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woman like
Hi ,
How can I be more woman like ?
How can I be more femenine ,I don't know how to behave when I am around someone I like.
Grew up with a bunch off guys ....
I don't want to look very shy but on the other hand I don't want to look innocent (I am ,I really don't know much about guys)
Help
Have a date soon !!
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well, first, focuss on your appearance. how do you dress? how do you do your hair? what shoes are you wearing? try to look through magazines and see what they are wearing. remember, that you are beautiful, but the way you look reflects on your personality. if you dress like a tom boy, they will think your one of the gus. but if you dress like a lady, they will respect you. now, lets focuss on your verbal skills. do you cuss? its ok, everyone does. but try to keep it at a minimum. and ah, the manners. i'm sure you have manners, but just remember, because i'm bad for it. don't wipe your mouth with your shirt. hehe. jk. anyway, being women like as you put it is simple, just be yourself but with a feminine tough. also, remember to smile. smiling good, frowning, bad.
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There is one that I really like, it is on myspace. It is really about how to flirt, but for me it covers the whole issue of being a woman. It is quite like how I behave. But the most important thing I will tell you, is be your self...if you like to do things guys like to do, don't hide that...enhance it. Be the woman who knows who she is, is proud of who she is but also know how and when to be sexy...
here is the link:
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I have to reitterate...this is such a great video! Very Helpful! and Accurate!
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I understand you have a date soon but I did find something that is very interesting online that you may want to look into purchasing for future dates. Apparently it's to help women learn how to be more feminine--here is the link:
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As you can see by reading some of the links at the bottom, the program actually helps you to learn good posture and poise, voice and speech, etiquette, and even style. This really does seem like the best option for you if you plan to change your current self and simply become more lady-like.
Here is also some tips on how to become more feminine that I was able to find from wikihow:
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I want to add in that you may need to alter your language. If you swear a lot then try your best to cut down and stop. Even words like "crap" aren't very lady-like so try to become more aware of how you speak and alter it if needed.
Be aware of how you dress. Wear nicely fitted clothes that cover you well but do not engulf you in fabric. You don't have to show skin--as a matter of fact, the more skin you show, the more you may look hookerish rather than womanly.
Make sure to bathe before the date, washing your hair and body thoroughly. Remember to apply deodorant and brush your teeth. A thought that many women tend to overlook is the way they smell. If you wear perfume out the make sure it goes well with your soap and deodorant. Also remember not to bathe yourself in the perfume as it can be rather overwhelming. (Also, do not over-apply make-up! The most natural look is honestly the best!)
In regards to other parts of the date: do not stuff your face with food, nobody is in a race at dinner or lunch time so try to avoid large bites as well. Avoid eating anything that could get messy and sticky if you're not use to being more "proper" with foods. Try your best to not slouch when you're sitting in a chair--press your back against it and press your feet against the floor.
Avoid folding/crossing your arms too--it gives off a vibe that tells the other person that you're very uninterested and unhappy, but try not to put your hands in your pockets too much either. Just practice keeping your arms by your sides (it feels a little awkward at first, but actually looks completely normal and you will get use to it).
Try your best not to bite your nails or do any other nasty habit you have mastered. If you find yourself in the middle of such a thing then simply avoid continuing it without making a scene and jerking away.
Practice smiling when not in discussion. People view others that are smiling as happy and interested in them. The more you practice smiling constantly, the more natural it will look. People who smile a lot seem warm and friendly so make sure you give off that impression.
Here is also a good link on how to improve your manners:
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Anyway, that's really all of the tips I'm able to give you at the moment. I hope all goes well on your date and alter yourself to your liking :)
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If you have already met the person you are going out on a date with, then do not change. He asked you out for a reason and I would suggest not changing that, it may backfire on you.
If you have never met this person before, then do you want to have someone meet you and not know the real you?
With all that said, to be feminine is a state of mind more than anything. I would suggest just wearing something comfortable to you, but maybe in a softer color. Then let him be a gentleman and offer to open doors for you. Cross your legs if you are wearing a skirt. Do not talk with food in your mouth. Do not chew with your mouth open. No burping on the date, at least not loudly. Remember your manners: say please, thank you, your welcome, and excuse me. Above all else be yourself, but be polite.
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