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i have a really complicated sitch but here it goes: ive been with guy A for a bit over a month and since hes really shy, he wont talk to me or make time to be with me.he doesnt like talkin on the phone, in person and he never checks his email. i was the one that asked him out for this reason. he said he liked me and everything but he never shows it and im guessing its cuz hes a bit immature.
anyway, guy B has been my friend for a lil while and i got him together with one of my girlfriends (cuz he liked her) then she broke up with him for no reason...hes a sweetie and did everything to make her happy (he was goth and he kinda changed for her) its been 5 weeks since they broke up and i was talking to him about guy A and how i wasnt sure about him. he told me that bad side about him and how i should wait or just be paitient. then when he was helping me (after talking for 5 hours online) he admitted he liked me. im so confused... i like them both and well im on the verge (dumping guy A) and guy B is on the rebound so i dont know if its "real". please give me your honest view and help. ill rate you for answering honestly...not just go with the first thing that goes through your mind.
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guy A prolly just wants to say he has a gf i know that what i wanted but then i got my self into a real relationship which i love. Guy B seams like he tries to do with what makes you happy. the only thing is i dont think the goth thing is cool. but i think go with guy B. only if he will become a christian which by the way you are talken i think u are.
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ok... it really sounds like guy B would be a lot better for you, but it might hurt guy A really badly if you dump him for guy B... so dump guy A and wait a little while to make sure there really are mutual feelings between you and guy B. o ya... you are always allowed to hook~up with guy B as long as you are no longer with guy A
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I'd totally go for guy B. Dump guy A and wait maybe 1-3 weeks so no one thinks that u dumped A for B, that's not good and won't help your reputaion. but guy B def. sounds like the best choice. good luck and hope i helped!
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hmm.. well before you totally give up on guy A, talk to him about it. ask him why he doesnt talk to you. if he doesnt change his act within a few days, dump him. guy B seems like a really nice guy. i mean 1) he cared about you and tried to help you by telling you to be patient with your guy and 2)you can tell he's a loyal, loving boyfriend by the way he treated your friend. hope things work out for you!♥
MiiCHELLE..*
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This is just my opinion...but I don't think that 'Guy A' sound like a good boyfriend. You even said yourself that he never really makes time to be with you. Since 'Guy B' has been your friend, you talk to him a lot more often, and he even said that he liked you...then I think 'Guy B' sounds like he would be a better boyfriend. That's just my opinion though. It's really your opinion that counts the most!
Just trust your heart with whatever decision you make!
Good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo
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o0 wow! Well I will be honest. I think that you should dump guy A. He is a really bad boyfriend and he defenetly doesnt treat you right. Your boyfriend has to call you and do things with you and at least talk to you!! Just because he is shy is no exuse. You can try talking to him about it but if that doesnt help dump him because you can do better. About this guy B.. well he seems really sweet towards you and he likes you. Do you like him? Maybe you guys can keep on talking and you both might end up going out with each other. I hope you do though. He seems like he would treat you soo much better then guy A. Good luck! x0
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hey, it will not let me send it through advicenators, so if you can give me your email address then i will send it to you there. please don't rate me until you get the email! thank you so much for your effort!
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I think it's perfectly fine to go out with Guy B. If Guy A isn't giving you the respect that you deserve, go ahead and go out with Guy B. Guy B seems to be like a nice guy, and he must have really liked your friend to change himself to go out with her. If he's that nice of a guy, he'll be a great boyfriend for you. If you're still not sure if Guy A or B still like you, try this: When you see one of them, look them straight in the eye and give them your best smile. If his face lights up or he smiles back sincerely at you, then you know that he actually cares, or that he really likes you. If he gives back a polite smile or looks uncomfortable, then you know that he doesn't like you as more than a friend.
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Guy A does seem a bit immature.And since he doesn't talk to you, he probably wouldn't miss you if you dropped off the planet.
Guy B is a good friend. I think if I had a choice, he is the one I'd go for. You already have a good relationship, he talks to you all the time. Perfect guy. I think you should give him a try and see what happens. :)
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i will send u the best advice ever (i swear to god it is so long!) but this wont let me type me answer here so just send the question directly to RaZzLeDaZzLe2011 and i will answer really soon.
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well if i were you i would dump guy A b/c like you said he doesnt talk to you and go out with buy B he said that he liked you so i would bet he does!! but do what ever you think is right!!!
Hope I helped!
*Samantha*
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i think that you should wait just a little but longer. for one, to see if your boyfriend now will loosen up and two to see if you actually do like guy B. if guy A doesnt loosen up and you stiull like guy B then definetly break up with guy A and go for guy B. but if guy A loosens up, then give him a while longer. unless you start to like guy B better. follow your heart. ^_^
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thats a very big situation you should jsut follow your heart cuz even though its on your left its always right! good luck i hope everything works out! =) x0x
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