okayy .. well call my boyfriend frankie. me and frankie have been together for 5 months. and we have our problems. but we cant stay apart. we broke up once for 2 days and then we both coodnt stand it. and last night we did again .. for 15 minutes .. and we hated it .. we talked about it and we wanna be together.
but frankie's friend tom, likes me. so tom has been telling me all this stuff that supposedly frankie sayin/gonna do (he's goina cheat on me, he wouldn't care if me and tom hooked up) but he's like you cant tell frankie about this ..
could tom just be tryin to get me to break up with franki cuz he likes me. because there was a RUMOR that i liked someone else and franki got pissed. and he got pissed off one day when tom wouldn't stop lookin down my shirt. doesn't that seem like the opposite of not caring if i hook up with tom ..? i think soo ..
that was question #1, is tom possibly makin that stuff up?
and question #2:
me and franki arent perfect. we argue alot. he doesnt always call when he cant keep his plans, and he works alot. and all my friends say i shoodnt take his shit .. but i cant help it .. im miserable w/o him .. ive never liked anyone as much as him .. is it wrong to stay with someone who doesnt' treat you the best, but still can make you feel better than anyone else .. because everyone's makin me feel like it is ...
ladym answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 10:41 pm: Tom obviously made up those lies so that you would dump Frankie and go out with him.
No one's relationship is perfect.There's bound to be arguing and fights.I think you should stay with Frankie,no matter what anyone else says.You really like him,and that's what matters. [ ladym's advice column | Ask ladym A Question ]
NeedAdvice21 answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 9:22 pm: hi
question 1: i think tom is making it up. obviously he did that so he would convince you to go out with him if you and frankie break up. tom even could have started that rumor.
question 2: you could do what ever you want with frankie. when you break up, you guys hate it so you are obviously right for each other. also if the fighting gets too annoying, you could just work that out with him. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
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I_am_Neo answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 8:52 pm: Tom is obvioly makeing everything up. If you still have doubt, try a lie detector or look in his eyes. If they dialect then he is liying. Simple [ I_am_Neo's advice column | Ask I_am_Neo A Question ]
advicefashionista answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 8:43 pm: I think that tom is just making that stuff up, guys are like that. He obviously likes you, so he would do something like that to get you to like him.
As far as frankie goes, he cares about you! If he got mad that tom was looking down your shirt, then thats jealousy! So he doesnt want any other guy to have you but him. I would keep him, he might be busy, but there is no doubt that he still loves you!
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