although you & your bf have become closer, it might end up in a heartbreak again. but then again, it might not, because you guys have learned more about each other and have gotten into a better relationship. you have to decide who you like better, my best advice is to just follow your heart. i hope this will help you make your desicion!

MiiCHELLE..*

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I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life

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lilt

tell her you arent saying any of that, and prove it to her. then show her how much you really do love her. take her out, just the two of you, and tell her you love her so much and you cant live without her. hope things work out for you 2!♥

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Hello i like this guy and i dunno if he likes me?
he always talks to me and smiles and stuff. Today one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but did i like him? and then she said well would you ever date her and he said he didnt know?
Sign tennesse chicko

most of the time when a guy says, "i dont know but does she like me" he does like you but he doesnt want to admit to it until you do, so he doesnt get hurt. i think you should go for it! hope you 2 work out!♥

MiiCHELLE..*

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okay.. so theres this boy that likes me who i really like also... he told his best friend that him and i were going to go out.. but he hasnt asked me yet... his best friend tells me that hes most likely going to cheat on me... so thats a bummer right? well.. i realy really like him you know but i dont want to be cheated on.... so i thought maybe i could go out with him but not think much of it.. but that wouldnt make the relation ship work... than i decided i could realllly dedicate myself to him and that would stop him from cheating on me.. but no one wants their heart brokend.. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?


signed... helpless!

tell him that you really like him.. but you dont want to commit to a relationship thats gonna end up with being cheated on. if he really likes you, he should confirm with you that he wont hurt you, and that he'll really dedicate himself to you (or something of that sort). if he can prove to you he'll be loyal, he's a keeper, otherwise, hope this helps!

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i've been having these dreams, about breaking up with my bf. and i know i never want to do that. i love him with all my heart. then i have other dreams where hes cheating on me. i cant help but let these dreams get to me b/c its not what i want. i see him once every couple weeks and i miss him terribly, and i know some of you might say "maybe you dont want a long distance relationship" but thats not it. we've been together for a while and yes i dont like it but i would never break up with him b/c of that. hes too important to me. i dont know whats going on but i want these dreams to stop but i dont know how. and i refuse to break up with my b/f. i would literaly die first. please help. thanks.

i know how you feel. this happened to me before. the reason your having these is because you're afraid to loose him! don't worry about it, this is just showing that you love him alot, proving your point that you wont break up with him. you guys are probably a really cute couple!♥

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k theres this guy i went out with him and we broke up twice its been 3 months and last month we started becomin good friends again talkin on tha phone and we were playing tha question game and he told me he loved me next day he told me he didnt wanna be with me though we got in afight cuz he told me he lied were friends again but there was 2 other guys i like but now just one other guy but the problem is im still stuck on him do i tell him? do you think it would make a difference?

let him go. by the way he acted, he probably knows you still have feelings for him. he just seems like the type of guy that likes to mess with your mind, an extreme flirt, &/or just a player. go for the other guy, things dont seem to be going any where with your ex.
hope this helps!

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13/f
Well, I've been going out with my bf for 6 months. Today I found out he still has feelings for his exgirlfriend from his old school. It made me question how I feel for him. When he came to our school, I was the only one who was nice to him. So I think he's just going out with me because of that. I really love him a lot and I want to know for sure if he feels the same way about me. Everytime I ask he says "You're the only person here I care about." So I think he'd rather be with the other girl. What should I do? How can I get him to talk to me? And how should I break up with him if I do? He's the only person I have so if I lose him I'll be miserable. And it's impossible for me to be "just friends" with him. I don't like him as a friend... Please help. PLEASE! I'm so confused!

if he still has feelings for another girl, i hate to say it, but you should make the break. but explain this to him when you break up with him, so he doesnt hate you. if he really likes you, he should beg you to come back and relise that he loves you more than his ex. hope this helps!

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i have a really complicated sitch but here it goes: ive been with guy A for a bit over a month and since hes really shy, he wont talk to me or make time to be with me.he doesnt like talkin on the phone, in person and he never checks his email. i was the one that asked him out for this reason. he said he liked me and everything but he never shows it and im guessing its cuz hes a bit immature.
anyway, guy B has been my friend for a lil while and i got him together with one of my girlfriends (cuz he liked her) then she broke up with him for no reason...hes a sweetie and did everything to make her happy (he was goth and he kinda changed for her) its been 5 weeks since they broke up and i was talking to him about guy A and how i wasnt sure about him. he told me that bad side about him and how i should wait or just be paitient. then when he was helping me (after talking for 5 hours online) he admitted he liked me. im so confused... i like them both and well im on the verge (dumping guy A) and guy B is on the rebound so i dont know if its "real". please give me your honest view and help. ill rate you for answering honestly...not just go with the first thing that goes through your mind.

hmm.. well before you totally give up on guy A, talk to him about it. ask him why he doesnt talk to you. if he doesnt change his act within a few days, dump him. guy B seems like a really nice guy. i mean 1) he cared about you and tried to help you by telling you to be patient with your guy and 2)you can tell he's a loyal, loving boyfriend by the way he treated your friend. hope things work out for you!♥

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Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean?

say something like, "i'm really sorry, but i just like you as a friend." be nice about it. he should understand that you do care about him, but not that way

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Short versions of a verrrry confusing story:

this guy likes me so much. hes nice, soo sweet, easy to talk to, pretty cute and funny. but i keep comparing him to this guy i used to like. the guy that likes me now. he seems like the perfect guy, but always tells me about his feelings for me..i think its clingy and annoying. hes soo perfect but i just don't have feelings for him! i keep trying to stop comparing him and i think if i give it time, i might like him. but, i just don't see that happening. he likes me soo much and thinks i like him a lot too and thats my fault because i let him think that. but WHAT should i do! i'm not into talking about feelings and he is, its like hes obsesed w.me. should i break it off now or just wait?? PLEASE HELP!!!

dont like totally ditch him, but quit leading him on. if you dont stop soon, he'll probably end up getting hurt, and hating you. whenever he brings up his feelings, do your best to change the subject. this may sound evil, but if you flirt with other guys in front of him, he may get the message and stop. hope this helps!

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