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i need advice
I am 26 and my husband is 28years old. I want to have a baby. My husband and I are trying since five months still I am not becoming pregnant. Now it is two months still dint get my periods. I did a test. It shows negative. I am very disappointed. So what can we do?
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Take another test, go see your doctor, ask to be referred to a fertility expert.
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It can take up to a year to conceive, if after this time nothing has happened you should see your doctor. They can give you advice, check you both to ensure you are able to have children and if necessary prescribe courses of treatment. They will also be able to take you through all the other options should this fail.
More and more couples these days are having problems conceiving so you're not alone. Make sure you have a healthy, balanced diet, don't smoke or drink alcohol, take folic acid tablets, get enough sleep and try not to stress about this.
I'm not sure if you meant you have not had your period for two months or if you have. If you haven't, you need to see your doctor sooner, as there may be a medical reason for your problem. It could be as simple as a hormone inbalance that just needs medication to put right but it does need to be checked out.
Try not to get too worried at this stage as stress can affect your chances of conceiving. Sometimes it just takes a long time and then it happens when you don't think it's going to. You're both young enough to give it this time and children are worth that wait, so good luck.
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just because you haven't concieved yet, doesn't mean your not meant to be parents. you can always have a test done to see if there are any complications to why you might not be pregnant. if there happens to be a problem there is always other ways. there is adoption, there is serigasy, but there is always a way. and none of these are bad. because no matter how the baby comes into the world, you will still love it, and he or she will still be yours. love is in the heart, not the blood. so, i hope there is nothing wrong. keep trying, and remember, there are always a way to have something so precious. and always keep on smiling!
nina :)
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you could get a sperm donor. im sure you know that already. try adopting.
keep faith&praying, maybe if you try and he trys god will reward you with a beautiful baby. maybe god thinks you both, arent ready or stable yet. be patient. this takes time. just keep trying and stay opptimistic. :]
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