hey my names amy im 18 and experanced many things in my life though being excepted within friends, all kinds of emotions, sex, realtionships, bullying. never be affaird to ask for advice day or night
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Location: leeds, west yorkshire
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Age: 16
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i have a friend . he isnt like my tightest friend, but anyways, we hooked up a few times and i admit it was fun. but, he isnt the commitment type of guy. i told myself thats it no more with this guy, but it seems in the moment when he makes a move, i return it back and we end up hooking up. i think its because i still like him, but i want to resist hooking up with him next time because its always the same thing. good fun, but its like he uses me and thats not a good feeling. anny tips on how i can really put my foot down and end this? (link)
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i no how you feel and the emontion you are feeling this is a great time to relie on your friends next time when hes around and hes making a move ask him out (do you wanna see a movie) explain that you only want friendship and if that doesnt work say sorry i have plans to meet a friend and look to spead more time active and round friends who like you and not out to gain or use you.
If you dont do it now guys will continue to use you though your adult life and you will never learn to apprate real love and affection i hoped i helped.
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ok theres this guy and i like him and he was talkin to me n hes gonna ask me out tomarrow but hes not a virgin n ive never even kissed anyone but i dont want him to no that ..can u give me some advice on how to make out and "stuff" if u no what i mean (link)
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ok the only issue i have here is just because he isnt a virgin doesnt mean you have to rush into things. If he asks you out make sure its a date go out n chill and always assure your safe.
Growing up and experimenting such as making out is natural.
Kissing - take it slow kiss on the mouth and go from there follow his lead every one kisses differently however if you dont feel conforably stop !!!
Making out can also be about hugging, holding hands and being together gd look
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I'm a Junior (16) and male. Never had a girlfriend; i'm the outspoken-nerd stereotype. Somehow everybody thinks I have a social life, don't know where they got that idea.
Anyway, there's this girl (we'll call her Kylie). She's heavily into music theatre (as am I), and we're both pretty good, so that's plenty of starting ground. To say I have feelings for her would be an understatement. At this point, I get lost. I don't know where to go from here because I've never had a girlfriend before and don't really know exactly what the procedure is (if there even is one). I've (perhaps unwisely) tried to keep my distance while remaining friendly as I've had too many experience getting on the "friends" list for life. In addition, I am really (really) scared of hurting her. She means the world to me, and I don't use that phrase lightly. A positive comment can literally make my day.
Anyway, I guess I need to know what to do from here. Some specific examples would be nice... what has worked for you. Keep in mind that I'm not at all the agressive type. It would be best for any action on my part to be able to be interpereted several different ways, that way if I determine no interest I can feign some other excuse. Basically, anything that reveals my feelings without really revealing my feelings (as stupid as that sounds). Should I just become her friend and hope I don't get shoved in the friends abiss? I also want to go slowly. Very, very slowly, because I am about scared half to death here. Help me out!
Any thoughts? (link)
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your outspoken personitity is the key and leeds your peeps to believe your out going and different in which is the attraction to yourself. However havent ever meeting this girl i can not tell you how she feels it could be one of two ways shes shy and keeps herself to herself or out going and doesnt care what people thinks the next step for u is to approch this girl and talk to her make conversation like i hear your in to music theater and look to becoming friends. To be successful in a realtionship such as dating its starts from friendship good luck
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Okay, here's the deal. I'm satisfied with my appearance. I'm down to the weight that I want to be. I've been told that I'm pretty before by my friends. ... But guys never approach me or anything. I've been told that I'm shy as well, and I try to take that into consideration, but I'm not sure what's wrong with me. I'm in eighth grade and I've never had a boyfriend. Please help. I give fives. (link)
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Theres nothing wrong i didnt have a bf till i was 16.My advice would be although ur growing up and a BF WOULD SEEM TO BE THE NEXT STAGE look on developing yourself work on your conforance (dont become big headed) be active taking part in sport of any activitys and look to make friends with a guys and girls. Dont rush into things although your growing up teenage bf doesnt equal a real grown up relationship which takes time to develop and problem solving and dealing with bills, work commitments.
When you do get your first bf it would be special and worth while. :)
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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you have to clearly and firmly tell him NO and explain that your not ready if he continuely does this after u told him take a look at ur realtionship and if it is a friendship aND YOU DO HAVE THINGS IN COMMON AND SHARE THEM respect yourself and dont do anything to try and keep him sexual your worth more then that
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okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE! (link)
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So u like him what u gna do??? I cart tell how ur feeling but im sure u was hurt when this took place. Try get him by himself or text him and ask him if u can meet and have a laugh and spend timetogwther this may not b possible with his new girlfriend around but no matter which way u go about it if u wnt answers ask him !!!!!
