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I feel lost =S
aaalritez.. im a 14 year old girl..im dealing with this guy.. ive been going out with him off and on for a while.. first 4 months.. now.. i forget.. i lost track.. anyways.. in february.. i was put on lockdown.. so i couldnt see him as much.. we talked a lot though.. but now i find myself getting bored of him.. but we have a history..n i would feel bad about dumping him.. what do i do?
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even tho u r young u have to b true to urself. Talk and tell him that u feel u are better of friends
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When I was 14/15, I dated a guy for a year and a half. He and I had a lot of history together, but, just like you, I began to get bored with the relationship. Eventually, I broke it off with him. He was hurt at first, and though I had been the one to end it, I felt pain and sadness as well. In the end, he and I became friends again, and both of us are now happily engaged to other people who are better suited for us. Moral: go ahead and end the relationship if it is not right for you, and everything will work out in the end.
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You've expressed that you have doubts and negative feelings towards the relationship. If you feel that it doesnt feel right to YOU anymore - well then you should end the relationship. It may hurt badly because of your history together but it will be for the best in the end.
You dont want to end up staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons, then you may just end up resenting this guy even more and the relationship could end very badly, with a whole lot of hurt feelings and it will be worse the longer you let it go. End things gently and move on with both of your lives.
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You need to break up with him if you don't feel a spark or connection anymore, he will be hurt but the longer you wait the harder it will be for him and for you. So get the job done soon!
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