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Old Flame/New Flame Drama
So I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a month now. He says he loves me but we don't actually talk much, and I'm beginning to think it's more of a sexual relationship than anything else. I'm also getting really bored, and he lies to me a lot. Along with this, he cheated on me, but sticks to the stroy of it not being intentional.
I was with one of his good friends a while back. It ended pretty badly but we've both changed a lot. He says he has feelings for me, but I know he isn't over his ex. Maybe i like him back.
And so I'm really confused about what I should do. Things seem like they're going ok with guy #1 but it also seems like that's just a facade. Guy #2 is just trouble. And I kinda miss being on my own. I don't want to hurt 1 but I'm positive it's going to happen eventually at the rate things are going.
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ok. honestly #1 and #2 both equelly suck in my opinion. i think if you miss beeing on your own, then that is a clear sign that you should be. take some time to be independent. have a little fun in your life. you don't need a man to make you happy, and it sounds to me that your two choices clearly can not be making you happy. so just go solo for a bit. and kick the two losers to the curve, you deserve a lot better then that. and always keep smiling!
nina :)
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Sounds like as far as you are concerned, the relationship with him is done, you are just waiting for something happen to make it offical.
Stop waiting. You are only faking it and that isn't fair. It's okay to not want to be with him anymore, he's a lying, cheating jackass. Yes, he will probably be hurt. Break ups aways hurt, even lying, cheating jackasses get hurt. That isn't a good enough reason to stick around and pretend that you are still in a relationship.
Just be on your own for a while. You don't *need* to be dating someone. If there is no one practicularlly interesting in your life, then don't date anyone.
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dump the lying cheater. he's not worth any girl's affections.
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Dump guy #1, but don't go for guy #2. Neither one sounds like a good match for you.
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