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Guy Prob
BTW~ this is a question I asked earlier but I'm repeating it cuz I continue to search for more imput. *'s are additions
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
*muah*
***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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Hi! my name is flirty( well everyone calls me that).
One way you can tell if he likes you is if he stares at you and then looks the other way when you look, or if he chokes up and blushes when you talk to him. Sometimes eye contact is the key to figuring it out. Most guyz and girls can't make eye contact when they like eachother. Another way you can tell is if he flirts with you. (footsies, touching, being close to eachother, etc). Also, he can sometimes ignore you and pay attention to everyone else. Ther is also teasing, poking, bothering, etc. Also, yes, sometimes guyz are prejudice of small boobs,butts,etc. It can affect how he feels about you. He might be looking for girls that are big in boobs, but small in size. Sometimes, guyz do really care abput that. But i think if he really likes you, he won't care about that at all! :) :P ;) :D
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Hello!
I think that, speaking from personal experience, most people that do illegal drugs and are constant users are abusive.
Maybe he s not that way though who knows...
Anyway i feel that the way to know a guy likes u is if u can burp and fart around the guy and he s still there. If ur comfortable being with this guy u shd be able to talk about anything and just share ur worries that u shared on here with him.
Let him know ur insecurities, ur fears, and ur feelings. sex is important in a relationship but it is not so important to the fact that u can t wait. there are other things the two of u can do to stimulate each other, but that s if u and him get serious enough to even get to that point.
Just know that u r perfect the way u r and if he doesnt think so then it s his lost not yours!
WOMEN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURES IN THE WORLD AND U R NO EXCEPTION TO THE RULE!
NO Worries :)
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Instead of worrying about this pothead boy, I think you need to reevaluate your priorities in your life. You are a 13 year old girl! You are still a kid. You definitely should not be out drinking, or thinking about sex. This boy you like is a druggie, he is not going to achieve his amazing aspirations with that kind of life. You should take a break from boys for a while, I think you still have a lot of growing up to do. Kids your age are not mature enough for romantic relationships. You will be amazed in the next 5-10 years how much you will change your views of life and what really is important.
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I think that you should talk to him and ask him what he thinks about a relationship . If he says yes, then give it a try . If he says no, leave him alone . If you two get involved with each other again, don't get involved with drugs. I think that he respects you , and that is a good thing .
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why do he have to be a bf? it doesnt matter wot u look like and im glad ur smart at school it willl help with ur future. Y cart u be friends? u get to talk still go to movies have a laugh. If hjes a druggie? is he 13 to? that is way young and illegal to sell drugs i think ur going down the wrong path if u wanna b with him. Do lead him on or have sex with him i sure he likes u as a mate and my opinon is to stay only friends
gd luck
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Well if you broke up with him and you can't remember why...
I disapprove of the druggie aspect immediately, but if you like the guy...*shrug*
To know if he likes you at all, you're gonna have to ask him, honey. It's the only way to find out for sure.
as for the ***~ part, guys really shouldn't care. Besides, you're THIRTEEN. I didn't develop a solid B cup until this year, and I'm 16. Guys that really care about that are shallow idiots. =)
-Siren
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