ask laynemayhem

Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
AIM: laynemayhem15
Member Since: November 19, 2007
Answers: 744
Last Update: August 15, 2020
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Thanks! They were never that close because she ditches him a lot, but she always called him her special cousin so maybe she feels that way. thanks for the advice!

Thanks!

You really gave me hope! I don't have words to tell you how close I was to the end before I read what you wrote to me so I can only say THANK YOU!

you are real awesome girl! thanks for making me feel like it is ok to be like this you really REALLY helped me!

Thank you very much

thank you for this I dont even know what words could say how much you helped my keep on trying for a while longer hoping things get better! THANK YOU!

Thank you for SO much hope! Before I came here and asked this it felt IMPOSSIBLE to ever stop cutting, but you have given me so much to think about and shared some of yourself with me. I feel like you saved my life because I was already looking for ways to end my life but now I see hope! THANK YOU!

dont worry, everything is fine now:)

Thank you!

I have only taken it 4 times spread out between 5 years

yhanks

Reading your response has seriously opened my eyes, you're so right I really believe there's such thing as "boy brain" but we love our men regardless :-) . Thank you for taking the time to respond! I appreciate it!

i guess the answer to my question is yes. i waited and when it didnt come i took the tests like you said. all 3 say +. thank you for answering! i would have been too scared to get tests if you didnt answer so thank you!

Thanks, I totally agree and will no longer listen to what these people have to say about this.

Thank you for you honesty and compliments. I really appreciate it!

Thank you so much for your advice! Helped a lot<3

Thank you for the answer, I'd totally forgotten about trying the scrunching technique, which I'm pretty sure could get me there :) I'll also give the loose braid a shot. Thanks again! :)

Thank you!

really? ok...

You are the one who has really helped me:)Thanks!!!!

Thank you.

Thanks i appreciate the advice:-)

Oh ok Thanks(:

thanks..but that's the whole point I know how lucky I am but my confidence had been lowered massively. I cry if I drop a plate or spill something. I get shivers around crowds.I reacted differently to the drug and yeah things could have been worse,that terrifies me. I am so thankful for everything I have. but when I get low things play on my mind Im looking for ways to come out of this.. other than thanking my lucky stars. I want to be happy I just find it impossible right now. Im a positive person. I feel blessed it could have been different. The whole point of this question was seeking advice on how to pick myself back up. But how can I feel that way when I feel violated. I appreciate your insight and if this was another question I would answer the same and everything you said is true I just need to get that into my head. Im just finding it hard to adjust to the change much <3 Jess

Thank you! You really helped me save myself from a bad relationship!

:-)

Thank you for trying but read the last answer and I believe it: No, you will no longer be a virgin. Virginity have nothing to do with what is between your legs. When you are a virgin, male or female, it means that you have NO emotional baggage from sexual encounters, and you have NEVER done anything that could give you an STD. If you have ever given oral, you may have an STD because of it. Therefore, how does it look when you tell someone you are a virgin, then give them a sexually transmitted disease? See the point? If virginity had to do with your hymen, then no guy could EVER be a virgin, and a girl doing gymnastics (or anything else that might break her hymen) would automatically not be a virgin. This is the only way virginity means anything: Keeping yourself completely clean, emotionally and disease-wise, for the person you want to give your virginity to.

Thank you. I gues sthere is no way that won't leave a mess.

thanks no im happy u didnt sugarcoat it. But its not just a phase that all teens go thru, im going thru this much younger and severyly. and im try to eat better and excerise, yoga and whatnot, things to purify myself, but when i feel down, i dont just brush it to the side i feel rly depressed and feel like as u read im kidding myself trying to be positive. im trying my best, i have so many ppl that care about me, so i feel like i cant cut or anything, but for my age its very rare that kids my age hit ROCKKKKK-BOTTOM like i did. and sry for how long my respsonse is i apologize. But im just wandering, is a pshcyward a mental instution? and how and why can u get sent there? thank you

Thank you:)

Thank you for the advice I really aprechiate it

I sure will get backto you !

