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Hey there!I'm Meg(or Megan).I'm 13 yrs old.I live on beautiful Cape Cod(except when it's the summer,and the tourists come,LOL!).I love to give advice,and my friends say I'm really good at it.My friends came up with this crazy idea that I should go to this site and give other people advice.Whaddya know?I love it!I also think it's good practice,because I want to be a child phycologist someday(I know,isn't that wierd?I'm already starting to think about the future!)I also love music.I mostly listen to Country music like Kenny Chesney(isn't he so hott?),Big&Rich,Gretchen Wilson,and Rascal Flatts.I also listen to some alternative like Weezer,Hoobastank,Jack's Mannequin,and Simple Plan.I know,those are two totally diverse genres!Remember:If you need some good advice,just ask.I will usually get back to you in a day.
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ok well my boyfiend dont talk to me! Its kind of sad really! We have been going out for almost 8 or 9 months..i just dont know if hes scared to talk to me for some reason...how do i make him talk to me...i mean i really like this guy and i met him in school..and now that schools out we talk on the internet...he dont even call me!! please help me i dont know how to handle this!!... im a very shy girl but if he started to talk to me i would talk to him though..
Instead of waiting for him to call,why don't you call him?Just call him up,and start a small conversation(like,"How's your summer going?").Or,invite him to go somewhere with you.Chances are,he's probably shy too.Give it some time,and he should open up and start talking more.Hope I helped!
I really need some advise. Anything would be good. Please help me. I'm 16 years and I dated this guy about a year ago. Me and him were together for a long time. He was my most longest and serious relationship ever. Things got really rough in my family and just over all and I just didnt want a boyfriend at the time so i broke things off with him. It's been a year now and he is with another girl and I have never been more in love with him. I hate myself for breaking up with him and I wish I never did that. I told him how i felt but all he could say was that i hurt him way too much and that he is happy with his current girlfriend. I cry all the time, i miss him so much. I would do anything to be with him again. He is so mean to me. I think he hates me, even though he says he doesn't. It's been a year now that i have been going through this pain and i just cant take it anymore. How do i get over him. I've waited a year now for him. He just doesn't want me back. It hurts so much and I dont know what to do. Someone please help me!
I'm really sorry.Well,you could try talking to him.Tell him that your sorry,and that you wish you never broke up with him.Maybe you both can still be friends.Then,try to move on.This might seem harsh,but it really isn't.
my best friend and i used to date for about a month cuz we liked eachother.. and now that im over him, i keep thinking that i have to like someone.. what does this mean??!(16 F)
You don't have to move on to someone else as soon as you get over the other guy.It doesn't really mean anything.Just,try not to think about it.It's actually kind of silly for someone to go from one guy,get over him,and then immedeatly get another guy!
My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time.
You need to straight out ask him what is up.What he lies about is stupid,I know,but you should still ask him what is up.It's not right for him to be lying to you like that.
okayy .. well call my boyfriend frankie. me and frankie have been together for 5 months. and we have our problems. but we cant stay apart. we broke up once for 2 days and then we both coodnt stand it. and last night we did again .. for 15 minutes .. and we hated it .. we talked about it and we wanna be together.
but frankie's friend tom, likes me. so tom has been telling me all this stuff that supposedly frankie sayin/gonna do (he's goina cheat on me, he wouldn't care if me and tom hooked up) but he's like you cant tell frankie about this ..
could tom just be tryin to get me to break up with franki cuz he likes me. because there was a RUMOR that i liked someone else and franki got pissed. and he got pissed off one day when tom wouldn't stop lookin down my shirt. doesn't that seem like the opposite of not caring if i hook up with tom ..? i think soo ..
that was question #1, is tom possibly makin that stuff up?
and question #2:
me and franki arent perfect. we argue alot. he doesnt always call when he cant keep his plans, and he works alot. and all my friends say i shoodnt take his shit .. but i cant help it .. im miserable w/o him .. ive never liked anyone as much as him .. is it wrong to stay with someone who doesnt' treat you the best, but still can make you feel better than anyone else .. because everyone's makin me feel like it is ...
sorry for lengthh! please help me ..
