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Okay so my friend met this guy...
My friend met this guy and he is the sweetest guy ever and stuff, and im wicked jealous of her, and this guy talks to me about her because they like eachother and they know it and he told her he loved her and stuff and she said it back but idk what to do because im always talking to him about her..like im her best friend so he asks me for advice about what she likes & stuff, but idk...this whole thing is getting to me and getting me WICKED jealous like, its not right to feel this jealous about anything...so what should i do? Should i stop talking to him? should i stop talking about him with my best friend, or should i keep helping them? because this is like tearing me apart...anything helps thanks
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The best thing for you to do would be to stay out of it.Don't talk about him with your best friend,or help them.This might sound a little rude,but it will help you move on.Hope I helped!
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oh cmon let your "best freind" be happy yourr gonna fall in love one day too!! how would you like it if your friend was feeling like you are now? youve got something she dont and vice versa so if you claim youre her best freind you should act like one and be happy for her cuz what goes around comes around
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now you know the right thing to do would be to help them and not to tear them apart by talking about eachother. its really not worth losing your friendship over this. i just wouldnt talk to him as much. im not rying to be mean or anything but i think the reason your getting jealous is becuz he is such a great guy and everyone gets jealous. dont take that personally. you have to be happy for her. keep helping them. its the right thing to do. just dont talk to him to much so he doesnt make you go over the edge with jealousy.another thing. try just to be with your friend without her boyfriend more often if you dont do so allready. that should cool you off.
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The jelousy thing is perfectly normal, trust me, it is how you handle it. You should help this guy get with your best friend. Try your hardest to be happy for her. I know it might be hard but try to put your feelings aside. I hope everything works out ok.
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That usually happens all the time to girls. Getting stuck in the middle is tough, especially when you like the guy. My advice is to think of him as a friend, not a boyfriend. Give him advice if he needs it, be pretty normal. Just control the jealousy. Do not wreak your friendship with ur friend. Friendships are awesome to have and majorly important. You could mention it to her....but keep it casual.
Whenever you get jealous remember friendship.
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You know the best thing you could do is tell your friend about the crush you have on him and tell him so all three of you can work it out!!! Believe me I know I've been through it myself!!!
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Feeling jealous is totally understandable. You're kind of caught in the middle and all you're hearing is stuff about them. How about talking about You and what you like once in awhile. If they are SO close and saying ILY then they should be talking to each other!!! You don't need to keep helping at all. Next time either one starts asking you stuff, just say - Hey go ask her/him! And don't feel bad about it. You have a life too. It's nice that you did that in the beginning, but you don't have to do it forever.
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