If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I've never had a boyfriend, and I know for a fact this guy is going to ask me out this week. I want to say yes, but what do I do? Just say yes? (link)
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Just do it. Smile and act glad to go.
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ive been talking to this guy for almost 2 months. we have sex and everything, and im 17 and hes 20, but weve been friends ever since we were little kids. and we wouldnt be able to have a relationship because people would say stuff about it and i dont like that. and now i think im starting to develope feelings for him and i dont want to if we cant be anything.. cause im still in high school, and i dont think he has feelings for me cause he has a history with girls, like cheating and stuff.. and i dont think hes in for that.. and since im younger, i think he just wants to have sex and thats it. like when we have sex as soon as were done, he puts his clothes on and drops me off.. but when i talk to other guys, he gets mad and i dont know if hes acting like he cares.. what do you think? (link)
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He gets jealous because he knows that if you go to another guy, that might be it for him. Or maybe he just doesn't know to be affectionate and hold you afterwards and crap. But keep an open eye for his actions, not his words. Talk to him about it, but notice his body language, eyes, and not really what he says, but more the tone of his voice.
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Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal? (link)
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Y'all just can't legally have sex. The SWAT team isn't going to swoop from the ceiling of the theater if you take her to the movies.
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2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.
Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me
Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out
Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me
Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks
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I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose? (link)
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Nobody can tell you who to pick. I don't know either of these two people, so answering your question with a definitive choice would be just a guess. I will say that you should pick the guy that you enjoy being with more. Who do you connect with? Who do you feel really cares about you? All guys are gunna have good and bad points, so you have to ask yourself which guy's bad points are more tolerable. Good luck.
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I am an 18-year-old female and I feel as though my boyfriend controls me. He limits the girls I can talk to and talking to guys is definitely out of the question. In turn I feel as though I should do the same to him, so I do. Except I won't simply tell him to not go out at all. I will tell him to not go out 5 times a week, get drunk with his friends and pick up underage girls. Yet, I still feel guilty for telling him not to do this because I feel as though I have stooped down to his level and that I am now controlling him. He makes me feel this way as well. I love him, we are very close and have been dating for a long while, but what should I do? (link)
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Men, in case you haven't noticed, usually like to be in control of things. You say that you love your boyfriend, but I'm not so sure he loves you. A guy who loved you, not only wouldn't try to control who you talk to, but wouldn't do the above things that you also mentioned. It boils down to this:you either accept this as a flaw of his and continue to date him, or it's too much for you and you find another guy. I can't make this choice for you.
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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him". (link)
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Naw we don't mind. But only if you're hott.
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do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks? (link)
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No, we don't like just a skeleton with skin on it. I like a women in shape, but not bone thin. If you look sickly thin, that's even worse than being fat.
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yeah, this might be long, and from my viewpoint its pretty confusing so leave now if you want...
okay, im a sixteen year old male to begin with, and ever since i can remember, ive had five best friends (and i mean BEST, these five people mean more to me than anything else in this world). these five friends consist of four girls and one guy (the guy has nothing to do with this so you can forget him). Well, the problem is that near the end of last year, the girls all started fighting with eachother, even though theyd all been the best of friends since forever. the group ended up split apart, with two girls on one side, two girls on the other, and me and my guy friend stuck in the middle while still being best friends with both sides....so here comes the complicating part...for the whole time i can remember, ive really liked one of my friends (lets call her girl 1). well, girl 1 has always acted like she doesnt want to be more then friends with me. so now one the girls from the other group (girl 2), has told me that she likes me...so i asked her out and weve been going out for a month now. well, ever since i asked out girl 2, girl 1 hasnt spoken to me at all (by the way, the two groups of girls hate eachother a LOT)...so ive been trying to find out why girl 1 hasnt been talking to me...and it turns out that girl 1 really likes me....which sucks because im already going out with girl 2....i want to talk to girl 1 again because i love her to death, but i dont know how to do that...she wont answer her phone when i call, ive sent her emails, text messages, and even stuff through myspace...im about to just go to her house and show up with some flowers or something to show her that i still love her to death, and that the only reason that i didnt choose her is because she acted like she didnt like me....but im afraid that my girlfriend (girl 2) will find out and be mad at me for somewhat obsessing over getting my friend back....what should i do? any help is appreciated... (link)
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This is the toughest question I've ever answered on this website. And I've answered quite a few if you look at the bottom of my page. You have to ask yourself:Am I only going out with Girl 2 because Girl 1 is being stupid or do I really like her? If you don't like Girl 2 as more than a friend, break it off regardless of what Girl 1 thinks. Don't have Girl 2 as a gf if you don't honestly like her that way. Girl 1 sounds really confused about shit. But when you say she has always acted like she didn't want you, did yall ever actually talk about that? Or did you just assume? Go for the girl you truly like and if it doesn't work out with either, then it doesn't. No big deal and move on. Hope I helped ya, man.
