Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Is it possible for a second grader to get pregnent. (link)
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hopefully you're not having sex at such a young age, and hopefully you haven't started your period yet. the flow of menstrual blood is indicative of a girl becoming a woman who can carry a baby.
its very very very very very unlikely, but it is possible. stranger things have happened.
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im a blunt bold person, so I asked this guy out last year .....nothing happened, yet I still frequent the store he works at, super low prices ( he's a store manager there)....anyway he just stares at me everytime I go into the store, well today I needed some help finding something and he was the only one on the floor, so I went to him and asked where's the canned corn, he got up and I said thanks assuming he was going to help me, and he turns to me and says I didn't say I was going to help you, so I called him a fukker and he put his head down and showed me where the item was and walked away....wtf is up with his shitty attitude.....he doesn't like me that's fine, im over the crush.....wtf is he acting like such an azz towards me? thanks (link)
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some people just suck. and if he's a manager and acting this way towards a patron, its safe to assume he's either having a bad day. good news is you're over it so no feelings are hurt. but he shouldn't act like that towards a paying customer, so i personally would speak to his supervisor cuz thats just fukking petty.
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I am 17 year old girl and is having a bestie from almost 4 years and I share each and evrything to him and last year on my bday he asked me for liplock and as I feel whatever he does is right so I did it and moving onwards we started being physical but not exactly sex and now he wants to fuck me and he says I promise their would be no harm and I wont do it that hard that your vagina would bleed...I want to know should I go for it or is their any harm?? And he knows my family as well ..he is even one of my faraway relative.but he never ever did anything wrong with me and I trust hi more than my parents. (link)
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This man is manipulating you. HE should not be in control of what you do or don't do. YOU decide if you want to do this. Also, men of 23 years are not thinking of the well being of young females. You are quite a bit younger than this man and it may be easy to see how his way of thinking would make sense, but all he wants is sex. All men do. And they'll say a lot of things to girls to get them to have sex with them. If you trust him that much, go for it. But just remember, men do not mature completely until they are in their 30s. He may seem older and more mature, but he only has one thing on his mind.
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Okay well I guess my topic is self explanatory. I am confused on my sexuality. I am a 19 year old girl and it seems like everyone around me knows their sexuality. It frustrates me that I still haven't figured it out yet. I have liked boys my whole life or at least I thought so until I met this girl who I completely fell for when I was 17. The feelings were more intense for this girl. Nothing I had ever felt for a boy before. Now I am currently in deep like with this other girl. It seems like my feelings for girls seem to intensify and as far as boys it's more of a "oh he's kinda cute" type of deal. I was wondering if you can give me advice on how I can find out who I am? I'm just so confused and I wish I knew so I could try the dating life, but I want to figure myself out first before I do so. Any suggestions? Thanks (link)
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Ask yourself this: are you SEXUALLY attracted to males or females? When you see a cute guy, do you think about the possibility of a relationship and sex with him, or does the thought of sex with a male gross you out? Same with females, would you have sex with one if things got to that heavy point?
When I was your age, I had been dating boys all my life but eventually found a girl I had strong feelings for, as well. I've come to the conclusion that since I am sexually attracted to both male and females, I am bisexual. It sounds like you might be, too. Its also a lot easier to develop heavy feelings for a female because they are emotional creatures, just like you. Your intense feelings are returned with another female's intense feelings. On the other hand, a lot of males have been called "emotionally unavailable" because of their tendency to bury intense feelings they don't understand.
Anyway, don't stress too much. You're young, and whomever you find a relationship with, just as long as you're happy, its going to be okay.
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Hi, im 15/f
I have never had a boyfriend, kissed anyone, or done anything. I'm a normal sophomore girl I just haven't wanted a boyfriend until now and it's getting crazy. I feel like it's my hormones because I get weird feelings.. But now most of the day I'm daydreaming of having a boyfriend and kissing, snuggling and all that. i also don't find blow jobs gross like I would give one to him after a while. But I do find sex terrifying and I wouldn't have that though. No guy has come into my life yet, and i just want him to already. (link)
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First of all, its getting to be winter and this is when we all start to feel awfully lonely ;) It's cold outside and a partner to snuggle with and kiss is a very warming thought. The "weird feelings" you are talking about are probably you being horny. I might get in trouble for recommending this, but try exploring your body a little bit. You might be able to relieve some of the sexual tension.