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I'm a 20 year old female who has been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and been living with him for 2 years. Before we got together I had a 1 night stand with his brother then I cheated on him with his brother 3 times, (he only knows about 2) Everytime it has happened I told me boyfriend cos i was scared his brother would tell him 1st. I pretend infront of everyone including my boyfriend that i hate his brother but i secretly wanna be with him. His brother called me the other day and i told my boyfriend cos i was scared it was a test, and when I saw his brother at work (the 3 of us work together) we made plans to meet after work and 'talk' but i know it would've went further. (my bf wasnt at work that day) I can't stop thinking about his brother and I eally want him to call me again. I love my boyfriend heaps but I don't know why I feel this way about his brother. I think I love them both....what should I do? Please help!!!! (link)
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what is ur bf still doing with u? u've hurt him, cheated with his brother. U need to sit down and work out what u want from a realtionship and if ur current bf can give u that with out u cheating or if its time to move on. If u want to b with his bother tell him, But stop cheating on ur bf he will be very hurt and will find it hard to trust gfs in the futhur
i hope u make the right dissicion 4 u and stop hurting ppl u love
best of luck
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I'm a 14 year old girl, and I constantly fantasize about older guys...sexually. I haven't done anything about it, but they're in my dreams, while I'm in school, and I've talked to some online. Is this common? Is there a certain reason why I keep thinking about them this way? (link)
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ur feels are normall we all fantazie about it. Its nornal men do it to. But u have to relasize there ur dreams. dont go act on every1. Save it till u find mr right or some1 u love
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I have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else,what should I do? (link)
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fallow ur heart. But seems to me u dont tyake ur realtionship seriously. Its about being witha loved one and having fun. Dont play with ppl hearts. Let ur guy down gently and c wot happens with the other.
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i have never been out with anyone younger than me, but i thought i would give this boy a chance. i am in year 10 and he is in year 9 i know i sound young, but im really into all that romantic stuff, like kissing (like ross and rachel do in friends)and i feel like all he wants to do is get as far as he can with me, he is really really good looking and could have virtually any girl he wanted. i was out with him and his friends and they were all watching us pull and he kept asking if we could go further,(id like to say we've been going out properly for about 3 days) i really like him but i dont think he likes me for the right reasons, what should i do? (link)
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You are two young to find romance i just worked it out and im 16. You will have many bfs b4 u find love. And even true love as its ups and downs. I think this guy only wants to make out and maybe further bbut u are yung . 16 is legal age and if he is a year younger he can still be done for underage sex because his 14 and u r 15? Three days is not a long time to be dating. If ur relationship is to work u need to do more then kiss go out to the pictures and have a laugh. Dont make out all the time keep it for a specail occaction.
its up to u
take care
by friend2all
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I am a lesbian woman struggling with my weight and i feel that most lesbian women are only interested in slim women. My self confidence has never been so low until recently. Nowadays, i ve been feeling that i m not attractive enough for the women that i am attracted to and i have decided to wait until i m physically where i want to be but that will take a while i dont know if i can wait that long. What is the best advice out there for a woman like me? (link)
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then let me prove u wrong. Im bi sexual and i arnt into looks i look to c how much fun ppl have together
susan5052@hotmail.com ill send u my pic right back. Get to no me and i will open ur eyes to the fun that is all around u big girl or not
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I'm on my friends name but i am 14 and i need help with my relationship. We have been dating for 9 months and well, things are kinda going down hill. i have a girlfriend and she says she doesnt flirt with this other guy. even the teachers say they do. well my friend is the girl that my girlfriends boyfriend is flirting with she denies everything but i dont know. who do believe? (link)
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ask her if she says she doesnt then u need to think if u trust her or not. If u dont trust her y u together. My opinon is dont listern to rumours ppl make things up all the time.