Tom obviously made up those lies so that you would dump Frankie and go out with him.
No one's relationship is perfect.There's bound to be arguing and fights.I think you should stay with Frankie,no matter what anyone else says.You really like him,and that's what matters.
My friend met this guy and he is the sweetest guy ever and stuff, and im wicked jealous of her, and this guy talks to me about her because they like eachother and they know it and he told her he loved her and stuff and she said it back but idk what to do because im always talking to him about her..like im her best friend so he asks me for advice about what she likes & stuff, but idk...this whole thing is getting to me and getting me WICKED jealous like, its not right to feel this jealous about anything...so what should i do? Should i stop talking to him? should i stop talking about him with my best friend, or should i keep helping them? because this is like tearing me apart...anything helps thanks
The best thing for you to do would be to stay out of it.Don't talk about him with your best friend,or help them.This might sound a little rude,but it will help you move on.Hope I helped!
Okay I was with the guy for over a year. On and off. And this is our third try. I'm pretty sure he liked some other chick.. but couldn't get with her and then asked me out. I feel stupid and yeah.. I don't know what to do.. because he doesn't really call me. He talks to his other friends on the phone and puts me on hold. :\ And he doesn't really show or tell me that he likes me or that he's happy with me.. or anything like that. So i really don't know what's going on. It's just.. "BYE" and I feel like he likes the other girl...and not me anymore. I don't know what to do because I'm not really sure I'm right.
I would talk to him about it.Tell him how you feel about this.If he assures you that everything is fine,then it is.He just may be one of those guys who just doesn't show affection very much.Just talk to him,he should know it's bugging you.
hey im jackie and im 14. and this question is for my friend. she just turned 15 and her ex boyfriend is 14 and they've been going out since october,(8 months) and they have gone pretty far. hes gotten her to give him a hand job and let him finger her, for the first time. before she went out with him, she hadnt even had her first kiss. anyway, he broke upw ith her 2 days ago and she is miserable! he siad it was b/c he wanted to move on. I ;d like to know how to help her get over him. help pleasee
♥ Jackie
That must've really hurt her.Just help her get her mind off the breakup.Go to the movies together,or to the beach.Be sure to let her know that if she does want to talk about it,you'll be there for her.Hope this helps!
ok
im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!
awww,hun.I'm going into 8th grade too.I've only had 1 boyfriend(he turned out to be a total jerk!).Having a boyfriend means nothing.The only way to get a boyfriend is to be yourself.Flirt a little.Most girls don't even get a boyfriend till' highschool.It's completely normal.Just try to focus on having a great time in 8th grade,and less on having a boyfriend.
This guy liked me for several years. He told me and asked me out several times. I started to like him too. We decided to try it out, and for several months we were blissfully happy. And then it all went wrong. I got mad about something I heard about him cheating on me, he got mad I didn't trust him and dumped me on the spot. First issue in our relationship and we're over. He then expected me to be friends with him but I said screw you and blocked him.
My mom reckons he was just using me. I just can't understand why he would, but then why would he give up on me so easily? I know he had liked me a long time yet one bad thing happens and it's over. Just like that. No attempt to work things out.
I tried to make a complete break of him and get him out of my life and for a few weeks I didn't hear from him. Then he messaged me out of the blue and we started talking. And we discussed where it all went wrong, and he said he had been planning to do it for a while but he was going to do in person. Then he said "let's meet and work it all out, perhaps get back together, at least let's be friends" and agreed and went up to him the next day, and he made me feel like a fool by saying there was nothing else to work out. He said he only wanted to be friends again. So I yelled at him that night and said I no longer wanted to try and be friends and he said I was a bitch because we had been friends for so long and I was throwing it all away. I told him it was no longer my concern and if he wanted to work things out, he had to come up to me and do it in person and he was the one who gave up on us so easily. Haven't heard from him since. The truth is, I didn't wanna be friends because I couldn't get over him that way.