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a guy i work with likes me...he asked me if i wanted to go out on a date with him and i was like, ok..because i wanted to give him a chance. well i didnt see him or talk to him for like a week and then today at work he was like, "sorry i didnt call you my grandpa was in the hospital this week" and i was like aw ok. then he got this girl i work with to deliver me and card and roses to my register asking me out again...the thing is, after this week of thinking about him i really dont like him! i guess i could hang out with him, but i dont like him and i dont want to like him because hes going to school away from home in like 3 weeks! how should i tell him i dont like him in a romantic way? (link)
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Go out with him anyway. Just give it a chance and if you still feel that way, then be honest with him. Tell him what you're thinkin.
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I'm a twenty year old female who finally gave herself to a guy. I have always been worried about having sex and getting pregant the first time. My mother always told me that you have to have an orgasim to get pregant. Is that true? (link)
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No, if it was a lot fewer girls would get pregnant.
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this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!! (link)
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Go out with him. If he's a loser, then don't see him anymore. But if a guy's gunna ask you 7 or 8 times, at least give this cat a chance.
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I dont know wat I should do. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and for his friends 18th birthday he is inviting all his close friends to his party at a stripclub, and my boyfriend is invited. I first heard about this when I was on my boyfriends myspace. My boyfriend go an invite and had told another friend that he should come as well. I didnt think i should ask about it so I just kinda decided to wait to see if hed bring it up with me at least. A few days later he told me that his friends wanted him to go but he knew that I wouldnt want him to so he wasnt going. But he also told me that his friends were trying to convince him to go and just not tell me anything about it. Im glad he told me and Im even more glad that he said that he wasnt going to even if I gave him permission, but Im still a little nervous. I know he wont hook up with girls there, and I trust him but Im worried hes going to go behind my back. I heard from a friend of his that he had told them he was going. What should I do? Do i confront him? I really dont want him to go but I dont want to be unreasonable. I dont think its right if we r in a committed relationship and hes out looking at other girls... Am I overreacting?
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Contrary to popular opinion, strip clubs are not demeaning to women and it doesn't mean your boyfriend is going to cheat on you just because he likes looking at other women. Men are visual, we like looking at other women. Women don't find the thought of men stripping that attractive and frankly, neither do I. But the bottom line is you can't stop him from going sweety. You can give him the "Do whatever you want" line, which he will interpret that to mean what you say. You and I both know what you really mean, do what I want. Let him have some fun at the strip club. Besides, it's all a moot point anyway because you gotta be 21 to get in a tity bar.
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Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what? (link)
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Don't avoid this. Tell him "You creep me out, dude. Don't say shit like that to me anymore, ok?" If he doesn't get the message now, you have a problem.
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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.? (link)
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It's the other way around.
