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Making the Break
13/f
Well, I've been going out with my bf for 6 months. Today I found out he still has feelings for his exgirlfriend from his old school. It made me question how I feel for him. When he came to our school, I was the only one who was nice to him. So I think he's just going out with me because of that. I really love him a lot and I want to know for sure if he feels the same way about me. Everytime I ask he says "You're the only person here I care about." So I think he'd rather be with the other girl. What should I do? How can I get him to talk to me? And how should I break up with him if I do? He's the only person I have so if I lose him I'll be miserable. And it's impossible for me to be "just friends" with him. I don't like him as a friend... Please help. PLEASE! I'm so confused!
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Just sit him down and talk w/ him. It won't hurt any! If you wanna break up w/ him just say something like "I can't compete w/ other people your not worth it we should break up"...If he finally realizes he loves after that then he'll run after you...if not then it was really never meant to be.
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It's not possible to love someone if you dont like them as a friend..i see what you want to say ...however, a lover is nothing but a best friend of the opposite sex
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Well, it does sound like he may still have feelings for some other girl. BUT, that is no reason why you should break up with him. You are here and she is not. If he is close to your age he will not be seeing her anytime in the near future or anything. You have plenty of time to win him over completley, it does take some time to get over someone. Just try not to dwell on it, and if you like him just carry on as you have been. :)
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if he still has feelings for another girl, i hate to say it, but you should make the break. but explain this to him when you break up with him, so he doesnt hate you. if he really likes you, he should beg you to come back and relise that he loves you more than his ex. hope this helps!
MiiCHELLE..*
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ok i think that you should sit him down and say _____ i really like you and want to know if you like me too and say i dont want to be going out with you if you like some one else i like you but i just want this to work if he gives you a suckir answer than say ok i dont think this is working i mean talk to me when you think is the right time and dont feel bad blc you should be happy and not have to worry sally
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