We work together so I see him all the time. And I can't get over him even though he's such an asshole and he's probably over me. What should I do? Am I a bitch for not being friends with him? And why would he give up on us so easily if he had liked me so long? That makes me so mad.. I wanted to work things out and he didn't.. I can't figure it out.
thanks.
You are certainly not a bitch for not wanting to be friends with this guy!He cheated on you,and betrayed your trust.You're not the bitch,he is!You were right to say that if he wanted to work things out,he would have to do it in person.If he's not going to do that,he's not going to be a good friend anyways!You deserve the best,and he's definatly not it.
-Lady M♥
I have a clique of 4. We all have been hanging out rather often and having fun together and a horrible thing suddenly happened...I gradually started to have a crush on one of the guys.
When I just got to know him, we both used to keep arguing and keep making fun of each other. I used to find him very irritating and I hated him a lot( and I really mean hate). He just likes to go around making fun of people and whenever he did that to me, I'd scold him.
As time passed, we talked more and he showed a little more sensitive side of him(but he's still darn irritating) and he said and did nice stuff for me which really surprised me. Like for eg, he held my hand and waist when he was teaching me how to dance a school dance. (ok fine duh I know he has to hold my hand and waist) And what the hell..I started liking him. But I know for sure that he doesnt like me. He will never like my type and he seems to be always against how i look, how i talk, how i wear clothes and he always like to tell me bout my hair being too messy, talking too loudly, watever etc. And he just always has this heck-care attitude which is like "i-dun-care-if-you-like-me-or-not-cos-I'm-not-going-to-get-a-gf-and-dun-get-me-involved-in-a-relationship". How do i stop myself from liking him? Cos i just want a nice long lasting friendship among the 4 of us. I really like this clique and I wish to get to know them more. I dun wanna ruin this opportunity to get to be closer to them. But everytime i see the way he acts, the way he walks, its just so ..*sigh*...boyish, manly and cute. I can't make myself hate him again for being so irritating because I've actually like his irritating characteristic as well. Can someone pls tell me how to stop having this crush on him? Its just a crush and i know it'll be easy to get rid of but i need help doing it. so I'd love to see wat advice you guys have to give. :)
It takes a while to get over a guy.Try hanging out with friends.Make lots of plans so you don't start thinking about this guy.If you do start to think about him,just try to shrug it off.One day,you'll here his name and be like,"who?".LOL,good luck!
my boyfreind and i met on canada day when i was visiting poeple in reddeer it was great he was great and we connected great and all but londg distance is hard do u have any type s to make it easier or should i dump him because of the distance
You don't have to dump him because of the long distance.But keep in mind,long distance relationships aren't for everyone!
ok, i have an online friend who i've been friends with for 6 years now and i sort of have a crush on him and i think he does too...he's just an amazing guys but lately he's been moody with me and just an ass sometimes...sometimes he'll be so sweet and tell me sweet things like he likes me and that he wants to be my boyfriend and then the next time we chat, he's such an ass and denies everything he said the last time we talked!
what is that about???? can someone explain?? is he just playin with me? should i just stop talking to the guy?
I guess i should point out that he's never had a g/f, would that have anything to do with it?
ok thanks in advance for any advice given :)
This guy is definatly a waste of your time.If he's nice one minute and rude the next,he's obviously not going to be a good boyfriend.Here's what you do:Talk to him.Tell him how his attitude is making you confused.If he won't tell you why...drop him!
Okay this boy just asked me out and I said yes. I'm 13 and I'm in 7th grade and he's 17 and he's in 9th grade. That's a 4 years age difference so I'm not sure if I should keep going out with him what do you think? I know he loves me he said he said he will respect me and he doesn't care how old I am. He doesnt want you know what, and he's really sweet. I'm sure he really likes me. What do you think of this?
I think you should dump him,even if he doesn't want,"you know what".He's 17,and your 13.He's more mature than you(even if it doesn't seem like it),and he's had more experience.So yeah,you should get rid of him.There are plenty of nice guys out there who are your age.