Please give me a lot of suggestions for wedding songs! thank you!!
i am a true romantic. so here are a few suggestions. look them up and listen. and have a wanderful wedding.
gaurdian angel-red jumpsuit apperatus
when you say nothing at all- alison crouse
your an angel- leona lewis
hero-mariah carey
songs in my pocket-bethony joy lens
your still the one-shania twain
daughters- john mayer
gravity-john mayer
thats all i have for now. good luck.
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Okay so im 20 yrs old. Im bisexual and i have a girlfriend that ive been with for a year and a half now. I love her to death. she is a great person. when were good were great and im very happy. but when we fight its absolutely horrible. weve gotten in physical fights before where ive walked away with a black eye and fat lip. (shes alot bigger than I am). it hasnt been physical lately but some of the things she says are just horrible. for example, my mom is an alcoholic and when we fight shell call me an alcoholic (when i dont drink often and she drinks just as often as i do). shell tell me ill be alone the rest of my life. she calls me a hick and a redneck (which im not.. no offense to those who are) just bc shes from nyc and shes hispanic and im from pa and im white. shes lived in pa for the past 10 yrs tho. when i tell her these things upset me she says that just how she is and to get over it. sometimes i just dont know if i can take another day with her. and we live together which makes it harder. dont get me wrong i love her to death. i would do anything for her. but i just feel almost like i have nothing left to give. i work and she doesnt so i pay for EVERYTHINGGGG. and its like she appreciates nothing. sometimes i dont have the money to do the things she wants and she gets mad at me then. i just dont know. i dont kno what to do. like i said when we were good its amazing and i feel like i could absolutely spend the rest of my life with her. but when we fight i feel like im killing myself on the inside. Is she right?? Are all relationships like this and i just need to get over it?? I get so lost. Please give me your opinion. Thanks soo much
relationships are difficult at times, but when abuse is involved, such as physical and emotional, which is the case in this matter, then it is time to leave. leaving the one you love and letting them go is just as hard as them doing it to you. but what you are going through is very unhealthy, and you deserve better. so, make it as peacefull as possible, but quick to. everything will work out for the best, but she is not the best for you. i hope that wasn't to harsh, but its true.
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Hi ,
How can I be more woman like ?
How can I be more femenine ,I don't know how to behave when I am around someone I like.
Grew up with a bunch off guys ....
I don't want to look very shy but on the other hand I don't want to look innocent (I am ,I really don't know much about guys)
Help
Have a date soon !!
well, first, focuss on your appearance. how do you dress? how do you do your hair? what shoes are you wearing? try to look through magazines and see what they are wearing. remember, that you are beautiful, but the way you look reflects on your personality. if you dress like a tom boy, they will think your one of the gus. but if you dress like a lady, they will respect you. now, lets focuss on your verbal skills. do you cuss? its ok, everyone does. but try to keep it at a minimum. and ah, the manners. i'm sure you have manners, but just remember, because i'm bad for it. don't wipe your mouth with your shirt. hehe. jk. anyway, being women like as you put it is simple, just be yourself but with a feminine tough. also, remember to smile. smiling good, frowning, bad.
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help me with ths guy problem - Today, 02:55 AM
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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
well, it sounds to me that it might not be a good idea to go out with your sister's ex boyfriend anyway. even if she says she is fine with it, it is the whole moral issue. second, i can't tell you weather he likes you or he is playing with your mind, because i don't know enough about the situation. but i should tell you that the best thing to do, no matter what is motive for saying that thing about sleeping with you was all about, you shouldn't let him talk to you like that. third of all, just give it time and see for yourself if he likes you, just go with the flow. don't rush anything. i hope i helped, feel free to ask me anything. always keep smiling.
nina :)
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Do you think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them? I really really think I love my boyfriend, but I don't know that I'm in love with him. Does that make sense? And if you do fall in love with someone, they say you will know pretty early on, right? Or can it happen later in a relationship? Thanks
yes, i do believe there is a distance between loving a person, and being in love with them. being inlove with a person means you can't emagine your life without them. you want to spend the rest of your life with them no matter what. when your in love you become blind, and the only thing in your vision is that one person who steals your heart, captures your mornings, and ends your days, while remaining in your mind, and living in your soul. if something tragic was to happen to them, it would destroy every reason you have for living. but when you love someone, and your not in love with them, it means that you care for them strongly, don't ever wanna see them hurt, they hold a very strong place in your heart that no one can touch, but as for being with them for the rest of your life, you are a bit unsure. which is perfectly normal, because that is a very serious desicion to make, not something you wanna do based on any physical connection you have with the person. if you love them, you think about them often, and you miss them if they're gone for a long time, and you love to spend time with them, but even when your in love, it is nice to have that time to yourself also. it takes a strong connection to love someone, but an even stronger connection to fall in love with them. but when falling in love, it doest always happen instantly like the fairytales say, it takes a long time,it could take a while, and sometimes, when it happens, it could go away, but it doesn't mean it wasn't there, it just means it wasn't meant to be. so, i hope i helped you figure out the difference, and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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ok like me and my bff share a boyfriend, and we dont know how to work a few things out. like, who should get to wear his jersey each week, and how can he walk us to all of our classes without him being late. and what are some fun threesome dates. oh and for homecoming, how are we gonna dance with him?
