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how do i help my friend through a break up??
hey im jackie and im 14. and this question is for my friend. she just turned 15 and her ex boyfriend is 14 and they've been going out since october,(8 months) and they have gone pretty far. hes gotten her to give him a hand job and let him finger her, for the first time. before she went out with him, she hadnt even had her first kiss. anyway, he broke upw ith her 2 days ago and she is miserable! he siad it was b/c he wanted to move on. I ;d like to know how to help her get over him. help pleasee
♥ Jackie
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That must've really hurt her.Just help her get her mind off the breakup.Go to the movies together,or to the beach.Be sure to let her know that if she does want to talk about it,you'll be there for her.Hope this helps!
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um tell your friend to get a hold of herself and that he aint the last man on earth!shes only 15 and um shes still goin to grades 10,11,12 and college um i think shes gonna meet a LOT of guys by then dont ya think??she has to let go of the past if she wants to have a future and realize that noones worth it.
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There's not much you can do. Just tell your friend that you will be here for her every step of the way. And even though you don't know exactly how she is feeling, you will try to. Broken hearts suck BIG TIME. Just try to boost your friend's confidence. And if any guy wld get what he wanted, and then say he wants to move on, he is pathetic and totally not worth it. Believe me, boys at her age are losers. That's all they want. I know first hand. =/
Just remember that there is so many good things about your friend, and if one stupid boy can't see it. He was never important. Try to be straight with your friend and tell it like it is, but as nicely as possible. Cuz one day she needs to hear it. Even if she gets bitchy, that is the only way it will work.
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Make sure you are there for her because she really needs you right now. You are going to hear a lot about him for awhile and you might get sick of it, just make sure you listen. Try to plan a girls night out, just you and her, maybe even a few close friends (that are girls), go to the movies, skate, whatever she likes to do. That way you can try to get her mind off of it so she'll know she doesn't need him to have a good time. Let her know there are other people out there; just keep telling her she can do way better then him.
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It sounds like they used each other a bit, but he more so than her. I know shes heartbroken, but one of her mistakes was she shouldnt have gotten this physically or emotionally attached so young. Just be there for her and remind her that shes young and there are so many other guys out there for her. And that this isnt the end of the world, as she may think..
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