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Does it..or does it not?
well I know when you'r inlove you get the bubbly feeling..but does it wear out? I really like this boy and I liked him for about 2-3 years now and before like the 1st year I got all the butterflies and stuff and now I rarely get them. I know I like him inside...but do u get them all the time..or can they wear out?
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As you get more comfortable with the person, your feelings change. There are lots of stages in relationships and as you move on throughout the relationship, or even just as you move on in time, you should notice the feelings and emotions changing. As you get more confident, and as you grow older then you will feel different.
Heres the one thing I know about butterflies. You get butterflies as an adrenaline rush, in the nervousness of a knew situation. Actors get them before going on stage and sports players get them before a big game and regular people get them when they like someone. But as an actress, my teacher always told me, that if you dont still get the butterflies, then its time to quit. It's time to move on and find something that gives you those butterflies.
Whether I agree with that or not is hard because I didnt quit acting, when it was time to. And my last memories of the class I was in are bad. So basically, you have to know when it's time to quit, and as soon as you get that feeling of doubt, then yeah its time to stop because otherwise your last memories of something that gives you butterflies will be a sad one instead of the amazing one.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to break up, or stop liking him, it's whats in your heart, and sometimes there are just phases where the butterflies go away, but if you get that opposite feeling, then thats when you have to make your decision.
I know I kinda drifted off that original question, I just had to drop that word of warning quickly. I hope I answered your question and I hope your relationship works out really well. Love ya,
Angie91
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i understan you , imean that feeling doesn't last forever , but its cause your used to have this guy, and things need to have a little of excitment so you'll feel it again but the fact that you don't feel it doesn't mean you don't like him or anything, you can be in love and don't feel it its just that now there's a lot of trust and confidence between the two of you that he doesn't make you feel that nervous anymore, and it doesn't mean you don't love him :)
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It can wear out. alot of people call it falling out of love. But surprisingly... yours lasted a long time since peoples usually oonly stay in that stage for a couple months. There isnt a way to really fixx it unless maybe he can find a way to make it more romantic or something... Try it out or talk to him! Hope I Helped!
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i think you love this guy. =] i know how you feel.
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