ok thanks
well, here's the thing. sharing your boyfriend with anyone, bff or no bff, is a big no no. one of you is gonna get the short end of the stick. in other words, this guy who is practicly livin it up at the moment, is gonna get attached to one of you, and let one of you go. or, what else could happen, is one of you will get tired of sharing him, and will start to play unfair. so either way it is bound to be a heartbreak. so my advice to you isn't how to "work a few things out" my advice to you is go ahead and step down. find you a guy who is happy with just one girlfriend. I think it would be less stressful and a lot less complicated. then, he can walk you to your classes and not be late. But always remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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So I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a month now. He says he loves me but we don't actually talk much, and I'm beginning to think it's more of a sexual relationship than anything else. I'm also getting really bored, and he lies to me a lot. Along with this, he cheated on me, but sticks to the stroy of it not being intentional.
I was with one of his good friends a while back. It ended pretty badly but we've both changed a lot. He says he has feelings for me, but I know he isn't over his ex. Maybe i like him back.
And so I'm really confused about what I should do. Things seem like they're going ok with guy #1 but it also seems like that's just a facade. Guy #2 is just trouble. And I kinda miss being on my own. I don't want to hurt 1 but I'm positive it's going to happen eventually at the rate things are going.
ok. honestly #1 and #2 both equelly suck in my opinion. i think if you miss beeing on your own, then that is a clear sign that you should be. take some time to be independent. have a little fun in your life. you don't need a man to make you happy, and it sounds to me that your two choices clearly can not be making you happy. so just go solo for a bit. and kick the two losers to the curve, you deserve a lot better then that. and always keep smiling!
nina :)
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i'll try not to make this too long. so there's this guy named joe, and he just got out of a relationship with this girl, they were together for about 5 or 6 months. (we r 15 by the way). anyway, he and this girl gave each other oral sex. recently, me and joe have been talking and flirting, and we like each other. i think his friends know that. well recently he became kind of popular. i'm in between popular and like...normal. anyway so he was grinding with me at this dance a few nights ago. online we have been having really intense talks about like, how far i would go with a guy and i said i wouldn't go past feeling up for a while. he said that that might eventually push us apart because he has such a high sex drive (this was like a week ago). anyway, he came to my house this weekend and we made out a lot and stuff. and it really seemed like he liked me, he would randomly come up and hug me really tight and just sort of nuzzle into my neck. well since then we haven't really been talking too much. online i will try to start conversation and he will just answer and say nothing else...and at school he has been flirting with other girls (but he's a really big flirt and we aren't official yet or anything). also, 2 nights ago he told my friend that he was going to ask me to our homecoming dance...but he hardly talks to me. should i ask him if he is still interested? i fell for him really, really hard and i'm so scared that if i ask if he's not interested, he will admit that that's true, and i'll lose him. what should i do?
honestly, if he has a big sex drive as you put it, and you like to take it slow, then that in itself is gonna get in the way. i think if you want to take it slow now, then you should. and if he can't understand that, then you need to move on and fine someone else. also, if he is completely agnoring you, then that probebly hurts. and if it is hurting now, then if you got in a relationship with him, it will just keep esculating. i know you like him, but i feel that you would be better off finding someone who shows more interest in you. and allthough he might really like you, he is acting that way for a reason. and if he is flirting with other girls, then that probebly won't stop in the future. so, my advice to you, is try to move on, and find someone who is worth your time. and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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I'm 15, going to be a sophmore in high school. I'm already engaged to an 18 year old man who's in the army right now. We planned on getting married when I was 17, the beginning of my senior year. If my parent's don't sign me over however we're going to elope on my 18th birthday. I'm going to move to Colorado and attend college there and live with him. He's also going to pay for me to go to college. My question I guess is basically just looking for an opinion on if you guys think this is an ok thing to do. I know I love him and I know I'm young but this is what I want. Everyone keeps telling me I'm stupid though.