Modern society has made it unorthodox to be a virgin at your age, on top of not ever having a boyfriend. The fact of that matter is, IT IS OKAY. Every young lady is different and no one's "first time" is the same as the next person's. Everyone will find someone when the time is right; start looking now. Once in a relationship, every relationship is different. Everybody goes through the bases at their own pace. And if the guy really likes you, he WILL wait for you to be ready to give yourself to him. As far as that goes, use a condom and wait until you are truly ready. And (I've heard guys spread around this theory) you definitely can get pregnant your first time having sex. Most important, BE PATIENT! Don't let anyone pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have a boyfriend. I hope any or all of this advice helped you, and I wish you luck.
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Is it harmful to be fingered? What is the worst that could go wrong? What is the safest and most effective way of going about this? (link)
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It is not harmful, it is a form of foreplay. Make sure the person fingering the other person has clean hands and fingers (obviously). The worst thing that could happen is the person fingering could penetrate the other's hymen, or the person being fingered could get an infection from DIRTY FINGERS (refer to top).
I suppose the safest thing to do would just keep doing this instead of having sex lol. And just enjoy it. Have fun! Take care :)
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I'm a thirteen-year-old girl. In elementary school, I was mostly attracted to guys. I sometimes had crushes on girls, too -- but I always tried to ignore the feeling.
It got even worse in seventh grade, when I had a major crush on a female teacher. I couldn't always concentrate on my work because I was staring at her and thinking about how much I wanted to kiss her. I soon decided to accept the fact that I saw girls in the same way I saw guys.
I've identified as bisexual for a while now. I recently started dating a girl who also identifies as bisexual. I have dated a couple guys in the past, but I was never really happy with them. Having a girlfriend now makes me realize how much I love being with a girl.
It's been a while since I was actually attracted to a guy. Now it seems like I'm only interested in girls. And when I think about it, I feel like I would only be truly happy with a girl.
I'm completely aware that I'm still thirteen and that I might be a little young to be worrying about this. But I really wish I knew why I feel this way. Why is it that I was mostly attracted to guys in elementary school but am now hardly attracted to them at all? (link)
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In elementary schools, its a lot harder for girls to explore their feelings for other girls, if there even are any feelings. I'm bisexual, as well, and I didn't start liking girls until I was in high school. Now that you're actually around a girl more, you have more to compare to. If you know you're happier around a woman than a man, don't worry about it. Don't question it. Just revel in the fact that you can identify what you like and you're able to accept it. Some people live their entire lives in denial, regret, and fear of their sexuality. I know its confusing, but we just roll with it. Its not as weird as it may seem.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for over 5 yrs now. He buys epensive designer clothes to himself, but he doesnt buy me any birthday or anniversory gifts. He goes out every weekend with his friends and spend hundreds of dollars on champagne bottles in the clubs, but he does not do anything for me. He keep telling me that he loves me but he doesnt show it. Help me please. (link)
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No where is it written that a man must spend money on a woman to prove the validity of his love. It is his money and he may spend it as he pleases. There are plenty of other ways to prove that you love somebody without buying them a bunch of stuff. Why do you need something tangible to feel confident in your relationship with him? Are materialistic items worth more than loving company? He's been with you for five years. Five years is a long time. If it bothers you, I think you guys have been together long enough for you to delicately bring it up; I just don't know how you'd do that without sounding greedy. Maybe just let him know that a little gift from the heart for your birthday would mean the world. I always maintained I didn't care if a boyfriend got me a stick of gum; if he was thinking of me and bought it with his own money, that's more than I can ask for.
I hope I helped you, and sorry if this entire response sounded rude. I do not know you or your boyfriend, or the extent of your relationship with this man. So if I offended you, I truly apologize.
