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A guy problem...what else?!?!?
hey!! i'm 15 and a female. I REALLLLY like this guy named Jake. We spent all of last night with our jewish youth group on a cruise boat "partying like a rockstar". WE danced together and everything,and i think he might possibly be interested. the problem?? well, there's actually 2.
#1) he goes to a different school. i only see him through this youth group thing, but i still REALLY like him.
#2) I CAN'T FLIRT...meaning, when i'm around guys (especially ones i like) i get SO nervous. I mean, i get so tongue tied, i sometimes shake, and it really sux because i want to flirt with him, but i just don't know how
I've also never had a boyfriend (in case you couldn't tell) or even a date to a dance (except for turnabout, where my friend made me go wtih this creep guy)so aka, i really don't quite know what to do in this type of situation
i reallly need help, so thank you and sry this is SO long!!♥
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love is all about taking chances. so, if i were you, i wouldn't give up hope. but the problems you are having, i might have some advice for you. first, lets focuss on how you would get to see him. you guys can always talk on the phone. and even know you guys go to different schools, maybe you can talk to your parents, and he can do the same, and you guys can make urangments to spend time together, wether its with family, friends, or group dates. second of all,ah, the flirting problem. well, here is a tip. for a beginner flrt, you must learn that they key thing is to always smile. and laugh at him, when he says something funny, and when joking around, or if the oppertunity comes up, always come up with something witty and sacastic to say. not too sarcastic, but a little. and always give the looks. give him unexpected glares, and show him your many facial expressions. Guys think that is so cute. and, lastly, give the playful touch and tickle once in a while, that shows them you are interested in them. and it is the key ponent to flirting. so good luck, go to dances, and keep on smiling. :)
nina :)
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incase you didnt notice you done something he really liked, thats why he danced with you, yes he's interested thats why he danced with you, and i assume you guys talked without him screaming and running away, which means he likes you HEY HE LIKES YOU!!!!!just needed to hear it didnt ya? be yourself he likes you 4 you, and alot of guys dont like that grabby flirty stuff, just smile it worked for you, and a plus about seeing someone out of your school is that if something happens you dont have to see them day 2 day. Have fun BRIE oh yea wanna hear it again? HE LIKES YA!
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