by friend2all
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aaalritez.. im a 14 year old girl..im dealing with this guy.. ive been going out with him off and on for a while.. first 4 months.. now.. i forget.. i lost track.. anyways.. in february.. i was put on lockdown.. so i couldnt see him as much.. we talked a lot though.. but now i find myself getting bored of him.. but we have a history..n i would feel bad about dumping him.. what do i do? (link)
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even tho u r young u have to b true to urself. Talk and tell him that u feel u are better of friends
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BTW~ this is a question I asked earlier but I'm repeating it cuz I continue to search for more imput. *'s are additions
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
*muah*
***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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why do he have to be a bf? it doesnt matter wot u look like and im glad ur smart at school it willl help with ur future. Y cart u be friends? u get to talk still go to movies have a laugh. If hjes a druggie? is he 13 to? that is way young and illegal to sell drugs i think ur going down the wrong path if u wanna b with him. Do lead him on or have sex with him i sure he likes u as a mate and my opinon is to stay only friends
gd luck
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I just met this guy today and he's really sweet and nice ,ect...But the problem is when he's around me he gets kinda ,no very speachless, he's 16 and he just asked me out, I hardly even know the guy and now hes wanting to go out with me and I need help, I'm 15 and looking for the right guy,but waiting a long time !!!!! Help me , Should I give him a chance??? or should I look for the right guy by waiting.... PLEASE answer by tomorrow!!???? (link)
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i say go on the date its mite be fun dont keep lookin 4 love at such a young age only a small personage marrage there childhood sweetheart Have fun telll us how it goes
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what would u do if your son was at home. Crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry and the only way to feed is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money. (link)
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isnt that a snog???? but seriously this is 4 ppl with really problems
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My bfs the best and we have sooooo much in comon and i wanna be with him forever but is it tru tht oppisites attract if so thn y did we find each other i belive in everything happening for a reason and tru love evenmore but if this is tru
i want show that itz a wrong saying because we are together 4 ever am i wrong to make people think this but itz my opinion am i wrong (link)
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oppistite do attact but so do ppl who have a lot in common dont worry
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me n mi friend letz call him bob r a little extra friendly. and everyone says we have sex at school. n i asked him out n he said yea but then we broke up...me n bob r like best friendz n we like talk about stuff n sometimes when were extra friendly i like it...iz there something wrong with me?
just the other day this kid said in front of me that i was going out with bob and bob came and he said i dont see u with a gurlfriend so did he say we were going out or what? (link)
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what is ur ages???i cart give my true advice with out ages its important u need to decide if ur suited to bein gd friends or more. If u are younger then 16 i dont advicwe u to be touchin one another in that way. If u dont wanna be boyfriend its not just about sex or touching its about enjoyin each others company and havin a laugh goin out talkin. I think u would b best suited bein friends dont spoil ur friendship and annor the kids that say u are havin sex wot do they no?? just walk past them and dont give then any notice take care and lots of love
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my friend always touches me on the wrong places like my ass or my breasts n i dont know if he does it on purpose or not. he likes to jump on me n when i am laying its like he is trying to have sex with me but i tell him to stop and sometimes i think if i tell the teacher he is going to get mad or something. the thing is he broke up with his girlfriends for me n every1 thinks he likes me but i dont like him that way hes like a realli good friend but i dunno what to do
signed CoNfUsEd GuRl (link)
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sit him down and tell him u dont wanna ruin ur friendship but u dont want him to touch u in that way. if he is a true friend he wil understand if he gets mad then walk away and tell ur parents and teachers they will tell him and warn him about the serious things about what he is doing be strong and sticjk up for your self i hope things work out for u take care and lots of love
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i like this guy and i had a boifriend at the time and i liked him also n i asked out the one guy and he said no bcause of all of these rumers about me and this other guy and me having sex with all of these different guys but i never had sex with anyone and i found out mi boifriend told tons of people that i gave him head and that we have done it alot of times and one of mi guy friendz told me guyz alwayz talk about me in the locker room...a few other guys that barley know me saw me after skool n came up 2 me and they kept talking 2 me and kept saying stuff like o i am feeling horny and stuff and i would try 2 bak away and the other guy pinched mi ass and yelled no pantie line bcause of mi thong and whenever i talk 2 a guy they keep touching mi arm and stuff...........is there something wrong with me? if it matters i am a 6th grader (link)
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ur ex boyfriend was lying to his friends to try make him look big in front of his mates. Sex is a big thing to everyone and if ppl thought that a boy and girl wasnt having sex there was something wrong which their isnt. The guys that come up to u and ask such questions areimmaature be4cause they havent done it and are just as scared of losing their virginity. I promise this will all carm down soon and if it doesnt tell a teacher u souldnt have to put up with it. As for wanting a bf as i tell many ppl look to make good friends and see if it turns into anything more. these kind of realionship seem to last longer and if u break up u will still have a stong friendship take care and lots of love
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