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21/f This week I got my blood taken because I'm feeling sick and may have mono. My appointment was at 7am. My boyfriend (of one year) knows I was freaking out about it, and said he would come with me for support. I was so happy for the support, but felt bad that the appointment was so early so I told him he didn't have to to go because of the unnecessary early time. I guess I was expecting him to say time wouldn't be an issue, as I would have done for him any day; instead he took me up on my offer. I didn't express my disappointment because I offered to opt him out of it, but I still feel upset with him about it. Am I right to feel this way? Or am I over reacting? Thanks. (link)
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The fact of the matter is that you're a woman. This is what women do. I'm the same age as you. I've told my boyfriend that he didn't have to do something, (even though I wanted him to) and when he would accept my offer, I would feel let down.
Men don't understand that more than half the time, a woman will not tell them what they really want from them. We want them to figure it out for themselves. And when they do figure it out, that'll prove that they really love us.
Lets get a few facts straight here: A) It WAS a very early appointment. 7am is a ridiculous hour and I'm fortunate to not have to wake up that early. No one likes to wake up that early. B) Mono is easily treated and is not a life or death issue. I promise you, if it was something more serious, he would be there. C) He offered to come. Even if you told him he didn't have to, he offered before you even asked him. Your health is on his mind and if he knew you really wanted him there, he would have come.
Even if he wasn't there for the appointment, I'm sure he'll be by your side during your recovery. Just because he can't read your mind doesn't mean you should be upset. So, to answer your question, yes. You're overreacting. But that is completely normal. And this was not that big of a deal. Next time, just be honest and say something like "I would really appreciate it if you were there, but if there is some conflicting matter that would keep you from coming, I understand" I don't know, something along those lines.
I hope I helped! And try not to be too hard on him. He's a boy, after all :)
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Hello, I'm a 15 year old female, currently a Sophmore in Highschool. I have a HUGE dilemma. Let me just say how this all started(sorry for this being a long question):
In 8th grade, a new girl came to school and we became good friends. I llater found out she had a boyfriend 5 years older than her. She introduced me to him and all 3 of us became really good friends. Last year in Freshman year, I realized she treated him like shit and I didn't really like that.. I started noticing how much it bothered me, and I knew she had cheated on him about 3 times. She finally told him, and she broke up with him. Her and I's relationship faded because I realized how much of a bitch she is. But me and her ex-boyfriend stayed really good friends. 3 months after this, he told me he loved me and I realized I loved him too(I know how cheesy this sounds). So we dated for about 6 months, when I accidentally left my Skype open at home and my father read everything we ever said to each other on it. Of course, him being 19 and me 14 at the time, he flipped out. So he gave me a decision to either call the police for sagitory rape and he goes to jail, or call him on speaker phone while he listens to me break up with him. Of course, I chose the breaking up option. A week after, I learned that my old friend(his ex)contacted him and told him lies about me like I never loved him and stuff like that. He didn't talk to me for 3 months and I finally ran into him walking to school. I stopped him and told him everything and he forgave me. So we just recently started dating again, and I think all these events have just made us love each other more. We talk on the phone all night, every night. We always talk about our future together like getting married and having kids. But something is really bothering me. You see, a couple days ago I told him I considered dropping out of school and just getting my GED and going to community college instead of University, so that we could live with each other sooner. And he took this seriously even though I was only thinking about it. I know he's much older than me, which is why he's thinking this, but he told me he's ready to start our life together. I'm not ready yet, but he said that if I did decide to wait to move in with him after senior year, there would be a chance he would leave me because he's not getting any younger and he wants to start his life. I love him more than anything in the world, and I would do anything for him and I don't want to lose him. My life dream has been to get a Master's degree in graphics design at the University of Oregon. But he's pretty much made it clear that there's two decisions: Him, GED, and Community college. Or University, my life's dream, and MAYBE him. This is a huge decision for me though. I really want to drop out and move in with him because I love him so much. But I'm also worried about what my parents will think about it all. But he also promised me that he would never leave me if I decided to drop out, so it wouldn't be for nothing. But my mind is still clouded.
