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my boyfriend
Okay this boy just asked me out and I said yes. I'm 13 and I'm in 7th grade and he's 17 and he's in 9th grade. That's a 4 years age difference so I'm not sure if I should keep going out with him what do you think? I know he loves me he said he said he will respect me and he doesn't care how old I am. He doesnt want you know what, and he's really sweet. I'm sure he really likes me. What do you think of this?
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girl, he 17 in the 9th grade. first you suppose to be around 15/14 to be in the 9th. if you 17 you suppose to be in the 11/12. im not tryin to be smart but what the hell happen to me to let him FAIL so much. my judement to this question is just be carfull.
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girl, he 17 in the 9th grade. first you suppose to be around 15/14 to be in the 9th. if you 17 you suppose to be in the 11/12. im not tryin to be smart but what the hell happen to me to let him FAIL so much. my judement to this question is just be carfull.
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Any guy who wants to date someone that much younger then them has some kind of hidden agenda. Meaning he might say he loves you and doesn't want sex, but really one day he is going to say stuff like "I love you, you will if you really love me" etc. Dating an older guy puts you in a more likely position to do things you might not be ready for. I know you like him but it would probally be best if you two were just friends.
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ok well let me ask you this .. do you really know a lot about him? do you always feel safe around him? anyways even tho you're really happy with him you can't trust him .. you know how the world is now these days so just be friends with him. who knows what he could do to you .. because you never know..
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I think you should dump him,even if he doesn't want,"you know what".He's 17,and your 13.He's more mature than you(even if it doesn't seem like it),and he's had more experience.So yeah,you should get rid of him.There are plenty of nice guys out there who are your age.
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If he's not pressuring you into sex and respecting the fact you're in school and whatnot and, most importantly, you are comfortable and happy with the situation then it's pretty unusual but not necessarily a huge problem. Some 13 years olds mature quickly and some 17 year olds are still quite young in themselves so if that's the case it's not all that weird.
Be a little careful until you are sure you can trust him and introduce him to your parents as soon as possible to avoid them freaking out and also giving you someone else to look out for you. We haven't met this guy buut listen to your parent's opinion of him. Though they can go overboard being protective sometimes, they have your best interests at heart and are, shock horror, usually right about boyfriends.
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to keep ya'll safe from any kind of rape charge against him you shouldn't tell anyone that you really think will bring the police into the situation!!! best of luck!!! xoxoxoxoxo
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I think its fine... as long as he NEVER presures you to do anything that you DON'T want to do. As long as he doesn't want to start doing things that is past your age limit, like sexs, drugs, alcohal[sp hahah] Then, I think its all good. I'm in 7th grade & 13 too [well soon to be 14 & going into 8th but same thing.] & I dated a 9th grader before.. & he was all sweet at first, & then all he was about was he kept pressuring me into do things I didn't want to do. But, you'll probaly find that with any guy you date. But, its alot worse if someone older is saying that, because there suppose to be maturer. & as long as your sure he really likes you, then its ok. I hope everything works out! Bye =)
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Hey,
Well personally, I think that that is really cute.
Age isnt an option in love. I mean if he told you that he doesn't mind about age, and that he loves you and will respect you, then I wouldn't worry about it so much.
If you say that hes really sweet, and that you KNOW that he loves you and that hes not just going out with you for "you know what" then stay with him.
You two could probably be together for a long while.
Hope I could help you out,
Brittany.
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Just be careful. That's all I can say.
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