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how to get over an ex?
how to get over an ex? because he wants to be friends with me and stuff but it makes it harder for me to get over him its been a year and im still not over him because he get my hopes high and stuff and it hurts please help?
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one of the toughest things a person has to go through in life, is love. it is verydifficult to get over someone who you love. you don't nessisarely have to stop loving or caring for them in some way, and they won't for you, but it is definitly important to know, just because you love someone, doesn't mean its meant to be. you can love someon with all your heart, not meant to be from the start. but how do you get over the ex? well, the best thing, yet the hardest thing is to stop being his friend. at least till you are over him completely. when i was in this simular situation, the guy kept my hopes up as well, but i came to the conclusion, that being friends can't work right now,until i have gotten over him. so i wrote him a goodbye letter. and sent it to him. ever since i did that, i haven't heard or seen him. and it has been so much easier and gave me so much peace inside, that now i can truely heal. if its meant to be, you two will find each other again in the future, but for now, you should consider writing him a goodbye letter, or talking to him. tell him how you feel, and why you feel that way. i wish you luck and i know your pain, but you will be happy again, i promice, and your heart will heal. so keep on smiling.
nina :)
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you need to keep some distance, some boundaries. you need to feel disconnected with him. because if your space never occurs all your emotions will reappear again. tell him it's too hard to be friends at this time. tell him you need time to heal. these things happen. and great love takes time to regrow in your heart.
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