Please, please help me I need assistance. (link)
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You clearly need assistance. Firstly, you are very young. I'm not trying to be condescending, but you are. Every 15 year old girl thinks that she's found the love of her life and everything will fall into place, but I'm here to tell you it will not. If he actually said to you, "If you wait until Senior year to move in with me, I might leave you because I'm not getting any younger. But if you move in with me now, I'll stay with you forever." This guy is a total moron. There are so many things wrong with these statements. First of all, its a contradiction. If he was really going to "stay with you forever", what is the rush of moving in with him now? Doesn't he realize that that will fuck up your entire life? If he stays with you forever, whats the difference between dating him now and moving in with him in 3 years? That's just stupid. Also, the whole "I'm not getting any younger thing" is a dick statement. He doesn't love you if he's rushing you to do something you're not ready for, just because "he's not getting any younger". Well, doesn't he realize that you aren't either? You have more important things to worry about than whether or not your boyfriend might leave you today or tomorrow because you didn't want to move in with him because "He's not getting any younger". I hope you understand what I'm saying. Love is blinding, and it may seem like he really loves you, but those kinds of ultimatums hint at nothing but insecurity and control. You DO NOT need to drop out of school to be with this boy. And I will guarantee you this: He's not going to stay with you forever, no matter what you choose. He's also young, and he will find someone else. It may be months or even years, but there will be another girl. This is not the boy for you. Throwing your life away to be with him is possibly the dumbest decision you could make, and please, don't make it. Tell him you need to focus on your studies. And if he's not willing to wait for you to graduate, then he doesn't love you and he's not worth it.
I cannot stress this enough: boys lie to get what they want. Do you know how many guys have promised me that they would never make me cry? about 5. You know how many of those 5 made me cry? 5. But that's not just me, and that's not abnormal. All of my friends, as well. 15 is a very confusing age. You're feeling real love for the first time but you're first love will not be your last, I promise. There is someone out there who will wait until you're completely 100% ready to move in with him, and he won't complain at all.
Do you really think you deserve someone who is trying to make you quit school to be with him? You should definitely be worried about what your parents would think because I know they didn't raise you to make impulsive decisions based on a stupid boy's half-promise to love and cherish you forever. It's not real, he doesn't love you, I'm not sure what that is, but love doesn't make you choose. And it definitely doesn't try to make you do what isn't best for you. Please think about what I said.
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what to call him instead of his name. (link)
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This is an incomplete question. Please specify what you're asking next time you post a question, because I believe this is the second time you've posted a sentence fragment instead of a question. If I'm mistaken, I do apologize.
Now, if you're talking about pet names, the most common are:
Baby
Babe
Hun
Honey
Sweetie
etc..
If you want something more original, you'll need to specify some things about him. For instance, if his name is Cody, you could call him Code-red. If he plays baseball, you could call him Ace. Get creative with his name and hobbies and something will come to you.
I hope I helped, take care.
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how to makeout with a guy but not frenchkissing (link)
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I never understood why men love to shove their tongues down girls' throats. I've never had much use for it, and frankly, its kind of gross. (IN MY OPINION)
Have you ever heard of a movie kiss? Its kind of a short cut while making out, a lot of lesbians do this, as well; open your mouth slightly, and hopefully your partner will too, and when your lips touch, close your mouth softly and kiss them. Repeat this while adding whatever you'd like: hair grabbing, arms around neck, changing the direction you are leaning your head, etc..
Eventually, it'll feel natural and nice. Its very subtle, and sweet, but you still get the intimacy of making out.
I hope I helped. Good luck!
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I'm a junior in high school and my entire life I've only been into guys. I have never felt an attraction to a girl no matter how long and close I was with her. However, recently I feel like I might have a crush on a very tomboyish girl. It's her masculinity that attracts me to her and her feminine side turns me off. I don't like the thought of boobs and a vagina, but then again, I don't really think much about the penis either. I've never had sex, but I've had boyfriends. I don't think I'll ever like a girl aside from her again. I've only ever had the occasional girl crush, nothing sexual. I don't even know if what I feel towards her is sexual, but I would like to kiss her and touch her.... Am I just curious? Am I bisexual? Is it that I just happen to find butch women hot and that I've never encountered one before? I'm so confused. :/ If a guy touches me I feel all shy and stuff, but a girl it's completely different(as in I don't feel anything, except for when it's her)...Gahh, what's going on?
