Question Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 9:46 pm
my last semi-longterm relationship was when i was 14. he was my first love. now im 16, two years after we broke up. for a while i enjoyed being single. being able to flirt and not having to worry about a guy getting jealous was freeing but now i miss the love. i miss having a guy holding me close without just wanting to get in my pants. i've had a friends with benefits relationship and i didn't want that. i really really want a boyfriend. i've had two opurtunities to go out with two different guys but i turned them down because they were both younger than me and i don't go out with younger guys and one of them was insane so...yeah he was a no. i've had many crushes in between these two years. i told my best friend i liked him a lot and he got a girlfriend the next day. then i liked my other guy friend and when i was going to tell him he told me he liked someone else. there's no decent guys in my school that aren't jerks or sex maniacs! i need help. how can i attract normal guys that don't have girlfriends!?
hannah17 answered Thursday September 13 2007, 3:08 pm: You don't want to change yourself just to get the right guy. Be yourself and the right guy will eventually come along. My best friend had a bf and they broke up. After that she couldn't find a decent guy. She went out with guys that she didn't really even like! She tried changing guys that weren't so good and that didn't work. She finally just stopped searching and let the perfect guy find her...and he did! She's in a great relationship with a guy she's known her entire life! Just ask God to send you the guy that he has planned for you!
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