I"m 18.my boyfriend and me have been having fights abouth some particular guy for about five months now. I met this other guy last summer and we didn't work out because he lives in England and I live in America, but me and this other guy had fun and enjoyed what we had while it lasted. I came back and this other guy moved on and started dating another girl, and so I went ahead and moved on, It was painful especially because I started hearing he said I didn't mean anything to him. Now this other guy, broke up with his girlfriend and wants me back but my friends keep telling me he say's this and that about me.(and honestly this friends aren't reliable sources).
Thing is i stil have a little feelings for this guy so i can't just tell him to back off like my boyfriend wants me too, but i've tried to tell him and he gets that we are just friends. I told my boyfriend this and he text me that.
What do i do now?
I really love my boyfriend, he's been there for me through everything, and I really want him to stay and have everything back to the way it was!
truthfully you just have to let go of the past. believe me i know its hard but you cant let the past get in the way of the present or the future or you will regret it. trust me.
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16/m.
K to start off, my girlfriend of two weeks broke up with me about three weeks ago this friday (aka the week after homecoming..). I took it as a low blow because the monday after she broke up with me she had a new boyfriend (WTF?!) I was infuriated, and he isn't the nicest of guys (pot head). ANYWAYS, I got over it and I started to like this girl who has liked me for a while now. And I asked her out and we're currently dating. Im just wondering if it was too early for me to get back into a relationship? I mean the girl Im dating now is amazing and I wouldn't give her up for anyone, but was me rushing into another relationship a bad decision?
not at all. i did the same thing once. i had a bf and it was okay and all but we broke up and a week later i had got another bf that i am with to this day...we have been together for almost two years. its fine. love is love.
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13 yr old
female
like i think guyz are intimadated by me cause im pretty and nice and fun. Like, i know tons of guyz who like me (or show signs that they do) and then neva ask me out. I like this guy and me and him became really close as friends and i heard him talkin about taking me to the dance and then he neva asked me to the dance and he didnt ask me to dance at the dance! But, when i saw him at the dance he was all depressed and stared out the window the WHOLE time! So, idk what to do and yah. SO how do i get guyz not to be imtimadated by me and how do i get this guy to ask me out cause i am SOO not asking him out! But one more question: Should the guy or the girl always make the first move? and should the guy always ask out the girl?
PLEASE ANSWER ALL OF MY QUESTIONS!!! THANKS!
ok your 13 you dont need to be worrying bout this
but no its not wrong for girls to ask guy
sometimes you just have to do things urself
guys are clueless
trust me on that one
you could be so obvious that you l ike them
and in the end they still dont get it
so you need to come out and say it
tell this guy you like him and want to go out with him
then see what he does
no guys dont always need to make the first move
sometime the girl has to be the ine to do that
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okay well ive only had my new boyfriend for a week today, we decided to not exchange gifts till sometime over break (which starts officially tomorrow) so i know hes getting me a necklace and a teddy bear (my friend told me) ha so like i was thinking about getting him these 2 movies that i know he wants so i dont know if thats like a good match for ya know like would it look bad? what should i get him?
i think its a good gift. i mean you know he wants them and it is pretty equal to what he is getting you. so dont worry :) i am sure he will love it!!! hope all goes well.....
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theres this guy in my school who i liked last year, and he liked me back but we never went out. I like him again this year but idk if he still likes me. hes pretty shy so i know he wont just ask me out unless he knew for sure i liked him. He always IMs me and one time his friend kept asking me if i liked him. I dont him to feel awkward if i liek him, but i cant tell if he likes me. hes not friends with any of my friends because hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. I really wanna find out if he still likes me but i dont want things to be awkward if he doesnt. How can i find out?
well what you could do is if you talk to him on IM then ask him on IM just say like do you like me because i like u...ya its very strait forward but its better to know the truth then just sit around waiting...
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ive already asked for help and noone responded, here it is again.
im in my 40's/male. i was married for about 20 years with the most amazing women known to man.
i have cheated on her with about; 10 different girls, but only had 3 actuall girlfreinds. we have been seperated for about 1 year; im now with my girlfriend she caught me cheating on her with. she doesnt know about the others.
also my 2kids (wife) basically hate me and i never see one of them.
since no one resoponded back to me before im going to make this short.
basically, i still love my wife and im now cheating on my girlfriend with her friend. i want my wife back!!! p.s we are going through divorce. help!!
ok your stupid you dont cheat on your wife regardless...you have a problem you need to get help...and now you are cheating on your girlfriend who you were caught cheating with in the first place??????!!!!!! and you wonder why your kids dont talk to you...my dad did the same..so i agree with what they are doing...get your act together and maybe your kids will talk to you
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What are ways other than flirting to tell boys you like them without actually telling them?
well guys are stupidddddddddd and oblivious and dont get it that you like them...and if they are shy you are screwed trust me i have this prblem...all the time..flirting is really the only way but even then they dont get it...you have to just plain out tell them have a friend do it if you are to afraid...write and email letter..call him or something...and if you dont have there number then u need to ask them for it. hope we helped you in the crazy world of boys!!!!
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does anyone have tips on how you can try and make a guy like you?
or start seeing you as a girlfriend figure?
well boys are naturally oblivious to clues so you have to really show him that you like him. there isnt any realy way you first have to get the guy to notice you and after you do that talk to him alt and find out some of his interests. after awhile you have to see if he is flirting back or not. you cant make a guy like you but you can show him that you are interested. hope i helped! good luck
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Theres these 3 guys who all really like me. The bad part is I don't like any of them. I like one of their friends. The cool part is that all 3 hav completely different personalities. I don't know how I should tell them. One of them stands out the most to me and I was close to saying yes but changed my mind. I can't handle hurting them.
it might hurt them...but you need to let them know the truth...if you dont like them then let them know that
just say you like someone else so you cant like them...its better then leading them on because the more you wait when you finally do tell them they are going to be hurt more
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So tell me,, did he ask you out or not????
um who are you and wgat guy are you talking about????