Oh, I live in a very conservative country in a strict Christian school...we don't have gay people here (or any that are out). Are we born gay? None of my friends really have a problem with it, but I don't think any of my friends are actually gay. How can I tell if she has feelings too? She's a very naturally touchy kind of person....also, I'm pretty sure if I confess to her I will ruin our friendship.
Oh, and just for clarification: I am not interested in a relationship, just experimenting at most. Also, I'm confused about why bisexual people would choose to be with a person of the same gender if they could avoid so much pain and judgment just by being "straight." (link)
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Incidentally, the same thing happened to me when I was about your age. In junior year, it was just a curious, innocent thing. I saw a very pretty girl, (I was kind of a tomboy then) and wanted to do with her what you want to do with the masculine girl at your school. She and I never spoke. The next year, the same thing happened with a more mannish girl, except we became very close. Then she abruptly started ignoring me and it broke my heart. This was when I realized that I was, indeed, bisexual. Obviously, I'm over it now. But what I'm trying to say is this; you may be curious, you may be bisexual, or you might even be gay. The only person who can know for sure is you. If you don't want a relationship with this girl, but you want to have physical contact with her, you could just want to poke at the boundaries of living a christian lifestyle. A lot of girls I know do the same thing. You could also just have another girl crush. But since you're older, you feel more than admiration. You feel a curious lingering sensation when you see her. Do you look forward to seeing her every day? If the answer is yes, maybe you are bisexual, but you prefer to be with men.
Which brings up my answer to your question; the reason we don't choose to live the "easy" way, (by being with a person of the opposite gender in order to avoid public scrutiny and judgement) is because we don't care what the public says. Gay people no longer care, so why should bisexuals? Also, you can't control who you fall in love with. Whether it be a man or a woman, you can't ignore the feeling no matter how hard you try. Which is why people go through that awkward "coming out" stage. They could have just buried it for years and not told anyone, but they couldn't ignore the way they felt towards the same gender. When you loved a boy, could you pretend you didn't? Could you ignore your thoughts about him and focus on someone else? I know I can't. In addition, some of us are born gay. Some of us became gay much later in life. And there are even a few pathetic some that pretend to be gay for their own vain and selfish reasons. You decide if what you're feeling is easy to ignore or not. Then you'll have your answer.
I hope I helped. Good luck :)
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hey, well when your ex tells you that your his first love, do u think he'll ever forget u?
or say that you've broken up around 2 months ago do you think he doesn't still think of me or anything?...
i just still aint moved on (link)
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There's no way to tell whether or not he's thinking about you, but I can promise you this; unless he gets amnesia, he will never forget his first love.
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F/22 Boyfriend is 21
My and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year now. Things were so perfect in the beginning! And even up to a couple months ago they were still perfect. He is an amazing guy, basically the dream guy. Would do sweet things for me, would always want me in his arms, would always kiss me and remind me how much he loves me. Would drop everything if I needed him.
Well, lately that's not been the case :( He's been really stressed lately about several things. I'm pretty sure the number one stresser is things that are happening with his family. I'm also stressed. About several things. But lately its been seeming like our stress is ruining our relationship. We fight, like every day. He's not the same person he used to be. I feel unwanted. I always have to ask him for a kiss, he never lays with me anymore, and when I absolutely need him he won't be there for me. I don't know what has gotten into him. And I know he's not cheating on me i'm 100% positive, he's not that kind of guy.
I'm still so in love with him. All I want to do is try to talk things out. But every time I try to say how I'm feeling he'll say "Why are you bringing this up." or "Why are you always trying to start a fight." "I don't want to talk about this." He doesn't get that I'm not trying to start a fight, I'm trying to fix our relationship! I know he still loves me, because he hasn't let me go and he tells me he will always love me no matter what. I'm being pushed aside, and basically being forced to hide my feelings and emotions cause he doesn't wanna talk about it and figure things out. How can I get him to realize that in order for our relationship to be better, we have to make changes and talk things out.