i definitly do not think you are stupid. there is nothing stupid about being inlove. and you are never to young to fall inlove. however, you shouldn't rush anything. marraige is a big thing. and all though you two are head over heels for eachother right now, you both have a lot of learning and changing to do. you guys can still be together, and be inlove, but you don't have to get married to do it. take your time. "love is patient, love is kind. follow your heart, but respect your mind." is an old saying. it means that if you two are meant to be, then my advice to you is not to get married until you have your life together. finish highschool, go to collage, do what you would have done before you met him. and don't move out of state for him just yet, wait till you start your own life, and let him start his. let him go to colorado for school, and if you two can work it through the distance, then you will have a better idea if this is right for you. but if things end up not working out, just remember, that at least you didn't get married, and someone else is out there meant to be with you as well. so follow your heart, but respect your mind, and never do something that will break your parent's heart, becuase they more important. but always trust yourself, and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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When I am with my boyfriend and he does something I really like sometimes I feel like I could throw up. For instance he will kiss my neck and after a while I feel like, not nauseous but... well this will sound gross but whatever is in my stomach feels like it will come up and I have to like take a break from doing that for a minute. Is there anything I can do to stop that? It's weird and I wish it didn't happen!!
here is the answer that will blow your mind. the reason why you feel sick when being parshly intimite with your boyfriend, is because your consients is trying to tell you that you need to slow it down a bit. in your mind, you are thinking that this feels good, and you are ready to take that small step. but in reality, in the back of your mind, you know that you are not ready. your body knows it, and it is telling you to slow down. it is really funny how that works. but i know that feeling. it is the feeling where the pit of your stomach is just aching, and you are afraid that your boyfriend is gonna be wearing your lunch. when i felt this feeling, i would take a break. and then i would start again. and eventuelly you get a little used to the feeling, thinking its supposed to be like that. but really, for me, it never went away. and it is because i wasn't ready to take that step. my advice to you, is to take it slower then you are. let your body get used the fact that you have a boyfriend, and then when you really know without a dougt you are ready for all that neck-kissing, then try again, and if you still feel sick, you might consider who your boyfriend is. because your body could be telling you to back off of him. but don't jump to conclusions, just take your time, and make the sick feeling go away, because thats not a normal reaction to have. and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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I am 26 and my husband is 28years old. I want to have a baby. My husband and I are trying since five months still I am not becoming pregnant. Now it is two months still dint get my periods. I did a test. It shows negative. I am very disappointed. So what can we do?
just because you haven't concieved yet, doesn't mean your not meant to be parents. you can always have a test done to see if there are any complications to why you might not be pregnant. if there happens to be a problem there is always other ways. there is adoption, there is serigasy, but there is always a way. and none of these are bad. because no matter how the baby comes into the world, you will still love it, and he or she will still be yours. love is in the heart, not the blood. so, i hope there is nothing wrong. keep trying, and remember, there are always a way to have something so precious. and always keep on smiling!
nina :)
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how to get over an ex? because he wants to be friends with me and stuff but it makes it harder for me to get over him its been a year and im still not over him because he get my hopes high and stuff and it hurts please help?
one of the toughest things a person has to go through in life, is love. it is verydifficult to get over someone who you love. you don't nessisarely have to stop loving or caring for them in some way, and they won't for you, but it is definitly important to know, just because you love someone, doesn't mean its meant to be. you can love someon with all your heart, not meant to be from the start. but how do you get over the ex? well, the best thing, yet the hardest thing is to stop being his friend. at least till you are over him completely. when i was in this simular situation, the guy kept my hopes up as well, but i came to the conclusion, that being friends can't work right now,until i have gotten over him. so i wrote him a goodbye letter. and sent it to him. ever since i did that, i haven't heard or seen him. and it has been so much easier and gave me so much peace inside, that now i can truely heal. if its meant to be, you two will find each other again in the future, but for now, you should consider writing him a goodbye letter, or talking to him. tell him how you feel, and why you feel that way. i wish you luck and i know your pain, but you will be happy again, i promice, and your heart will heal. so keep on smiling.
nina :)
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16/f
I've only really made out alot and stuff with one boy, pathetic..I know. Well, now we've been broken up for about 1 and half years and I got a new boyfriend. He wants me to kiss him and stuff but I told him that I'm not ready for that yet. I'm absolutly terrified of kissing him. I'm even scared of giving him a little peck. I know that I'm scared for two reasons:
#1 I'm afraid that by kissing him our realationship will get really serious and I know from past experiences that as soon the realationship gets serious I get freaked and dump him.