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16/f
ok so there is this guy! and well i hungout with him today with my two cousins because thats their neighbor. and so we FLIRTED SO MUCH. im not even kidding listen..we would always punch each other then we wrestled and hes like allright here i'll give you a head start..you can sit on top of my so i was like straddling him and then he like grabbed me and put my over his shoulders and like pinned me down and got really close =) and then he kept taking my phone and i would have to chase him and jump on him and then he would grab me and just all that kind of stuff! we were boxing and like he would throw me down and "body slam" me on the couch haha. and i sat on top of him! just that flirty/touchy/sexual stuff like that! and like everytime my cousin would go and punch him or something hed be like noooo dont do that! but i could? haha. i kinda feel like he is attracted to me or something or just really likes flirting with me? but guess what...HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND and he was doing all this with me? she is at her cabin right now and sometimes tonight i felt like he was kinda my boyfriend or something. =) the whole girlfriend thing throws me off though..what do you guys think? what should i do? keep flirting or what. i know he isnt a player or anything or a "PIMP" but i dont know why he would do this with me when he has a girlfriend. hmmmm...and like he kept putting my phone down his pants and rubbing it down there lol and then he put it in my mouth and my cousin is like ahhh you pratically should just give him a blow job and we just laughed about it.
but id like to get your guys' advice on this whole deal. thank you so much (link)
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What do you want my advice on? He obviously wants to sleep with you and is working hard to do it. I'm always too lazy to do shit like that with girls. It's your choice whether you disgrace yourself by falling for his charms and eventually sleeping with him. If he has a girlfriend and he could cheat on her, what does this tell you? Don't do anything. Be mean if you have to.
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So there's this guy at work (we're both 17) that I really like. When ever we work together, I always talk to him, sit with him on my break and stuff. My other 2 friends that work with him in his department keep joking around that we should hook up, which makes me wonder if he talks about me or has told them something. I also don't want it to get out that I like him because he's a good friend of mine and i don't want it to be weird at work if i did make a move or if he knew I liked him. I gave him my e-mail address 30 days ago, so like a month ago, and he never did anything with it. no e-mails or anything. so i don't know if he does actually like me like that and i would prefer not to have to tell anyone about it 'cause i don't want him to find out......
What should I do??¿?? (link)
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Hey, ask him out. Be clear that it's a date. And that way even if he says no, it didn't get weird between yall. Nothing happened except you didnt go out. Guys usually call or email if they care about you, but I don't like talking on the phone or shit like that, so that doesn't mean anything. Give it a try. He seems like he's not a complete loser.
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I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige? (link)
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In a word, no.
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I was making out with this guy on my couch the other day and within like 2 min. he well, got a hard on. Isn't that a little weird? I mean, if you were just making out with a girl you wouldn't pop it within 2 min, right? He's 17. (link)
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It's not that uncommon. It just meant that you REALLY turned him on.
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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me! (link)
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Ok, pay close attention here. Put yourself in your parent's shoes. They love you. They've known you since you were a baby girl. Cute, pretty, dance recitals, blah blah blah. Now you're 15, you think you're grown up, and you like,not love, this guy that has a criminal record and a past with drugs. Would you let your daughter go out with this guy? At 15, your emotions and hormones are at a high. And it only gets worse later. Rate me a 1, but this guy's a loser. You like him b/c he's got that badass factor. Besides that he's 19, you're 15, he doesn't want you for your mind. He wants to sleep with you, honey. Listen to your parents, they've been around the block longer than you, they truly do care for you, unlike the druggie.
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Hey, um I was wondering, do guys like, uh more " hands on " type flirting. Say if we were just friends at an amusment park, and I got scared and grabbed his hand, would that creep him out? Also, do guys like it if I touch theirs arms when I say hey and stuff? Plus, if I hugged my guy friend goodbye, would that be okay? I'm trying to get us at the next level, your advice is appreciated. =] (link)
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Guys are really pretty easy to figure out. We like to be shown interest. I don't think he'd freak out if you touched his arm when you said hey, in fact I think he'd like it. He's not gunna say "Let go of my hand" when you're at the park because he wants to be viewed as your protector. You're scared and you turn to him, he's gunna like that. It's fine to hug guys. I get hugged some, but it doesn't always mean they're interested. I mean if you're ugly, the guy is much less likely to be interested in you. Sorry, but that's the ugly truth.
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