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This moring i woke up from my cell phone cause it rang. i pick it up and it was a text message from a friend of mind. she send me a message that read:
"hahahaha your a dork"
I reply "geeek"
we kept sending insulting comments back to each other. till i ask her why was she sending me these texts.
"boredom" she reply
"YOU WOKE ME UP CAUSE YOU WERE BORED! your going 2 get it!" I reply
"thank you thankyou" she reply
"thank you for what?"
"4 saying im going to get it" she reply
then she send a message that she had something for me i reply with a joke "what my soul?"
she said Im not getting that back.
I know it sounds like kiddish game playing but we always do this to each other. I tell her that she is evil and she gets happy about that even when i say to her i hate you.
So is that a form of flirting or playing around?
she send me anthoer text that she was bored in class i reply "I wish i was there, but you might kill me hehehe" "sooo sweet" she reply
it might be nothing but what do you all think?
I think that it is shy flirting. Girls tend to do that when they dont want to come right out and tell you that they like you so they usually tend to do it by insulting you(in a playful way of course). We are kinda weird that way lol.
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so tell me, i like this girl right shes pretty amazing actually i must say the most amazing person i know, im not quite sure exactly what she thinks of me can you help?
she thinks that your pretty amazing yourself
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okay, if me and my boyfriend started going out on march 17, 2007, then when is our 1 month anniversery? is it april 17th, or is it before? can you count the days, because everytime i try i get a different number.
It would be april 17. Alwaya keep the number 17 for your anniversary. (ex.may 17=2 month) hope i helped!
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I fell in love this year. We were together for a while, but he wasn't happy so he broke up with me. It's been 3 months, and I'm still not over him. People are like "try to get to know other guys" That doesn't work. None are interested at all. I'm extremely upset. I keep myself occupied with track and such, and it's not even like I have many friends to turn to, because they all tell me the same thing, since none of them have been through this before. What should I do? Please don't give me something stupid, I'm really hurting here.
I knw how you feel... There isnt really that much you can do since you cant help who you love. The only thing that can help is time. I think that you need to talk to your friends and tell them that you understand what they sre saying but that its not that easy and you would appreciate their support. And i have a suggestion about trying to get over him.... try goingout and hanging with some other guys.It doesnt have to be a date, all it would do is let you get to knw some new guys and see that there are more oppurtunities.. I really hope you feel better!!!
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Hey, I just want to know if it is impossible to love a guy that you never talked to but you know his name?
No, its called love at first sight and it usually happens when you feel a connection or chemistry with someone. I would recommend talking to him and getting to know him. Hope I helped
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well I know when you'r inlove you get the bubbly feeling..but does it wear out? I really like this boy and I liked him for about 2-3 years now and before like the 1st year I got all the butterflies and stuff and now I rarely get them. I know I like him inside...but do u get them all the time..or can they wear out?
It can wear out. alot of people call it falling out of love. But surprisingly... yours lasted a long time since peoples usually oonly stay in that stage for a couple months. There isnt a way to really fixx it unless maybe he can find a way to make it more romantic or something... Try it out or talk to him! Hope I Helped!
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my b/f is a good bit shorter than me and we are going to kiss soon but will this be awkward because i am taller than him?if you have any advice for me please give it,xxaoifexxx
Okay i have been there, done that! It may be the biggest thing on your mind but when you are kissing him you wnt even think about it.The only thing i can tell you is to dip your head a bit but dnt mske it obvious! Hope I Helped!
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i need help! i don't know if im wrong ...ok so i have a boyfrien , and he's nice and everything , but today we went on an argument about him not oppening the car door for me ...am i wrong for wanting him to do it?? even though he's nice and open places doors for me etc??..i told him i'd like that ..and he said :S its not like im going to be your slave or anything! can't you open it yourself??? ...and i was like ..i can obviously , but i would appreciate if you'll do it ....he sad your spoiled! its like i have feelings too! and im a person too why do i have to be all day after you doing evrything for you opening doors for you and for me who will do it? nobody does it for me , why do you have to be better than me ? we are both equal! ... then it turn into a big fight but am i wrong :S??????
You did nothing wrong!! In mean you asked him, it wasnt like you TOLD him hehad tooor anything! I think that he blew it out of proportion and he needs to apoligize for getting out of hand. And if he does apolgize accept it, because its hard for guys to admit they are wrong
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well i dont know, ive said everything thier is to say.
and i dont think anything i say to her really matters anymore!cause ive said it all.
but i guess
i just want her to know
"she is the most imporatant person to me,i do care about her and i have her back more then anyone. i"ll take care of her because i do love her"not just like that but she is my bestfriend
Well I think that you do need to tell this to her, but when you do do something that shows her you really mean it. Has she ever said that she lkes you back?
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im 13, and boys my age are REALLY immature.. so i tend to like boys that are alottt older then me.
like, i like boys that are like 16-17.
is it bad if i dated boys that much older then me?
would be the pros and cons?!
its not a bad thing since most girls do it anyways. The good part is that the guys are alot more mature but the bad part is that usually all they want is sex and sometimes the guy makes you feel like crap because if you dnt do what he wants then he might call you a baby. All i can say is be careful with what guys you go out with!!
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