#2 I'm sooo scared that I'm a really bad kisser. My current boyfriend has had a ton of experience and I'm afraid I won't meet up to his standards.
How can I overcome this fear?!
Sorry that this is so long!
Thanks for your help
"love finds those who take their time in searching." that is a quote that i try to live by. fist of all. i know excacly what you are going through. i have gone through the same thing. it is not uncommon to put your gaurd up after being hurt. in fact, by not kissing your new boyfriend right away, you are stating that you have will power. if this guy was smart, he would understand were you are comming from. if he does not, then he isn't worth it. you need to find someone who understands your pain and your concern. just tell him, you have been hurt before. you want to take things very slow, or else you might be scared off. take the time and get to know him. let him be aware of how you feel. remember to let your gaurd down just a little, but keep it up enough to know when something is wrong. and always keep on smiling.
nina :)
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ok so i have a question what does getting hit on mean exactly?
is it the same as flirting?
could you give me examples?
ok. so we are clear, flirting and getting hit on are two different things. in flirting, you are more sincere and you have a better way of showing them how you feel. when getting hit on, the person is basicly feeding you lines, and trying to impress you, and most of the time, they don't have good intensions. for example, flirting: a guy and a girl are taking a walk together, just as friends, but they like eachother. the guy starts to mess her hair up, and the girl acts angry, but she is not. and the guy replies, " aw, your angry face is kinda cute" "i like it" and the girl in reaction, gently and flirtatiously, pushes the guy's chest, or arm, and they keep on doing that to eachother. that is a little example of flirting. now, getting hit on isn't so innocent. example: a girl walks into the bar....ya,ya, i know, but bare with me. anyway, a girl walks into a bar. she sits down and orders a drink. she goes to hand the money to the bar tender, and a guy who sits right next to her,hands the bar tender the money instead. the woman says "thank you" and the guy turns around and says, " what is a beautiful lady such as yourself, doing in a crummy bar like this? you should be at a fancy five star resturant with me. what do yah say, georgious"?. how do you reply to that, i have no idea. but that is the difference between flirting and getting hit on. i prefer flirting, because they are mor sincere, and romantic. so just remember, flirt more, try not to get hit on, and always keep on smiling.
nina :)
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hey!! i'm 15 and a female. I REALLLLY like this guy named Jake. We spent all of last night with our jewish youth group on a cruise boat "partying like a rockstar". WE danced together and everything,and i think he might possibly be interested. the problem?? well, there's actually 2.
#1) he goes to a different school. i only see him through this youth group thing, but i still REALLY like him.
#2) I CAN'T FLIRT...meaning, when i'm around guys (especially ones i like) i get SO nervous. I mean, i get so tongue tied, i sometimes shake, and it really sux because i want to flirt with him, but i just don't know how
I've also never had a boyfriend (in case you couldn't tell) or even a date to a dance (except for turnabout, where my friend made me go wtih this creep guy)so aka, i really don't quite know what to do in this type of situation
i reallly need help, so thank you and sry this is SO long!!♥
love is all about taking chances. so, if i were you, i wouldn't give up hope. but the problems you are having, i might have some advice for you. first, lets focuss on how you would get to see him. you guys can always talk on the phone. and even know you guys go to different schools, maybe you can talk to your parents, and he can do the same, and you guys can make urangments to spend time together, wether its with family, friends, or group dates. second of all,ah, the flirting problem. well, here is a tip. for a beginner flrt, you must learn that they key thing is to always smile. and laugh at him, when he says something funny, and when joking around, or if the oppertunity comes up, always come up with something witty and sacastic to say. not too sarcastic, but a little. and always give the looks. give him unexpected glares, and show him your many facial expressions. Guys think that is so cute. and, lastly, give the playful touch and tickle once in a while, that shows them you are interested in them. and it is the key ponent to flirting. so good luck, go to dances, and keep on smiling. :)
nina :)
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What traits do guys look for in a girlfriend? Physical or mental/emotional, just curious.
well, most guys look for physical traights. but the guys who are worth your time, are the ones who knows that beauty isn't everything. that when it comes to the end of the day, all that really matters is what is inside a person's heart. and yes, there are guys out there who know this. they do excist. but are hard to find. my advice to you is that if you like a guy, and you wanna make sure they like you for the right reasons, start your relationship out by talking on the phone, hanging with them in groups, and just spending time with them in conversation, and pick there brain. in other words, avoid any physical contact, until you feel that they are sincere.
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