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I'm stuck, I don't know what to do :(
I met this guy last year, so I've only really known him for a year, we went to the same school... But now, we have left schools and we're at the same College, I really fell for him, it's been like 7 months since we have spoken, well properly... I'm still not over him :( I can't stop crying over him, every single night, it's like torture, I fall asleep with him in my head, then I wake up and he's the first person on my mind. When I told him I liked him, he stopped replying to all my texts, until I got a answer out of him... Which was "I don't want a relationship, but I'll meet you whenever you want" I don't get it, his friends are such idiots! He's been texting MY friends asking them to meet up with him :/ obviously they aren't going too, whenever I see him, I; Go all weak, my heart starts racing really fast, I go really shaky and I can't get my words out right... He ignores my texts and everything, but he's always looking at me, whenever I see him, he'll keep looking until I get out of sight where he can't see me. He is constantly ringing me off a private number with his friends acting stupid, trying to play a prank but deep down, I know it's them. I just need some advice on what to do? Does he really not like me? I just want to know why he looks at me like that, and he prank calls me... And also, is it possible I love him? I'm only 15 and Female...
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I agree with the person below me. It seems like you are infatuated with him. Try hanging out with some other friends for a while to try and get your mind off of him. I hope you feel better.
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It doesn't sound like he likes you...I'm sorry. The staring at you thing, it might play out something like this, "Oh, there's that girl. She said she likes me. That girl likes me." That's why he stares at you. But if he wanted to talk to you, he wouldn't ignore your texts.
I don't think you love him, I think you're infatuated with him. You're 15, and this is the age where girls go gaga over guys and throw the word "love" every which way. This can also be a really confusing time, especially if a crush doesn't like you back. I was in your place once, too. Trust me, it gets better with time.
For now, I would try to move on before you get in too deep. It doesn't look positive, in my opinion. Guys are weird at this age, too. They like to tease and play pranks on girls that they don't like, just because they know the girl likes them. Its sick and rude and cruel, but its just the way guys are. Like when they pulled your hair in kindergarten as their way of saying "I like you."
Its going to be difficult. So my first suggestion would be to widen your perspective; find another guy! If you're in college, there should be a buffet of guys walking around, waiting for a girl like you. You just gotta look. PLEASE don't waste your time on this loser. Whats better, if you do find another guy to occupy your time, the first guy may or may not start to miss your attention. "She always texts me, why isn't she texting me?" etc..
But like I said before, as hard as it may be, DROP HIM, find someone else, and don't look back. There is plenty of time for you to find a boy that'll treat you so much better than this child. As you said, you're only 15!
Spend a lot of time with your friends and keep your eyes peeled for another cutie. I wish you the best! And if you ever need anything, you can message me.
I hope I helped! Good luck:)
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