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plz help me out if u can as soon as possible
help me with ths guy problem - Today, 02:55 AM
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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
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well, it sounds to me that it might not be a good idea to go out with your sister's ex boyfriend anyway. even if she says she is fine with it, it is the whole moral issue. second, i can't tell you weather he likes you or he is playing with your mind, because i don't know enough about the situation. but i should tell you that the best thing to do, no matter what is motive for saying that thing about sleeping with you was all about, you shouldn't let him talk to you like that. third of all, just give it time and see for yourself if he likes you, just go with the flow. don't rush anything. i hope i helped, feel free to ask me anything. always keep smiling.
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Hmm, sounds like these kids are a,lil bit immature for somthing like that. Usualy dramam like this'll only bring more conflict, i can understand how you feel. I would suggest just asking your crush in a personal one on one manner if he likes you or not No bullshit just stright answer, and if he strays away or acts like a child then i would say you guys should be friends for now at least. The last thing you would want is stress over who likes who and what, when, where, and why know what i mean. Love's a very fickle thing and i think you should really think hard about this whole "sleeping with me" deal, sometimes they're only asking the truth but masking with with a friendly juckle and saying they're kidding. That's very serious and i would suggest you'd wait on that for a LONG TIME,Like i said, just ask him directly, no notes, no nothing, only words from person to person and look into his eyes whennhe speaks, it's the only gateway into the human soul. Anyway, i hope this helps and good luck.
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I know from experience that everytime I over-analyze a situation, I end up regretting looking too deeply into it. You have had a crush on this guy for a very long time, so getting this out of your mind may seem hard. But trust me, it's only going to bother you. Nobody can tell you what your crush means by what he said- he may even be ashamed of telling you himself, especially if he is just messing with you. To be honest, I think that he probably is...and if so, he isn't worth it at all. Either way, he probably only wants one thing...and what you want is up to only YOU. The best thing to do is to step away from the situation and go about your daily life- focus on school, friends, family, etc. In time you'll realize how trivial this whole situation is, although it doesn't feel like it now. Give yourself time to think. Believe me, no guy is worth getting this worked up over. I think that you should focus on other things, and not pay too much attention to your crush. Real men can appreciate that women have the confidence to carry on with their own lives. If not, then this guys isn't worth it. If he wants to contact you and treat you with respect, then what you do is up to you. But you know, also talk to your sister about this- it's probably going to hurt her, but don't keep her out of it. Good luck
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A bit confusing but I think I got it lol. I have NO doubts that your crush wants to sleep with you. Why? Because a guy doesn't just "say that" stuff, he almost always means it. Now, what you need to ask yourself is....is he saying he wants to sleep with me because he really likes me? OR, is it because you recently told him how you feel towards him, so he feels that you will be 'easy' because he already knows you like him. I only say it like that because I don't want you to end up getting hurt if he just sleeps with you because he knows you like him, and that you would do it. I do think it would be a bit weird since he was dating your sister, and his friend would probably be hurt too. But, this is a decision you are going to have to make. Really look at the facts. Pay attention to how he acts towards you. And especially ask yourself the question "why" for what he is doing/saying. Why would he be saying this now? Would he be acting the same way if I hadn't told him I liked him? etc...let me know if you have any more questions! or if there is anything you would like me to clear up.
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