We're not ready to let this relationship go, but fighting every day is not acceptable. (link)
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Like you said, he's stressed. To guys, when a girl brings up something that the guy is doing wrong, it starts a fight in their head because it means they are inadequate. And being inadequate is unacceptable. He's not being a douche on purpose, he just has other things on his mind. You also need to come to terms with the fact that relationships change over time. There's the honeymoon phase: You guys are kissing and all lovey dovey and you're his number one girl. Well, that fades into the married phase: Even if you two aren't married, you're used to eachothers' company. He doesn't feel the need to constantly kiss you or tell you he loves you because he did it so much during the honeymoon phase, he feels you should know it by now. And you do! Just because he's not saying it, doesn't mean he doesn't care anymore. You said he's not cheating, so what are you worried about? He's not going anywhere. I know you're stressed, too. We all are. But you need to give him time. With everything that's going on in his life, a girlfriend that consistently and relentlessly wants to talk about how he's doing something wrong is just adding to the issue.
My advice to you? Don't worry about it. Give it time for things to tone down a little, he'll start to act like his old self once whatever is bothering him goes away. As for you, just keep reminding yourself that he does love you, he is an American citizen and he has the right to leave you if he doesn't want to be with you, and he hasn't. :) And from what you're saying, he won't. Every relationship goes through rough points, but you just have to push through it. If you love eachother, that's what you should do.
Take care, and breathe easy!
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I met this guy last year, so I've only really known him for a year, we went to the same school... But now, we have left schools and we're at the same College, I really fell for him, it's been like 7 months since we have spoken, well properly... I'm still not over him :( I can't stop crying over him, every single night, it's like torture, I fall asleep with him in my head, then I wake up and he's the first person on my mind. When I told him I liked him, he stopped replying to all my texts, until I got a answer out of him... Which was "I don't want a relationship, but I'll meet you whenever you want" I don't get it, his friends are such idiots! He's been texting MY friends asking them to meet up with him :/ obviously they aren't going too, whenever I see him, I; Go all weak, my heart starts racing really fast, I go really shaky and I can't get my words out right... He ignores my texts and everything, but he's always looking at me, whenever I see him, he'll keep looking until I get out of sight where he can't see me. He is constantly ringing me off a private number with his friends acting stupid, trying to play a prank but deep down, I know it's them. I just need some advice on what to do? Does he really not like me? I just want to know why he looks at me like that, and he prank calls me... And also, is it possible I love him? I'm only 15 and Female... (link)
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It doesn't sound like he likes you...I'm sorry. The staring at you thing, it might play out something like this, "Oh, there's that girl. She said she likes me. That girl likes me." That's why he stares at you. But if he wanted to talk to you, he wouldn't ignore your texts.
I don't think you love him, I think you're infatuated with him. You're 15, and this is the age where girls go gaga over guys and throw the word "love" every which way. This can also be a really confusing time, especially if a crush doesn't like you back. I was in your place once, too. Trust me, it gets better with time.
For now, I would try to move on before you get in too deep. It doesn't look positive, in my opinion. Guys are weird at this age, too. They like to tease and play pranks on girls that they don't like, just because they know the girl likes them. Its sick and rude and cruel, but its just the way guys are. Like when they pulled your hair in kindergarten as their way of saying "I like you."
Its going to be difficult. So my first suggestion would be to widen your perspective; find another guy! If you're in college, there should be a buffet of guys walking around, waiting for a girl like you. You just gotta look. PLEASE don't waste your time on this loser. Whats better, if you do find another guy to occupy your time, the first guy may or may not start to miss your attention. "She always texts me, why isn't she texting me?" etc..
But like I said before, as hard as it may be, DROP HIM, find someone else, and don't look back. There is plenty of time for you to find a boy that'll treat you so much better than this child. As you said, you're only 15!
Spend a lot of time with your friends and keep your eyes peeled for another cutie. I wish you the best! And if you ever need anything, you can message me.