Thanks. I not sure if I ready now that you mention it. Its like I want to get my first time out of the way or soemthing. He is not rushing me at all. I just feel like I'm letting him now. But, he swears that I can wait as long as I want. I really like this guy and I ready think I love him. But, it will just happen in good time right?

thankyou so much!!

Thank you very much! (I do have weird eating habits, fatigue, and the other things you listed...)

Thank you so much!

thanks, i do want to be just not yet, im still young i shouldnt be having sex i'm only 16, i startedd having sex with my boyfriend when i had just turned 15, im gonna be 17 soon. since then i have been having unprotected sex and it worries me. i want to be pregnant just in the future though. thank you

you don't even know me. i know what i did was wrong i don't need you to tell me k thanks.

thanks i never really thoght of that

Yeah...I don't expect to look like that model I just couldn't find a picture with someone with curly hair. Thanks.

yeah... i dunno, i feel like im not all the way over him yet :\ its hard to pretend he's invisible. he goes to my school and hes around me aaall the time since we're a small school. he's the grade above but i still see him everywhere...

Funny.

Thank you for your advice and yeah hopefully a guy answers so it can help me out more once again thank you.....you were very helpful

Thanks, thats exactly what it is:)

thanks sooo much

Thank you!

Thank you very much! I am leaving him.

okay ,i'm not as weird as i thought . lol . & thanks. (:

haha ,thanks . (:

thank you!

you are SOOOO funny! read the other answer. i still gave you a five for the laugh you gave my friend when i told her what you answered! XD she said "that girl must have smoked a lot of dope!"

I am staying with what I believe. My friend just got checked and has warts AND herpes! she was the one making me feel like i should be doing it like she was! :(

Haha. Ahh thankyóu so much !! I loved ur answer the most. Thankyou so much for taking ur time to answer my question. Yes I'm going to I'm gonna have fun so thanku ! :)

Thank you(:

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I meant it more like do you girls usualy moan or not?

Thankyou, and thankyou for the compliment. (:

Mascara?!? XD im a guy! cheeky little nit :P thanks for the answer!

Thank you :) can I ask my doctor about the anti-depressents without my mum knowing? I'm 16 so I'm guessing I can?

good advice for a young person. Much thought and common sense have been put into this answer. Thanks.

thank you!

Thank you for your honesty!

shut the f*** up.!!

wendy can ask, why cant i? Rating changed from a 1 by L2 moderator

thanks so much!!

great answer thanks alot, i did bu some iron tablets and im starting to feel much better. thanks alot

Thanks, i'm really going to start trying this (:

Well, sorry for not adding the link, I just started using the site and I'm not good with computers. I have no idea how that question was confusing, it's stated pretty clearly. And in case you never went through depression of any type, venting is what depressed people tend to do. It's our thing I suppose, and you might want to remember that the next time you try to give advice for people like us.

thanks :) ..but idk if i can i dont have it in me i love him?

Thanks but there's alot more to tell to understand my situation.

shutup Layne you knew it was me xD leave me alone i needed to talk to someone that HAS a Zune, i've been thinking about what you said. maybe i do need to cal Alexis HAHAHA that would be a great random call wouldn't it??

THANKS SO MUCH!!! I'll try it out ok i tried but it still says it's not a valid video???

thanks, but the problem is now shes pushing me away as her friend and acting like me to other people. kind of like trying to take my place. at first i took it as a compliment but really i mean shes not being herself. i dont really want anyone else like me i like being unique u know at least around my friends.

totally agreed . lol .

Thanks! I never would have thought of a schedule!

Thank you so much, this helped loads and you're right. I do often think about him leaving later. >.<; Thank you once more!

omg wow. im glad you guys are back together and happy thanks so much (: !!.. im sorry to hear you cried for that long i cried during our 8 month relationship</3 .

thanks you sooo much

Thanks for the support!

Thank you =]

thanks :)

Thanks, I'll try these things(:

thanks, ill try that definitly

Thanks!! :)

thanks.

Thanks! =]

Thannnks(:

Thank you :)

thankss

Thanks!

thanks :)

Thanks! This should help!

thanks

thankss :)

thank you.

Well, who wrote it?

yikes hopefully im different

thank you so much! That could help me. P.S-she lives 1 hour away, so your plan might work.

thanks

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