Member Since: September 12, 2007
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my last semi-longterm relationship was when i was 14. he was my first love. now im 16, two years after we broke up. for a while i enjoyed being single. being able to flirt and not having to worry about a guy getting jealous was freeing but now i miss the love. i miss having a guy holding me close without just wanting to get in my pants. i've had a friends with benefits relationship and i didn't want that. i really really want a boyfriend. i've had two opurtunities to go out with two different guys but i turned them down because they were both younger than me and i don't go out with younger guys and one of them was insane so...yeah he was a no. i've had many crushes in between these two years. i told my best friend i liked him a lot and he got a girlfriend the next day. then i liked my other guy friend and when i was going to tell him he told me he liked someone else. there's no decent guys in my school that aren't jerks or sex maniacs! i need help. how can i attract normal guys that don't have girlfriends!? (link)
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You don't want to change yourself just to get the right guy. Be yourself and the right guy will eventually come along. My best friend had a bf and they broke up. After that she couldn't find a decent guy. She went out with guys that she didn't really even like! She tried changing guys that weren't so good and that didn't work. She finally just stopped searching and let the perfect guy find her...and he did! She's in a great relationship with a guy she's known her entire life! Just ask God to send you the guy that he has planned for you!
Sorry so long:)
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My ex and I have had a long history together. Over a year and some months. So we are pretty close even after that. I was giving him advice about his girlfriend. She just started high school. She's rather immature and flirty. He talked to her about it and things changed but the flirting.
Today my boyfriend told me that they have a class together. For some reason my ex's girlfriend bit my boyfriend in a playful way. My ex and I= both jealous types. I was going to tell off my ex to keep his girlfriend under control but he didn't know about this. So he doesn't know what to do. Last night, she opened up and told him everything... then she did this flirty thing.
Any advice? I know it's hard to date someone who is flirtatious. But she had a crush on my boyfriend and I'll like it if she could keep her hands off of him. She doesn't seem to understand that.. (link)
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I would talk to your boyfriend first...and if he says that she flirts with him all the time than I would talk to either the girl or the ex. Don't be rude just nicely ask her about the situation and is she admits to it than I would tell her to quit flirting with your bf when she already has her own.
Hope this helped:)
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Ok, here's the story. When I was younger, I thought of God as an invisible being that always watched you and could do anything he wanted. So i'd always say "yes I believe in god". But as I grew older, people who don't believe in God have pointed things out to me. I mean it was MAN who wrote the bible, and MAN who wrote the ten commandments. who's to say man didn't make it all up? One of my frieds once pointed out that "man does not like the thought of nothing after death, so the created an afterlife to believe in instead". Another person that doesn't believe in God said "he is just like Santa Claus, used to make children be good". These seem like pretty realistic remarks to me. Plus there is no "proof" that he does exist right? People who believe in him just say "the feeling is truly wonderful". I have asked God to come into my heart many times, but I never feel any different. Does this make me Atheist? (link)
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I believe in God. I have a relationship with God! I am Pentecostal. I believe in the Holy Spirit. I don't believe that you are atheist. You need to get into a church that you feel comfortable in and truly seek God. Here's a quote:
Wouldn't you rather live like there was a God and find out there wasn't
Than live like there wasn't a God and find out there was!
I will keep you in my prayers and hope that you find God and get saved and truly seek God and live by his will!
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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.
My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are? (link)
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I would confront her if she's been spreading lies about you, but if stupid stuff then just ignore her cuz she'll realize that it's not really bothering you anymore and move on to her next victim. But don't confront her in front of lots of people cuz she'll probably just blow-up and make a big scene. Do it as nicely as possible but let her know that you're serious!
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My boyfriends sixteenth birthday is coming up in a month. I already know he is getting a car,so getting places won't be a problem. Coincidentally his birthday is also Our 0ne year anniversary too. he is more of the music type, not really into sports.
what i had planned is:
1. making him a cake the night before.
2. that day, taking him out to a nice sushi restaurant for our one year/ his birthday.
3. now i just need to take care of a gift,
something meaningful. but yet something he will like.
any suggestions? (link)
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I know how you feel! I have a year and a half anniversary coming up and I have no clue what to get my man. But.....Have you ever thought about a scrapbook? He could keep this forever and you can put lots of different things in it.....not just pics! You could put notes that ya'll have written each other or pics of his favorite band or something. Just be totally creative with it!
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