I hope I helped! Good luck:)
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Katy
Me and my bf have been going out for a while, Im 14 and hes 17. At the beginning of our relationship it was just kissing and hugging, but now hes starting to ask me for sex and I feel like im just not ready and hes not getting it.Sometimes when we're kissing hell put his hands down my pants and start fingering me. I always tell him no but he just keeps doing it. And earlier today I was in his bedroom and we were kissing he starts rubbing my boob and I let him but then he put his hand down my panties and starts fingering me I tell him stop but he wouldnt listen so I pushed him off me and left. I just dont understand why he keeps doing this and why he keeps asking me when every time I say no. I just want to go back to just kissing and hugging, how do I tell him to stop ,and show him that I mean it. Please help me. (link)
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What he's doing is not just rude and inconsiderate, its illegal. If he's doing something sexual to you that you don't want him to do and he knows you don't want him to, and if he keeps doing it, that's called sexual harassment. Its practically rape. You DO NOT need to be with this guy, things could get way out of hand. I understand that its nice to have a boyfriend and you may really like him. But what if he goes further than fingering? What if he tries to rape you? Do not give him that chance, talk to an adult; maybe a school counselor. Tell them your dilemma and they'll give you advice on how to let him off easy. Whether you think he is capable of this or not doesn't matter, he's already doing sexual things to you without your permission. Its better to be safe than sorry anyway. Please, for your own safety, dump him and find a man that respects your boundaries, and therefore, respects you.
Good luck, and I am very sorry you're dealing with this. I hope I helped.
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My boyfriend always calls me very sweet things like beautiful and gorgeous. He sometimes even says im hot and sexy but more in a joking way. I am just wondering about some ideas of things to say back to him. I need some advice on how to respond to those things and what to say back. (link)
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I've heard of a lot of guys liking to be referred to as "daddy" and stuff. But if that kind of freaks you out (as it should), call him one of those complimenting words. For instance, I'll call my boyfriend "handsome" or "good-lookin'". Or, just stick to the usual: babe or baby.
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I have a friend who has a partner,but lately,he has been calling me a lot telling me how much he misses me when he doesn't see me for a while or how much he needs me,in the night when he's in bed he sends me several texts saying'I wish you were with me right now'or'I'd like to spend the whole night hugging you',plus he knows I'm in a relationship so I don't know why he would tell me all these things.All I can do is laugh and asking him to stop talking nonesense,I don't wanna be disrespectful either,because I appreciate him as a friend,what can I say to him? Thanks! (link)
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I know plenty of guys like this. Sadly, being in a relationship doesn't mean anything to most guys. They'll still cheat whether they love the girl (or boy) or not. What you need to do is sit him down when you two are alone. Face him, make him aware that you need his full attention, and that he has yours. Tell him straight up that you've been feeling a little awkward. Tell him that you don't feel right when he says those things you mentioned earlier, and also remind him that he has a girlfriend and its not right. But don't be mean! Tell him you appreciate him and love him AS A FRIEND. And tell him you don't want any more, or any less than a good friend from him. With guys, they don't catch little hints that girls try to send. You have to be up front and firm. Don't sugarcoat anything. Don't beat around the bush. Tell him exactly what I just said, ad-lib wherever you find the need necessary. Its going to be hard, he might get his feelings hurt. He may even try to deny that he has feelings for you. But you're not stupid, you can tell when a guy is into you, right? Right. So, like I said, stay firm, be up front, don't sugarcoat, don't beat around the bush, but also be respectable. Hopefully, this will give him the heads up that maybe you're not so into the idea of cheating on your boyfriend. And that you don't condone him cheating on his partner.
I hope I helped :)
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What does it mean if your sexually attracted to someone I think it means like you like someone but Why they sexually, because Just because I like someone dont mean I wanna Have sex with them. So what does it mean haha like the SEXUALLY attracted part? also what a SEX symbol means? another SEX inserted word? Thanks:P (link)
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if you just think someone's pretty then you're just attracted. if you're sexually attracted then that means you wouldn't mind having sexual encounters with said person.
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